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Advance Your Swagger: How to Use Manners, Confidence, and Style to Get Ahead [Hardcover]

Fonzworth Bentley
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Book Description

September 25, 2007
“My manners were the first ingredient that set me apart from my peers,” notes the suave and stylish Fonzworth Bentley, Sean “Diddy” Combs’s former personal assistant and a celebrity in his own right. Now, in this one-of-a-kind book, Bentley shares his surefire strategies for success.

Just how does a guy move from Atlanta to New York City without knowing a soul in the entertainment industry and become, in less than two years, the P.A. to one of the biggest moguls in hip-hop history? Bentley attributes his accomplishment to one key equation: Manners + Confidence + Style = Swagger. With this formula, Bentley transformed himself into an icon of unflappable grace, elegance, and good manners–and now he’s on a mission to help you step up your game, advance your swagger, get ahead, and live out your dreams.

Inside you’ll learn everything you need to know about

• manners and the magic of Please and Thank You
• the art of eating well, from which glass to use to handling the napkin
• the basics of fine dining, whether you’re a host or a guest
• the do’s and “oh no you di’int’s” of cell phones, e-mail, and text messaging
• projecting confidence through your body language
• the power of introductions, even when you can’t remember someone’s name
• what to do before, during, and after a job interview
• body maintenance, from hair to toes to pearly whites
• the principles of timeless fashion, so you never go out of style
• 15 things every man and 15 things every woman must have in his or her closet
Plus “Bent Hints”–little things to keep in mind for any occasion

Though we seem to be in the midst of what Bentley calls “the Golden Age of Disrespect,” he demonstrates how we can add a touch of class and dignity to our lives. He’s here to make sure your color schemes are fly and your stance is stage-ready.

Filled with photographs to illustrate his lessons, Advance Your Swagger is the lifestyle book of the year. He’s taken care of his world–now let Mr. Bentley whip yours into style.

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Advance praise for Advance Your Swagger

“Can this be the dawning of a new Fonz? As hip hop’s self-appointed Emily Post-in-embryo points out, manners not only count, they can open doors. For a culture groomed on celebrity, cell phones, and fast food, Master Fonzworth’s words of advice are both timely and thoughtful. While a thoroughly entertaining read, taken seriously, Swagger could turn any sow’s ear into a silk purse, any frog into a prince.”
–Alan Flusser, author, president of Alan Flusser Designs

“Bentley is the most ‘etiquatted’ person I know. I always ask Bentley for style tips, now he’s sharing his secrets with the world.”
–Kanye West

“Of all the gentlemen that I have known, Fonzworth Bentley is the most refined of them all. His style flawless . . . his etiquette impeccable . . . and his swagger timeless.”
–Cameron Diaz

“Very necessary!”
–André 3000

“The right book at the right time written by the right man.”
–Russell Simons

About the Author

The First Gentleman of Hip Hop, Fonzworth Bentley, Derek Watkins, graduated from Atlanta’s Morehouse College with a bachelor of science degree concentrating in biology, then attended New York’s prestigious Fashion Institute of Technology. After becoming one of the most popular maitre d’s in New York City, he raised his profile as Sean “Diddy” Combs’s personal assistant. He later became the arbiter of good taste for Courvoisier and style and fashion correspondent for Access Hollywood, covering the Oscars, Golden Globes, and Grammys. He was also named one of People magazine’s “50 Hottest Bachelors” in 2004. He is the executive producer of an upcoming album with Kanye West featuring Andre 3000, Faith Evans, Esthero, and Pimp C, among others. Bentley has appeared on MTV’s Making of the Band 2 and in music videos with OutKast, Kanye West, and Usher. He has also appeared in two feature films, Honey and Fat Albert. Fonzworth Bentley lives in Los Angeles.

For information about Bentley’s tour, news, special events, and his Advance Your Swagger contest, visit him online at www.fonzworthbentley.net and www.myspace.com/therealbentley.

