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In 2002, award-winning film and stage actor Ashley Judd found her true calling: as a humanitarian and voice for those suffering in neglected parts of the world. After her first trip to the notorious brothels, slums, and hospices of southeast Asia, Ashley knew immediately that she wanted to advocate on behalf of the vulnerable. During her travels, Ashley started to write diaries that detailed extraordinary stories of survival and resilience. But along the way, she realized that she was struggling with her own emotional pain, stemming from childhood abandonment and abuse. Seeking in-patient treatment in 2006 for the grief that had nearly killed her, Ashley found not only her own recovery and an enriched faith but the spiritual tools that energized and advanced her feminist social justice work. In this deeply moving and unforgettable memoir, Ashley Judd describes her odyssey, from lost child to fiercely dedicated advocate, from anger and isolation to forgiveness and activism. In telling it, she answers the ineffable question about the relationship between healing oneself and service to others.
Foreword by Nicholas D. Kristof
All That Is Bitter and Sweet: A Memoir
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“An important and moving memoir . . . Every reader will be inspired.”—Bill Clinton
“Powerful . . . a tour de force.”—Washington Examiner
“Enlightening and inspiring . . . Ashley Judd has composed a memoir that teaches while it entrances, and finds hope and faith in the most unlikely places. The book is full of real-life stories that reflect both the compassion of its author and the need for healing in the world.”—Madeleine K. Albright
“Frank and heartfelt . . . [Ashley] Judd’s resolve and dedication to her work is humbling and inspiring, and her memoir is fantastic.”—Publisher’s Weekly (starred review)
“A fascinating story.”—The Washington Post
“[An] absorbing memoir of challenge, courage, and renewal.”—Library Journal
About the Author
Ashley Judd received her masters degree in public administration at Harvard University’s Kennedy School of Government. At Harvard Law, she was awarded the Dean’s Scholar Award for her paper on gender violence. She continues to combine her acting career with human rights and public health work around the world, serving on various boards of directors and leadership advisory councils. She and her husband, race-car driver Dario Franchitti, live in Tennessee and Scotland with their many beloved animals.
Maryanne Vollers is the author of Ghosts of Mississippi, a finalist for the National Book Award. She has also collaborated on two memoirs: Living History, with Hillary Rodham Clinton, and Ice Bound, with Jerri Nielsen, both #1 New York Times bestsellers.
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Maryanne Vollers is the author of Ghosts of Mississippi, a finalist for the National Book Award. She has also collaborated on two memoirs: Living History, with Hillary Rodham Clinton, and Ice Bound, with Jerri Nielsen, both #1 New York Times bestsellers.
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276 of 292 people found the following review helpful
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This is not the first time where Ashley Judd has provided revelations about her early life as well as her difficult road towards independence and individuality.
But this time she has provided additional details, the kind of details that could provide hope and inspiration for others who have suffered difficult and extremely painful bouts of anxiety, depression and/or a lack of passion for work.
Perhaps Judd's greatest courage comes in chronicling the various sexual abuses she endured. As of this writing, her family is reportedly (according to media coverage) unhappy with Ashley's revelations.
But breaking the silence surrounding childhood sexual abuse is an act of courage and every celeb and other person who doesn't flinch or waver from the hard truth can help others cope as well. Even more admirable? Judd transcended her own personal pain to reach out for social justice instead of remaining mired in depression and fear - and instead of feeling powerless for the rest of her life.
Hard for adults to understand, perhaps, but Judd makes clear that children don't automatically understand that sexual predators are being "abusive." Instead, children can feel a range of emotions, from confusion to fear ...or even shame.
For anyone familiar with the press surrounding the Judd family, it is no secret that there have been tensions, even outright breaks in the family. Unlike Wynonna and Naomi Judd, famed as singers, Ashley opted to become primarily an actress - and then she seemed to fade from the spotlight. "All That is Bitter and Sweet" explains why this happened and how Ashley's feelings affected her decision to veer from acting.
