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Adventures in Tandem Nursing: Breastfeeding During Pregnancy and Beyond Paperback – July, 2003

ISBN-13: 978-0912500973 ISBN-10: 0912500972

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Product Details

  • Paperback: 327 pages
  • Publisher: La Leche League International (July 2003)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0912500972
  • ISBN-13: 978-0912500973
  • Product Dimensions: 9.3 x 7.2 x 0.6 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.1 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 4.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (67 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #366,291 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

Editorial Reviews


"...Flower’s book provides an invaluable resource." -- Norma Jane Bumgarner, author of Mothering Your Nursing Toddler

...Flower’s book provides an invaluable resource. -- Norma Jane Bumgarner, author Mothering Your Nursing Toddler

Every page of Hilary Flower’s book delights me! It’s full of helpful information and personal support. -- Peggy O’Mara, editor, Mothering Magazine

About the Author

Hilary Dervin Flower lives in Florida with her partner Ben and their two children Nora Jade (5) and Miles (2). She holds a B.A. in English from the University of Virginia and an M.A. in Geology from the University of California, Santa Barbara. Tandem nursing her children provided the passion and curiosity that fueled her pursuit of this subject. Adventures in Tandem Nursing is her first book.

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The book is full of very valuable information!!!
Lisa Fawcett
This is really the only book you need if you are breastfeeding while pregnant, trying to decide whether you will wean, or tandem breastfeeding.
Answered pretty much every question I had regarding tandem nursing.
Tamara Parks

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75 of 76 people found the following review helpful By A Customer on January 20, 2004
Format: Paperback
I remember the first time I saw an eleven month old baby who could walk nurse. "disgusting!" I thought. A few years later, I saw a toddler walk up to her mother and say "mommy, can I nurse?" I was appalled.
Well, fast forward to the present. I am now nursing a 26 month old toddler who can walk and talk in complete sentences and I am ALSO nursing her four month old sister! Never in my wildest dreams did I imagine that I would be a LaLecheLeague type. I thought they were so extreme. Hahaha! Life is funny sometimes. Now I wouldn't have it any other way, and I can hardly believe that I was so ignorant and judgemental in the past.
I just wanted to give my background so you could understand that this review is sincere. This book is fantastic. It goes into every possible thing you ever wanted to know about nursing during pregnancy and then nursing (and caring for) two very young children at once. She *really* understands and she has some great advice. I find myself turning to it again and again as a resource. It goes into the real nitty gritty... will nursing while pregnant cause problems for the baby in utero... how do you really entertain an active toddler while you are caring for a newborn, all by yourself? The author doesn't judge anyone for choosing to wean, if appropriate, and she lets you know that this is not as simple as it may sound.
It is a great book. I am planning on buying it as a gift for a dear friend who is now trying to decide whether or not to wean during her pregnancy. I think the book will cover that for her better than I ever could.
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50 of 52 people found the following review helpful By Kristy Dallas Alley on April 14, 2004
Format: Paperback
When I went in for my first prenatal appointment with my third child, my doctor thought it was my six-month checkup after having my second. Once we cleared up the confusion about why my chart said I was pregnant, (because I was!), her first statement/question was "Well, you'll wean the other one now, right?" My negative answer elicited a roll of the eyes and small sigh, but really she knew me too well to be surprised, and well enough to know she couldn't change my mind. After listening to my spiel about the research I'd been doing, her only requests were that I see a nutritionist and that if I experienced pre-term labor I would consider weaning.
Not every mother is fortunate enough to have a supportive doctor or the resources to find out the truth about nursing while pregnant, or tandem nursing. But thanks to Hilary Flower, the topic is out of the proverbial closet and right out there on the shelf at Borders Books. ADVENTURES IN TANDEM NURSING is a fabulously comprehensive guide to tandem nursing and everything surrounding the experience. The first book of its kind, it is being celebrated as a well-researched, authoritative resource for mothers and health care practitioners alike.
One of the things that makes this book great is the easy-to-use format. The book can be read straight through, but it really shines as a quick reference. The chapters address everything from making the decision to wean or continue nursing while pregnant to finding positions to adoptive nursing of a second baby. Common fears and myths are also addressed, such as the real facts about miscarriage and who gets what nutrients first. Frequent anecdotes and stories from real moms add an enjoyable element as well.
Hilary Flower should be commended for her sensitive, pragmatic approach to this topic.
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42 of 48 people found the following review helpful By Mama Maria on November 4, 2010
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When I became pregnant I was nursing my daughter, who was 10 months old. I did not anticipate how much being pregnant would affect the nursing. Unfortunately, I have essentially stopped nursing since the time I purchased the book. On the "pro" side, the book validates the needs of the nursing and pregnant mother to continue nursing. It was very important to me to continue nursing, and I wanted a book to help me through this process. The book assumes that you have a toddler, however, and that your toddler is able to drink whole milk and that you are not nursing exclusively. While my daughter was 10 months and did eat many other things, she was not yet having whole milk and I was still giving her the equivalent of at 20-25 oz of breast milk daily. I was hoping that this book would help me with the challenges of being pregnant and dealing with a decreasing milk supply and it did not offer much help with this issue. I think that it would be a great book for the mom who has a toddler who does not need the amount of breast milk that a baby under 1 year old needs.
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18 of 19 people found the following review helpful By Midwest Book Review on September 14, 2003
Format: Paperback
Adventures In Tandem Nursing: Breastfeeding During Pregnancy And Beyond by Hilary Flower is a comprehensive, definitive, "reader friendly" instructional resource offering everything expectant mothers need to know about breastfeeding, including its pros and cons, dealing with discomforts, dealing with disapproval, adopting a second nurseling, proper nutrition while breastfeeding, illustrative mothers' stories, and more. A solid, exhaustive, balanced, and readily accessible resource, Adventures In Tandem Nursing is very highly recommended reading -- especially to new and soon-to-be parents considering breastfeeding, as well as those who are presently breastfeeding older infants and toddlers.
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