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Alive and Kicking: When Soccer Moms Take the Field and Change Their Lives Forever [Hardcover]

Harvey Araton (Author)
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August 28, 2001
The revolution began with the simple act of a mother kicking a ball to her daughter. An English soccer trainer noticed, and praised her form. "Too bad," she replied, "there's no soccer league for mothers." Who could know that so many lives would change as a result of that simple exchange?

In the suburban enclave of Montclair, New Jersey, as in so many communities around America, there was nothing new in the sight of mothers driving their minivans to soccer practice. What was new was that these women were driving to their own practices instead of dropping off their kids and watching from the sidelines. For the generation that grew up before Title IX's mandate of equal athletic opportunity, the field of play was a male preserve; girls watched and cheered. The lessons that sports are supposed to teach -- team spirit, overcoming adversity, playing to win without rancor or anger -- were restricted to this young boys' network; how could women help win the Battle of Waterloo when they'd been kept off the playing fields of Eton?

The women of Montclair were mostly of that pre-Title IX generation, and many of them had never played competitive sports in their lives. In "Alive and Kicking," Harvey Araton follows these women through their turbulent first two seasons. He turns his keen sportswriter's eye onto the battles, both on the field and in the psyche, that these women wage as they try to play a sport without compromising their values. He also shows the divisions that wrack the league when a slightly younger generation gets involved in the games, a generation raised without ambivalence about beating an opponent, willing to take a dangerous chance for a winning goal, even if itmeans running over the woman in their way. But most of all he describes the women who gain in confidence and ambition, like one of the league's pioneers, who finds the strength to leave a tired marriage, buoyed by her accomplishments on the field -- as well as the few who find themselves left behind by the achievers, those for whom this exposure to sport will leave the scars known to all who've been the last to be selected for a pickup game.

The rise of women's sports -- symbolized by the ecstatic reaction to the U.S. Women's World Cup soccer team -- has been a significant change in the social landscape. This thoughtful, thought-provoking book examines the questions that should underlie this radical change, but too often have not: As sports change women, can women change sports? Is the male play-to-win model the only one that works? Does it work? Through the experiences of these smart, mature women, we learn much about the workings of games and societies -- and the difficulty of questioning patterns so deeply entrenched that we barely know we can question them at all.


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Araton, a columnist for the New York Times, had been writing about sports for nearly two decades and cheering his sons' various teams, but nothing prepared him for his wife's entry into the world of soccer at age 40. Beth Albert, a public relations executive, began playing soccer with other mothers in suburban Montclair, N.J. Almost from the first practice, she and her teammates were hooked. They juggled work schedules, found babysitters, started a league and made time for practice and competition. The women became as serious about soccer as any high school athletes. Araton chronicles the team's events, focusing more on the women and less on the games, behind which are the real stories struggles with family problems, including one player's ongoing battle with cancer. The sport brings the women together off the playing field as well as on. Any baby boomer who has pursued athletic or other extracurricular endeavors in middle age can identify with the achievements of these soccer moms. Agent, Shari Wenk.

Copyright 2001 Cahners Business Information, Inc.

From Library Journal

More social history than a sports story, this book relates the experiences of a group of women in northern New Jersey who formed an adult women's soccer league in 1998. These women, one of whom is married to the author, had missed out on organized sports as children, having grown up before the boom in girls' sports programs that began in the mid-1970s. After many busy years managing their children's participation in organized sports as well as watching their husbands and boyfriends play in adult sports leagues, these women welcomed the opportunity to get into the game themselves. Araton, a New York Times sports writer, examines the lives of a large number of actors in this real-life drama, detailing both their on-the-field experiences and their off-the-field stories of breast cancer, divorce, and other issues. While the story will appeal to audiences looking for a pleasant diversion and perhaps to soccer moms themselves Araton seems to see more profundity in it than is really there. John Maxymuk, Rutgers Univ., Camden, NJ
Copyright 2001 Reed Business Information, Inc.

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 256 pages
  • Publisher: Simon & Schuster; First edition. edition (August 28, 2001)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0684873907
  • ISBN-13: 978-0684873909
  • Product Dimensions: 8.8 x 5.8 x 1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 15 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (4 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #2,973,114 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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5.0 out of 5 stars Great for any soccer mom learning to play the game, March 20, 2003
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This review is from: Alive and Kicking: When Soccer Moms Take the Field and Change Their Lives Forever (Hardcover)
Learning to play soccer at 30, 40, or 50 is nothing like learning to play tennis, ski, or snowboard at that age. This book captures the essence of the challenge, exhilaration, and camaraderie that adult women experience in taking on one of the most demanding sports. Soccer moms who have tried what these women have done will really empathize with this book. It also accurately depicts the group politics that arise when organizing a playing league of women who are new to team sports and expect fairness to be applied. "Alive and Kicking" is extremely well-written and is a highly enjoyable fast read. Circulate it amongst your teammates and significant others; they will all be delighted.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Harvey scores a big goal, March 1, 2002
This review is from: Alive and Kicking: When Soccer Moms Take the Field and Change Their Lives Forever (Hardcover)
This book is for all adult women who play soccer and then pass this book to your husbands , boyfriends or significant other its a must read !!! Harvey caught the essence of exactly how deprived I felt not being in competitve sports when I was younger . Now later in life I like Harvery's wife became an organizer of women in sports. I felt like Harvey was writing about me . It was truly enjoyable to see a man appreciate and understand his wife's new found interest and ENCOURAGING it . What a wonderful book. Im sure I will see Harvey's wife in our OTH (over the hill) divison one day. Keep kickin it up !!! I recieved this book from my wonderful husband :)
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5.0 out of 5 stars Recognition for women, for athletes, for mothers, January 5, 2002
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Finally, somebody has taken seriously the phenomenon of women at play, and given this trend a cultural voice. Araton went to a great deal of reportorial trouble getting the story right, interviewing and chronicling the suburban mothers who have decided that sports can both empower and entertain. The characters come to life through both crisis resolution and athletic achievement. On and off the field, this book scores a hat-trick.
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