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Actually, It Is Your Parents' Fault: ...that your romantic relationship isn't working. (Here's how to fix it.) [Paperback]

Philip Van Munching (Author), Bernie Katz (Author)
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0312377975 978-0312377977 January 22, 2008

The ultimate relationship repair from the bestselling author of Boys Will Put You on a Pedestal (So They Can Look Up Your Skirt) and a psychologist with decades of experience

Every committed relationship goes through rough patches.  What’s the difference between those that move forward and those that disintegrate?  Knowledge, effort and a desire to strengthen the bond. In Actually, It Is Your Parents’ Fault, Philip Van Munching and Bernie Katz cut through unhelpful self-help trends to lead readers to self-knowledge and to show how:

--Even your earliest childhood experiences dictate who you fall for

--The unconscious aspects of your personality both attract and repel your partners (often at the same time)

--Your history indicates how you’ll fight, how well (or poorly) you’ll communicate, and how you’ll deal with tough times

--To use insight into yourself to fix your relationship

With humor and sound advice, Van Munching and Katz can help any reader on the road to a happier romance or marriage.

“A useful tool.”—Library Journal

 

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“Clever self-help…[delivers] fresh insight.”—Publishers Weekly

“A useful tool.”—Library Journal

About the Author

Philip Van Munching is the bestselling author of Boys Will Put You on a Pedestal (So They Can Look UpYour Skirt) and of Beer Blast. His writing has appeared in a number of publications, including the editorial pages of The New York Times and the Chicago Tribune. Until 2006, he wrote the “Devil’s Adman” column for Brandweek.  He lives with his wife and two daughters in New York City.

Bernie Katz, Ph.D. is in private practice on Long Island, New York, where he counsels couples as well as individual patients. He is also a professor at Nassau Community College.  He was previously the co-host of a live daily television show, “State of Mind”, on the America’s Talking cable network.  He lives with his wife in Plainview, New York and Phoenix, Arizona

Product Details

  • Paperback: 288 pages
  • Publisher: St. Martin's Griffin (January 22, 2008)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0312377975
  • ISBN-13: 978-0312377977
  • Product Dimensions: 8.3 x 5.4 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 9.1 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (3 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,539,144 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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5.0 out of 5 stars Enlightening for Everyone considering marriage or married, July 18, 2008
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This book is a comprehensive, entertaining look at how we develop beliefs and behaviors around relationships, what attracts us to marriage partners and the stages that we go through. You will see yourself and your partner in this book and be equipped with new ways to approach the "bumps" that will empower you to have a great relationship with realistic expectations of yourself and your partner. A MUST READ!
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5.0 out of 5 stars Constructive Help, September 26, 2010
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I love the union of the psychologist and writer that has made this book useful and an easy enjoyable read. Not only is human behavior explained simply and clearly in pshycological terms, but excercises guide you through how to begin to change negative behaviors. There is no quick fix to relationship problems, hard work and serious reflection are needed to change and this book is a great guide as to how to do that work.
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A great book for finding out why you feel/behave the way you do - great for looking forwards and creating a fresh start for yourself.
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My friend Sara was foolish enough to tell her mother that she had started seeing a therapist to help her work out her relationship problems. Read the first page
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