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Helie Lee (Author)
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April 23, 2002
A breathtaking true story of a rescue mission undertaken by a young woman and her family in one of the most repressive countries in the world.

Helie Lee often had heard her grandmother speak of an uncle, lost decades ago when he was a child during the family’s daring escape from North Korea. As an adult, he was still living there under horrid conditions. When her grandmother began to ail, Helie became determined to reunite her with her eldest son, despite tremendous odds. Helie’s mission became even more urgent when she realized that her first book, the bestselling novel Still Life with Rice, about the family’s escape, might have angered the North Korean government and put her uncle in danger.

Pushing through rivers and forests, fighting the cold, bribing and manipulating border guards, gangsters, and secret service agents, Helie and her father finally achieve their goal. But there are many hurdles. Her uncle is forced to make a harrowing choice: leave his North Korean family behind or continue to live in oppression and starvation away from his beloved mother. And Helie has to face her deep, sometimes ambivalent, emotions about her identity in the family and as a Korean American woman. Unmarried and outspoken, she struggles in Korea, where women marry early and keep silent, and writes eloquently about the landscape there, both literal and cultural. She comes through a heartbreaking love affair only to face an intense and confusing relationship with the Guide—the man who, despite being crude and macho, ultimately helps to save her uncle and eventually his extended family through several daring acts of heroism.

In the Absence of Sun is a riveting adventure story and a powerful tale of family bonds and reunion.

“An eerie fear crawled through my flesh as I stood on the Chinese side of the Yalu River, gazing across the murky water into one of the most closed-off and isolated countries in the world. I couldn’t believe it. Even as my boots sank into the doughy mud, I had trouble coming to terms with the fact that I was actually standing there. . . . I was not prepared for the kind of despair and insane fear I felt that day. My wizened old uncle looked nothing like the sweet-faced teenager in the faded photograph that Halmoni kept pressed between the pages of her Bible. That day, at the Yalu River, staring helplessly into his terrorized face, I hadn’t fully realized what a dangerous thing I had done the year before. I had placed him and his family in danger. By including details of my uncle’s life in a book, I had alerted North Korea’s enigmatic leadership to the identity of my relatives in a nation where it was better to remain invisible.” —From In the Absence of Sun


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Lee's bestselling debut, Still Life with Rice (1996), created quite a stir. It chronicled Lee's grandmother's 1950 escape from northern to southern Korea during a civil war that separated the Koreas and tore Lee's grandmother's family apart, as her eldest son, Lee Yong Woon, did not make it out of the north. Lee (who was born in Seoul, South Korea, and now lives in Los Angeles) used her uncle's real name in Still Life and included his picture. Once that book became available in South Korea, Lee's family was notified that her book had placed her relatives in North Korea in danger. Nonetheless, Lee promised her grandmother that she would see her son again, thus undertaking a daring mission chronicled here to reunite the family. The account is a gripping and inspiring one, and Lee's prose resonates with a poetic sensibility. She also brings a distinctly American perspective to the entire situation. At times, the author's desire to make the story her own (including a long segue into her relationship with her boyfriend) steal some of the swiftness and urgency from a story that ultimately belongs to her entire family. But an all-out thrilling escape story, complete with dangerous border crossings, unexpected romance and touching family moments, makes for a terrific and beautiful chronicle. Lee reflects, "I believe one family, one person, one action can make a difference, because we are all connected. When we realize this connection, peace is possible." B&w photos not seen by PW.
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Young, hip, and successful, Lee lives in Los Angeles, has written a best-selling book (Still Life with Rice), and has a rich boyfriend in Hong Kong. But she still had something she wanted to accomplish: to reunite Grandmother Halmoni with the last of her sons, the one still in North Korea. Time was of the essence since Halmoni was in her mid-eighties and weakening. The project demanded detailed planning, four long trips, dangerous bribery, and many hardships, along with endless delays, unexpected events, and unremitting anxiety. To relate her experience, Lee uses an overwrought style that makes us wonder whether she is exaggerating (are economy-class seats on airplanes that horrible?), but her story and background information on conditions and places in China and Korea are compelling and truthful. We learn a lot about Lee herself, especially her love life, and about being Korean American. Recommended. Kitty Chen Dean, Nassau Community Coll., Garden City, NY
Copyright 2002 Cahners Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 360 pages
  • Publisher: Three Rivers Press (April 23, 2002)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1400081386
  • ISBN-13: 978-1400081387
  • Product Dimensions: 9 x 6.5 x 0.9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.3 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.2 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (20 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #311,861 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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7 of 8 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars A land divided; a family reunited, April 26, 2002
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The Korean reunion that Helie Lee writes about in this book is significantly different than those scheduled for late April and ealry May 2002 in North Korea. Those are government-sponsored and end after three days, an experience that must be glorious and agonizing all at once. Lee was determined to reunite her family permanently. To do so she had to smuggle nine people out of North Korea, not an easy task! It took eight months to make it happen and Lee got a thorough education on all kinds of unusual things, including dealing with the Korean CIA, bribing North Koreans, evading Chinese security checkpoints and more.