Among other challenges, Judd struggled with depression and a loss of passion for her acting craft - even while she was still strongly in demand. But read about her early abuse and family struggles and it becomes clear that she worked hard to face her painful past and continuing struggles - instead of living in denial and finding it harder and harder to keep up a facade that hid so much.
By coming forward and writing about her own painful past, Judd provides hope for others who have suffered neglect, abuse, depression, and other potentially crippling problems. Judd also reveals her own methods for finding peace, including work with others who need help.She connects intimately with those who have HIV/AIDS. She trys not to be a celeb who stays distant from those she helps. It is also clear that Judd finds solace and help from the people she meets along the way.
It must have been hard for someone like Ashley Judd to reveal so much about herself. Whenever I watched her in movies,I got the sense that she was a deeply private person and some of that reserve came through - and ironically,even strengthened the believability of the characters she played - on screen. But it is far different to play a movie role than it is to strip away the celeb facade and write such an open memoir.
But this time she has provided additional details, the kind of details that could provide hope and inspiration for others who have suffered difficult and extremely painful bouts of anxiety, depression and/or a lack of passion for work.
Perhaps Judd's greatest courage comes in chronicling the various sexual abuses she endured. As of this writing, her family is reportedly (according to media coverage) unhappy with Ashley's revelations.
But breaking the silence surrounding childhood sexual abuse is an act of courage and every celeb and other person who doesn't flinch or waver from the hard truth can help others cope as well. Even more admirable? Judd transcended her own personal pain to reach out for social justice instead of remaining mired in depression and fear - and instead of feeling powerless for the rest of her life.
Hard for adults to understand, perhaps, but Judd makes clear that children don't automatically understand that sexual predators are being "abusive." Instead, children can feel a range of emotions, from confusion to fear ...or even shame.
For anyone familiar with the press surrounding the Judd family, it is no secret that there have been tensions, even outright breaks in the family. Unlike Wynonna and Naomi Judd, famed as singers, Ashley opted to become primarily an actress - and then she seemed to fade from the spotlight. "All That is Bitter and Sweet" explains why this happened and how Ashley's feelings affected her decision to veer from acting.
Among other challenges, Judd struggled with depression and a loss of passion for her acting craft - even while she was still strongly in demand. But read about her early abuse and family struggles and it becomes clear that she worked hard to face her painful past and continuing struggles - instead of living in denial and finding it harder and harder to keep up a facade that hid so much.
By coming forward and writing about her own painful past, Judd provides hope for others who have suffered neglect, abuse, depression, and other potentially crippling problems. Judd also reveals her own methods for finding peace, including work with others who need help.She connects intimately with those who have HIV/AIDS. She trys not to be a celeb who stays distant from those she helps. It is also clear that Judd finds solace and help from the people she meets along the way.
It must have been hard for someone like Ashley Judd to reveal so much about herself. Whenever I watched her in movies,I got the sense that she was a deeply private person and some of that reserve came through - and ironically,even strengthened the believability of the characters she played - on screen. But it is far different to play a movie role than it is to strip away the celeb facade and write such an open memoir.
93 of 103 people found the following review helpful
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This is a great candid memoir by the talented Hollywood actress turned humanitarian Ashley Judd, titled "All That Is Bitter And Sweet : A Memoir". In this touching/emotional memoir, Ashley Judd describes herself as a daughter of the world famous country music superstar singer Naomi Judd : but her childhood upbringing was rather erratic, chaotic & unstable despite her mother's trying efforts. She struggled/suffered emotionally, psychologically & sexual abuse during her 13 school years (attending 13 different schools from the tender age of 5 years to young adulthood at 18 years). Her older sister Wynonna Judd joined hands with their mother Naomi Judd to build up a musical empire in country music (the great country supergroup The Judds), while she persued acting in Hollywood with great success. Before leaving successful acting career for personal reasons, she was one of the highly paid actress in Hollywood. Ashley Judd, now 42 years has suffered depression, suicidal thoughts & memories of her sexual abuse from various men over the years. In 2006 Ashley Judd was 'finally' admitted in Texas for the treatment of depression as an in-patient with great improvement of her condition. The great support of her racecar driver husband Dario Franchiti whom she married in 2001 & family also was very crucial & influential in seeing her back on her feet again. Her story has positive spin : she managed to channel her anger/grief into humanitarian work as a YouthAIDS ambassador for Population Services International (working for the betterment of poor children/communities in developing continents/counties of Africa & Asia among others. She has finally found peace within herself & declares her painful past as her greatest asset! On overall, this is a great emotional rollercoaster ride (bitter) memoir with a positive (sweet) that is candid/engaging, a highly recommended book/memoir reading.
