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How wonderful to find someone who knows exactly how I feel, December 8, 1998
By A Customer
I started this book and was instantly caught up in the feeling-"She knows me, how is this possible?" The book is written with almost a poet's viewpoint of illness, but there is such love and comfort in it. Most of all, Kat knows what it feels like to hope and pray that "perhaps it was just for one time and it won't happen again". I know that this is what I think, everytime I am hit with another "flare" of fibromyalgia. I always think that perhaps this will be the last one. She also allows herself to finally give in to the feeling of chronic illness, to sink into the dark place; something that is so difficult to do! I felt as if I had written so much of it, myself, as she writes of "trying to get as much done as possible" on days when the illness is in remission--fully aware that a payment will be due, for overdoing. I do not agree with some of her "new age" philosophy aproaches, but it works for her and everyone must find his or her own way. I too, know what it feels like to feel the beginning of "it" coming on and refusing to admit what is happening and as" it" progresses, to finally just allow" it" to have it's way and sink into this void that is chronic illness. Kat also makes a wonderful point of stating that only people with an illness can truly appreciate "good health", as we never take a day for granted, when we feel wonderful. It is not the" norm", so therefore, it is so much more special. Obviously, healthy people never know what a gift, they have been handed. I also agree that when one is hit by a chronic illness, it allows us to stop and be quiet, to be able to reflect on life, our inner self and the beauty of God's nature, that perhaps we would not have bothered to do, if we had been able to keep on going at a breakneck pace. Therefore, there is some comfort in illness, that perhaps healthy people don't experience. I think this book is a "must read" for anyone with a chronic illness, as it gives permission to be ill, without having to constantly feel obliged to make excuses for all of the "whys" we must give, for broken vacations, visits and the necessity of changing the way we live--even when others don't understand --because, of course--"You don't look like you are ill" is heard so often by people with chronic illnesses.
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14 of 14 people found the following review helpful:
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A magnificently moving diary of one woman's chronic illness., September 9, 1996
By A Customer
This is a beautifully written book in which Kat Duff
tells of her physical and emotional battle with
chronic fatique syndrome. It is also an analysis of
the historical and social positions of chronic and
debilatating illness in western society. Duff has
both emotional and intellectual depth; her text
includes references to works by Virginia Woolf,
Deepak Chopra, Oliver Sacks, Albert Kreinheder,
John Donne, Audre Lorde, Carl Jung, Alice James,
Susan Griffin, Susan Sontag, and many others. It is
a beautiful example of the integration of mind-body.
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12 of 12 people found the following review helpful:
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"Oh, yes, I remember this place", December 16, 1999
"Oh, yes, I remember this place" (a quote from the book) are words that I think of whenever I begin to feel the twinge of illness settling in to my life. Kat Duff is an excellent author and wrote a captivating and well-researched book. There are too few books written about something so common as illness and this is the best I have read. I keep this book by my nightstand and break it out whenever I feel illness approaching.
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