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The Agony and the Agony: Raising Your Teenager without Losing Your Mind [Paperback]

Betty Londergan (Author)
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October 28, 2008
“Mom, you woke me up when I specifically asked you not to!” “Why did you turn here when you know this is the slowest possible way to go?” “I cannot believe you made teriyaki chicken again! Is that the only freaking thing you know how to make?” Sound familiar?The Agony and the Agony is a bitingly honest guide to what it takes (out of you) to raise a teen in today’s permissive, high-anxiety culture. This book is packed with hilarious stories, tips from former teens, parental traps to avoid, and advice on how not to handle each phase. For every parent who’s wondered, “What the hell is wrong with my kid?” Londergan provides empathy and wisdom from the trenches, as well as hope for a gainfully employed future.

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Londergan (I'm Too Sexy for My Volvo) turns her pen to parenting adolescents in this comical treatise on the teen years. Using the Kübler-Ross model of five stages of grief, Londergan divides the angst-ridden adolescent years into five tongue-in-cheek stages of parental denial, anger, depression, bargaining and acceptance. The author notes that puberty and menopause often occur simultaneously in families, providing a perfect storm of roiling emotions. With anecdotes and tips from other parents and teens, as well as her own experiences as the parent of four children, she tackles such issues as drugs and alcohol, sex, and teen privacy, coaching parents on how to talk to teens without seeming dumb and weak. Londergan notes that while male teens often disappear into their rooms (they are subtle and defiant), girls can be hysterical and in your face. Urging parents to give up the ideal of the perfect kid, Londergan delivers her unvarnished truth about teens with style and humor (e.g., There is no EZ pass on the turnpike of teen parenting). Though Londergan is anything but cheerful, readers seeking savvy practical advice as well as sympathy for their plight during the teen years won't be disappointed. (Nov.)
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Publishers Weekly, 10/6/08
“Londergan turns her pen to parenting adolescents in this comical treatise on the teen years…With anecdotes and tips from other parents and teens, as well as her own experiences as the parent of four children…Londergan delivers her ‘unvarnished truth’ about teens with style and humor…readers seeking savvy practical advice as well as sympathy for their plight during the teen years won't be disappointed.”


About Families Magazine, November 2008
“A recommended read for parents whose children’s ages are fast-approaching double digits…bitingly honest guide…packed with hilarious stories, tips from former teens, parental traps to avoid, and so much more.”


Library Journal, December 2008
“Verdict: Beyond espousing readers to take life lightly, this book offers a sound, commonsense approach to living with teens. A hearty, welcome addition to the parenting shelf in public libraries.”


Product Details

  • Paperback: 255 pages
  • Publisher: Da Capo Press; 1st Da Capo Press Ed edition (October 28, 2008)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1600940749
  • ISBN-13: 978-1600940743
  • Product Dimensions: 8.2 x 5.5 x 0.7 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 9.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (11 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,220,824 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

If you want the long, extended story of my life you can go to my website, but here are the "highlights."
I'm one of eight children and I had a very happy childhood, mostly spent in Wilmington, Delaware. I went to school at the University of Massachusetts in Amherst and graduated Phi Beta Kappa (which still annoys my brilliant husband who is key-less) with a degree in History and English. I moved to Colorado, worked on a paper in the mountains for three years, then started a career in advertising that lasted a couple of decades and involved lots of trips to Los Angeles to produce music and commercials, innumerable escapades and insane moments, some of the best friendships of my life and a pretty great income. In 1991 I had Lulu, which was the very best moment of my life. Lulu and I moved from Colorado to Swarthmore, Pennsyvlania in 1996 to marry Larry Schall and I became a stepmother to his three kids: Jaime, Lindsay and Tyler. Nine years later, last August, we moved to Atlanta so Larry could become President of Oglethorpe University, a small liberal arts college right here in Buckhead. And then my book got published.....and I met you!

 

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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars OH Thank GOD for this book!, October 31, 2008
This review is from: The Agony and the Agony: Raising Your Teenager without Losing Your Mind (Paperback)
So, in some sort of miracle of timeing, I was lamenting the horrible change that has come over my daughter, this month - the month she turned 12. Somehow I'm not the 'wonder' mom I used to be. I'm now someone who needs to be tolerated and improved by my 'cool' daughter. Nothing I do is right, I don't eat right, drive right, have any taste in clothes - nothing. Lamenting the loss of my sweet precious child...to this...demon preteen...I walked into my local bookstore and saw this book - THE AGONY and the AGONY: Raising your teenager without losing your mind. I turned the book over and saw the three things her teenager said, and they were exactly what my daughter had just said to me last week! I sat down in the bookstore and started reading the book as if my sanity depended upon it. Then I bought it. Then I called up my friends with 12 year old daughters and read it to them. I LOVE THIS BOOK. It's funny and insightful and will help you realize your not alone. Thank you Betty L for writing this book!
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars This book saved someone's life!, November 10, 2010
This review is from: The Agony and the Agony: Raising Your Teenager without Losing Your Mind (Paperback)
Our son was fifteen and one of us wasn't going to make it. I headed to the bookstore seeking some source of authority and wisdom (or at least someone to commiserate with). I found two books. One was written by a psychologist; it was filled with scientific explanations and was mildly comforting. The other was Betty Londergan's "The Agony and the Agony." It was overflowing with humor, insight, advice, and unexpected brilliance. I'm still alive. My son is still alive. I think I bought the right book.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Betty's done it again!, February 19, 2009
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Betty Londergan has done it again! She's made her book of advice for bewildered parents into a helpful, hysterical guide that will have you laughing at the same time as you're learning something that you can actually use. We've all experienced some of the scenarios that she describes, and now we know that we really will live through it, and maybe end up with semi-healthy relationships with our kids! There's a lot to make you laugh, but there are also many insightful passages that reassure and guide the clueless parent. Thanks, Betty---you've guided us through the kiddie years, and now the teens---I'm looking forward to what's next!!
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