148 of 167 people found the following review helpful
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*****
This is not a typical celebrity memoir. It is a book about social justice, recovery from trauma, and about how to live in this world. It changed my life.
I bought this book on Kindle in order to receive and read it quickly. I have since bought two hardcopies, one to keep, one to give away. This book is for anyone who cares about our world, and how to deal with the suffering, the grief, and the despair that occurs all over the world--for anyone who wants to make a difference--while at the same time not being dragged down by their own sadnesses, inadequacies, and grief. It is for anyone who wants to care about others and still care for themselves so that they can keep on making a difference and not live out of woundedness.
I wanted to read Ashley's memoir after seeing her performance in "Helen" thinking it would be about depression. It is--sort of--but it's more about living with whatever scars you have from childhood, and thus would appeal to anyone serious about living as a compassionate person.
The book starts off with difficult details of Ashley's upbringing and how she was affected by various people in her life, including her mother Naomi and her sister Wynona. This is not a smear of these much-loved family members, however, but a realistic portrayal of how Ashley (and we) can come to terms with how we reconcile with those who have caused us pain throughout our lives. Ashley dealt with neglect, molestation, and abuse, and emerged a severely traumatized adult.
The book continues with how she became an activist and why. It very movingly describes details of her activism work throughout the world, including combatting sex slavery and sex trafficking. Ashley writes about spiritual issues, including a profoundly moving experience related to her taking on the suffering she saw instead of allowing God to do so. In many ways, this book is a spiritual memoir.
It is a challenging read as the reader shares the author's view as her eyes are opened to the world's pain...and to her own pain. It inspires you to look at what you can do to heal the world and yourself.
The author writes about how she has begun her healing journey from depression and childhood issues, especially codependency, starting with an intervention and in-patient treatment at a rehab facility. This was my favorite part of the book. Brutally honest, raw, and moving (like the rest of the book), I had to take several breaks in reading it because it was so painful. But good, at the same time. I understood.
The remainder of the book was about how Ashley pursues her advocacy and activist work now, since she has embarked upon her own recovery, and how she integrates her recovery with the rest of her life helping others, with her family, and in her creative endeavors. How everything fits together.
This is a book for those who are (or who want to be) courageous in dealing with social justice issues and their own personal lives. Only those who are expecting a typical celebrity memoir will be disappointed in this deep and earnest read. Everyone else will, I'm betting, have their lives profoundly impacted and greatly changed, as I have.
Highly recommended.
*****
This is not a typical celebrity memoir. It is a book about social justice, recovery from trauma, and about how to live in this world. It changed my life.
I bought this book on Kindle in order to receive and read it quickly. I have since bought two hardcopies, one to keep, one to give away. This book is for anyone who cares about our world, and how to deal with the suffering, the grief, and the despair that occurs all over the world--for anyone who wants to make a difference--while at the same time not being dragged down by their own sadnesses, inadequacies, and grief. It is for anyone who wants to care about others and still care for themselves so that they can keep on making a difference and not live out of woundedness.
I wanted to read Ashley's memoir after seeing her performance in "Helen" thinking it would be about depression. It is--sort of--but it's more about living with whatever scars you have from childhood, and thus would appeal to anyone serious about living as a compassionate person.
