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A Short Guide to a Happy Life [Hardcover]

Anna Quindlen
3.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (158 customer reviews)

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Book Description

October 31, 2000
"Life is made of moments, small pieces of silver amidst long stretches of tedium. It would be wonderful if they came to us unsummoned, but particularly in lives as busy as the ones most of us lead now, that won't happen. We have to teach ourselves now to live, really live...to love the journey, not the destination."

In this treasure of a book, Anna Quindlen, the bestselling novelist and columnist, reflects on what it takes to "get a life"—to live deeply every day and from your own unique self, rather than merely to exist through your days. "Knowledge of our own mortality is the greatest gift God ever gives us," Quindlen writes, "because unless you know the clock is ticking, it is so easy to waste our days, our lives." Her mother died when Quindlen was nineteen: "It was the dividing line between seeing the world in black and white, and in Technicolor. The lights came on for the darkest possible reason....I learned something enduring, in a very short period of time, about life. And that was that it was glorious, and that you had no business taking it for granted." But how to live from that perspective, to fully engage in our days? In A Short Guide to a Happy Life, Quindlen guides us with an understanding that comes from knowing how to see the view, the richness in living.

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Editorial Reviews

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"I'm not particularly qualified by profession or education to give advice and counsel," confesses author Anna Quindlen, as she begins this tender little instruction book. "It's widely known in a small circle that I make a mean tomato sauce, and I know many inventive ways to hold a baby while nursing, although I haven't had the opportunity to use any of them in years."

It is precisely this commonplace form of wisdom that make readers trust and respect Quindlen. She uses her candid, heart-to-heart narrative voice along with her novel-writer descriptive skills to show readers how good we have it: "Life is made up of moments, small pieces of mica in a long stretch of glittering gray cement." Later she urges readers to "Look at the fuzz on a baby's ear. Read in the backyard with the sun on your face." The format smacks of "gift book," with an abundance of pleasing, artsy photographs. Don't be ashamed to fall for the packaging, though. This is one of those books that could remain in the living room for years or in the family for generations. --Gail Hudson

From Booklist

The beloved Newsweek columnist on how to get a life. Little as well as short. Ray Olson
Copyright © American Library Association. All rights reserved

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 64 pages
  • Publisher: Random House; 1 edition (October 31, 2000)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0375504613
  • ISBN-13: 978-0375504617
  • Product Dimensions: 5 x 0.5 x 7.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 4.8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 3.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (158 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #10,974 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Anna Quindlen is the author of three bestselling novels, Object Lessons, One True Thing and Black and Blue, and three non-fiction books, Living Out Loud, Thinking Out Loud and A Short Guide to a Happy Life. Her New York Times column 'Public and Private' won a Pulitzer Prize in 1992. She is currently a columnist for Newsweek and lives with her husband and children in New York.

Customer Reviews

Anna Quindlen always writes a good book, even a short one. Kris Ruocco  |  21 reviewers made a similar statement
So I'm puzzled as to why this little book was published. lindyjulie  |  3 reviewers made a similar statement
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272 of 280 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Inspiration and More November 4, 2000
Format:Hardcover
Tuesday I was at the bookstore when it opened to buy this book. I bought a copy for myself and one for my daughter, then went to sit on a bench overlooking the ocean to read it.

This tiny gem of a book contains many thoughts that are just common sense until you see them written down. Then they become points to ponder, to think about and mull over in your mind and heart. Which is exactly what I did after finishing...I sat and looked out at the sea, thinking about what I had just read.

Much of the text of this book was part of a commencement address that Quindlen was to give at Villanova. She released the speech after she cancelled and I have been told that it was so well-received that she was asked to put it into book form.

This is a book to savor and to read over and over again and to give as a gift to a loved one. I plan to return to the bookstore to buy several more copies.

Some of the thoughts in the book:

On life: "there will be thousands of people doing what you want to do for a living. But you will be the only person alive who has sole custody of your life. Your particular life. Your entire life. Not just your life at a desk, or your life on a bus, or in a car, or at the computer. Not just the life of your mind, but the life of your heart. Not just your bank account, but your soul."

On being a mother, a wife, and a friend: "I show up. I listen. I try to laugh."

On being charitable and good to others: "if you do not do good... then doing well will never be enough."

And on living for today: "I learned to love the journey, not the destination. I learned that it is not a dress rehearsal, and that today is the only guarantee you get."

Quindlen talks about leading a balanced life and not making work one's entire focus--she says "you cannot be really first-rate at your work if your work is all you are." and "Don't ever confuse the two, your life and your work."