The story is powerful but not because the outcome is in doubt. The mission was completed (with several false starts and many roadblocks, both literal and figurative). The rescue received widespread media attention, including a Seoul Broadcasting System four-hour documentary and an ABC Nightline story that included secret footage shot by Lee. The book is captivating because of what it took to make the reunion happen and because of what we learn about the author both personally and via her identity as a Korean and an American. In the end there is success for the Lee family as their separation comes to a glorious conclusion. But for millions of Koreans the wait continues.

Next summer marks the 50th anniversary of the armistice in Korea that halted the three-year Korean War and brought an uneasy peace to the ravaged peninsula. Since that signing the Korean War, which claimed some 30,000 U.S. lives, has largely disappeared from the American consciousness and is often known now as "the forgotten war." But the war's impact will not soon be forgotten for the people of Korea, living in a divided land. The war split not just geography, but geneology too, breaking apart families from their land and from each other, breaks Koreans have been hoping to heal for the half century since. Helie's Lee's powerful account of such healing provides hope for all who one day would see the peninsula again reunited.

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10 of 13 people found the following review helpful:
3.0 out of 5 stars Compelling story, poor writing, September 26, 2003
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How could this true life story not be compelling? Multiple people risking their lives to get 9 strangers out of North Korea, one of the most brutal states in the world. Con artists, mercenaries and missionaries, oh my!

An awesome story to tell. But written here by a childish, sheltered and self-centered woman who fancies herself a writer and almost destroys all feeling for the richness of the story and the people involved. I didn't read Lee's first book, "Still Life With Rice" which reviewers here thought was better than "Absence" so I can only judge her as a writer by this book.

At the same time I couldn't put the book down because I had to know what became of these wretched people, I cursed the sloppy story-telling and infernally affected self-referencing throughout. Me, me, me, all about Helie. What a spoiled, boring woman, I thought. I would like to have read this story as written by a much more talented and worldly author. Even as one of the protagonists of the drama, Lee brought nothing to the table, even detracting from the story with her limited knowledge and experience of Korean culture and the world at large.

With a story like this one, the book could have been great. As it is, it's hardly adequate. Having stories to tell does not make one a storyteller. Perhaps Lee should consider a co-author for her next book about her family's heroic exploits.

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5.0 out of 5 stars Highly Recommended, May 10, 2002
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This is a very engrossing story that moves along like an action-adventure story. I think the fact that Helie Lee wrote it in such a personal way only helps the story: you come away amazed by her courage and resolve. The style is quick-paced, absorbing and captivating. Most importantly, the book raises the awareness of North Korean refugees and shows the world that it is a human story that affects millions of Koreans and Korean Americans. Lives were at stake and big power politics recede into the background, but the commitment, love and dedication of a family triumphs.

And the author's personality and character are really impressive. Helie Lee is a plucky Korean American gal who has to put up with a lot of cultural conflicts and dangers. Through it all, she is vulnerable, sensitive, determined, strong, quick-thinking, courageous and ultimately full of love and devotion for her family. She is even witty. In the end, the reader comes away respecting Helie for pulling off such an courageous journey. I highly recommend this book for its overall quality, readability, and genuineness in revealing the power of a family's love to overcome divisions and scars that have haunted Korea for 50 years.

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