The book starts off with difficult details of Ashley's upbringing and how she was affected by various people in her life, including her mother Naomi and her sister Wynona. This is not a smear of these much-loved family members, however, but a realistic portrayal of how Ashley (and we) can come to terms with how we reconcile with those who have caused us pain throughout our lives. Ashley dealt with neglect, molestation, and abuse, and emerged a severely traumatized adult.
The book continues with how she became an activist and why. It very movingly describes details of her activism work throughout the world, including combatting sex slavery and sex trafficking. Ashley writes about spiritual issues, including a profoundly moving experience related to her taking on the suffering she saw instead of allowing God to do so. In many ways, this book is a spiritual memoir.
It is a challenging read as the reader shares the author's view as her eyes are opened to the world's pain...and to her own pain. It inspires you to look at what you can do to heal the world and yourself.
The author writes about how she has begun her healing journey from depression and childhood issues, especially codependency, starting with an intervention and in-patient treatment at a rehab facility. This was my favorite part of the book. Brutally honest, raw, and moving (like the rest of the book), I had to take several breaks in reading it because it was so painful. But good, at the same time. I understood.
The remainder of the book was about how Ashley pursues her advocacy and activist work now, since she has embarked upon her own recovery, and how she integrates her recovery with the rest of her life helping others, with her family, and in her creative endeavors. How everything fits together.
This is a book for those who are (or who want to be) courageous in dealing with social justice issues and their own personal lives. Only those who are expecting a typical celebrity memoir will be disappointed in this deep and earnest read. Everyone else will, I'm betting, have their lives profoundly impacted and greatly changed, as I have.
Highly recommended.
*****
Most Recent Customer Reviews
3.0 out of 5 stars
Definitely not your typical celebrity autobiography
Mixed feelings about this book. It is intelligently written and the author's voice is eloquent and passionate. But there are huge gaps in the story that make it feel incomplete. Read more
Published 16 days ago by Allynn T
5.0 out of 5 stars
Ashley Judd fan
Very powerful. Her childhood story could have been mine. So grateful she had the courage to speak about it. Read more
Published 18 days ago by R. Davis
5.0 out of 5 stars
I loved this book!
Ashley Judd is a feminist, human rights and social justice activist. She is just flat out amazing in her passion and love for the service work and the people she serves all over... Read more
Published 19 days ago by nanatangie
4.0 out of 5 stars
Good book
I was looking for more family drama, but she did captivate me with stories of her travels. She is a wee bit whiny, but I still love her.
Published 1 month ago by Kelynn Murray
5.0 out of 5 stars
Inspiring
Who wouldn't love Ashley Judd? Senator McConnell is the one and only person who comes to mind, but then again he's afraid of her. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Patricia
5.0 out of 5 stars
ALL THAT IS BITTER AND SWEET
ASHLEY'S BOOK WAS EVERYTHING I HAD HOPED IT WOULD BE. SHE TRANSPORTED ME TO THE PLACES SHE WAS AND TAUGHT ME A GREAT DEAL. Read more
Published 1 month ago by REBEKAH MAJORS-MANLEY
5.0 out of 5 stars
A poignant, bittersweet memoir of great lows and great heroics.
There was much soul searching and deliverance in this book and it made me take another look at my disfunctional upbringing. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Georgina Dina Bensen
2.0 out of 5 stars
Boring
If your trying to fall asleep this is the book for you. To political and so boring. Took me forever to finish reading the book, when I normally finish a good book in 2 days. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Brandi
5.0 out of 5 stars
Written with such raw passion and honesty, it was impossible to read...
I'm usually a fast reader bu there was no way with this one. The images, whether from her travels to brothels to poverty stricken places around the world or her childhood, are... Read more
Published 2 months ago by Val Wallace
5.0 out of 5 stars
Inspiring!
I have a newfound respect & admiration for Ashley Judd! Her memoir is inspiring & validating for doing the hard painful work of childhood trauma. Read more
Published 2 months ago by Teddie D. Valenzuela
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