Her thoughts on mortality, which Donald talked about in his review, are powerful-- and applicable to all of our lives.

I certainly think Quindlen herself is a first-rate writer and thinker, and thank her for the valuable lessons in this book.

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225 of 232 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Good common sense applied November 10, 2000
By A Customer
Format:Hardcover
This is a great little book. It seems like we all know what the aurhor is saying but we need a gentle reminder each day. If you are looking for a gift for a loved one, I would recommend that you buy this book and the book An Encounter With A Prophet and combine the books as one gift. Little is the only negative about the entire book. I wish there was more of it
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115 of 119 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars "Don't ever confuse the two, your life and your work." October 31, 2000
Format:Hardcover
Most books take the vantage point of the author being an expert in the
subject or a celebrity. A Short Guide to a Happy Life claims to come
from neither foundation, even though the Ms. Anna Quindlen will be
well-known to many for her best-selling books and Newsweek
columns.

Instead her perspective in this book is a humble and common
one, that of someone who experienced what we will all experience in
due course, but at an earlier age -- the loss of her mother to ovarian
cancer when her mother was 40 and the author was 19. That early loss
changed Ms. Quindlen's perspective on life, and she thinks it will
eventually and should now change yours, too. "Do you think you'd
care so very much about [your career] if you developed an aneurysm one
afternoon, or found a lump in your breast while in the shower?"

She describes her qualifications for describing the happy life,
"I am a good mother to three children. I have tried to never let
my profession stand in the way of being a good parent."

"I am a good friend to my husband."

"I am a good
friend to my friends, and they to me." ....

Now that you have
the perspective, what is Ms. Quindlen's prescription for you:
"Get a life in which you are not alone." "All of us
want to do well. But if we do not do good too, then doing well will
never be enough."

The simplicity and ordinariness of that
perspective gives it a power and eloquence that the expert and the
famous person cannot command.

But what was remarkable for me was
the insight that she shares with us, that I would never have developed
on my own....Basically, without awareness of mortality, we would
continue to waste our lives in pursuit of things that are not really,
after all, so important. This is what makes this a five star book
that you should read immediately . . . and remember for all the
remaining days of your life. It will make a wonderful gift for those
you love, and help bring you closer together.

Let me quote just once
more: "Life is made up of moments, small pieces of glittering
mica in a long stretch of gray cement." What a shame it would be
to miss one of those moments. If you skip this book, you will have
missed one, I'm afraid.

The message is powerfully reinforced by the
many beautiful black and white photographs of nature, companionship,
and youth in the book. Be sure to enjoy them, as well.

After you
have finished reading this book, sharing it with others, and changing
your priorities, ask yourself a new question: If I only had today,
what would I do differently? Then ask that question every morning.
You'll be glad you did. So will we all.

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5.0 out of 5 stars Wonderful
I received this book after my mother passed away, She had wrapped a copy for me and one for my brother. Read more
Published 7 days ago by Florida mom
3.0 out of 5 stars A disappointment, but still Anna
I am a great fan of AQ, but this is a disappointment. First, it's super-short; much more space is occupied by sappy pictures of children and dogs than copy. Read more
Published 14 days ago by Charles Dillingham
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5.0 out of 5 stars Awesome inspiration!
Great short read full of powerful inspiration without dragging out her life's tragedies you just understand where she has been and where she is now.
Published 17 days ago by drjulie
5.0 out of 5 stars A wonderful, uplifting, and inspiring book
I have 4 copies of this book, plus the original which was given to me by a dear friend, and give them to friends and family when they seem to need a little reminder of how lovely... Read more
Published 1 month ago by San Francisco feet
1.0 out of 5 stars Way too short for the money
What she says is great but OMG i was 11.99 and took 10 minutes to read!? This was my first kindle purchase and I was so upset that it was this short. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Kelsey McGinley
4.0 out of 5 stars good
Anna Quindlen always writes a good book, even a short one. Already happy, it was a good reminder of what I have right in front of me.
Published 2 months ago by Kris Ruocco
1.0 out of 5 stars Very dissappointed
I was expecting something charming to share with a friend especially for the cost! Very run of the mill and I would not recommend.
Published 2 months ago by amiable
5.0 out of 5 stars easy nice simple read
this is a simple sweet book that gives much inspiration as it does anything else. highly recommend for anyone as a gift graduating high school or college.
Published 2 months ago by Carol R. Montgomery
5.0 out of 5 stars Fast turnaround
Got my order very quickly. The package was great; books arrived in perfect condition. One of the greatest little books for inspiration I've read. Would recommend to everyone. Read more
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