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 128 pages
  • Publisher: Villard (September 25, 2007)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1400064538
  • ISBN-13: 978-1400064533
  • Product Dimensions: 7.7 x 0.5 x 9.3 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.2 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (25 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #495,023 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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This book was very informative and the pictures were clear. Bryan J. Rojas  |  5 reviewers made a similar statement
And Mr. Bentley is really good about answering questions on twitter. Paul  |  3 reviewers made a similar statement
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13 of 13 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Trust Me...EVERYBODY Needs To Get This Book! October 4, 2007
Format:Hardcover
Before you read any further, put any preconceived notions that you have about Diddy's former personal assistant Fonzworth Bentley out of your mind. Fonzworth Bentley a.k.a. Derek Watkins' new book Advance Your Swagger is a modern etiquette book that everyone needs to have on their bookshelf. Some of the things you will learn in this book are simply priceless. Some things include: the art of tipping appropriately, how to dine at a fine restaurant, proper cell phone usage, email and text messaging guidelines, and 15 things every man and women should have in his or her closet. There are even pictured examples to go along with some of the tips (i.e. table settings) so that the reader can actually see what he's talking about. Bentley effortlessly teaches you the power of good old-fashioned manners that is often not taught in today's society. This book also includes "Bent Hints" to go along with some of the topics in the book. Advance Your Swagger is an etiquette book that everyone should own no matter how large or small your bank account.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars MY SWAGGER IS ADVANCED September 8, 2008
Format:Hardcover|Amazon Verified Purchase
This book definatly teaches you some fundamental points to becoming the swaggerific person you want to become.
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4 of 5 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars "Something long overdue" December 18, 2007
Format:Hardcover
Derek a.k.a. "Fonzworth Bentley" has taken the time to share things that all civilized individuals should know and care about. In this particular period when so many artists are focusing on the obscure and unimportant, Derek manages to infuse a breath of fresh air into the hip-hop community. I am confident that he has put together a timeless piece of literature!
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars Advance Your Swagger
A man's guide on How to Be a Gentleman, pretty much. Every man should have this on their bookshelf if nothing else. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Temitope Tim Latunde
5.0 out of 5 stars Must read
Everything you need to know to be successful is right here. Mr. Bentley shares his experiences in a humorous and helpful way. Read more
Published 3 months ago by Eri
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent book
When i saw this book in a bookstore, had to buy it online to save money, but it was definitely worth it. Read more
Published 3 months ago by Jon B.
5.0 out of 5 stars Easy read, youth-friendly for males and females!
Looking forward to using it with our Delta youth groups starting with the pre/post test in the rear of the book! Photo illustrations were great, too.
Published 5 months ago by Valleree Roach
5.0 out of 5 stars Mr. Bentley is Fly!
This is a great book for men and women when you are looking to get your dress to impress. His basic etiquette skills are valuable! Mr. Bentley is a man of style.
Published 5 months ago by supernova1908
4.0 out of 5 stars Swagged Out!!
Though concise and surface like, the book helped fill in some blanks that I had about etiquette and things of that sort. Read more
Published 11 months ago by Paul
5.0 out of 5 stars Good book
This is an awesome book & breaks down etiquette in a way anyone can understand. Everyone should read this, manners are cool!
Published 12 months ago by Tiff-Tiff
4.0 out of 5 stars Swag Book.
I brought this just to buy it for my boyfriend. I know fonzowrth be on his fashion heavy and seem like a very confident man. Read more
Published 13 months ago by Danielle Tibbs
5.0 out of 5 stars EXCELLENT READ!
This book prepares you for successGetting to the Root of your Problem: 365 Days of Inspirational Thinking in virtually any industry!
Published on April 23, 2011 by rds
5.0 out of 5 stars entertaining and informative for the manners-challenged
Yes, this is a slim volume full of illustrations and things that might seem to be common sense, such as "don't chew with your mouth open. Read more
Published on October 27, 2010 by Rachel Klingberg
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