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Aging Is a Family Affair: How to Prepare for Tomorrow's Difficult Caregiving ConversationsToday Paperback – April 1, 2011
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Mary Ann Massey, EdD, is a licensed marriage and family therapist and is currently a full-time clinician at the Williamsburg Centre for Therapy. She lives in Alexandria, Virginia.
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The book also made me look at my own personal circumstances with my husband and things we need to discuss, consider, and make decisions about for our own future as seniors. The need to communicate our desires with each other as well as make these desires known to our children is so very important. Dr. Massey wrote a remarkable and informative book which made it all the more impressive by inserting her own family's dealings with problems and decisions regarding her own family crisis. It is not only an important book to read, it is also an outstanding reference book.
What is really good about the book is how easy it is to read. Each chapter seems to easily flow into the next chapter. Much of this flow is due to the author using her own family's story as a guide throughout the book, to reinforce the ideas she is presenting. In addition, all the "case histories" she refers to in the book, also help bring the book alive.
The "aging" process is not a topic most people want to think about let alone discuss. This book, "Aging Is A Family Affair", takes the topic, breaks it apart into 13 sections and in the end brings it all back together. Thus, by the time the reader finishes it, a real sense of hope has been obtained and a usuable set of tools/ideas have been presented. Tools/ideas that will greatly facilitate the discussion of aging in most any family situation. I highly recommend this book.
This masterfully crafted book offers a new way of thinking about how you and your family will handle growing older. The author uses stories of families who have been through it and how they reacted. I saw myself and my family members as though looking in a mirror. Using their stories and the author's expert commentary as guidelines for changing my attitude, I have begun planting the seeds of how to handle emotions and relationships with my family.
What a blessing to have a resource to help rearrange my thoughts about the last third of my life. Hearty congratulations to the author. I recommend this book to everyone of all ages. It's an eye opener.
My sisters and I are going through difficult times now with our 82 year old mother. This book has helped me gain new perspective and given me the confidence and ability to control my emotions, to communicate better with my sisters and to make the hard decisions that we face.
It's not often in life that we meet someone who can combine practical professional knowledge and experience with spiritual and religious awareness. Dr. Massey is such a person.