All Things Girl: Modern and Modest [Paperback]

Teresa Tomeo (Author), Cheryl Dickow (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: November 17, 2008

“All Things Girl” is the best-selling book series for tweens that reveals what it means to be a “Daughter of the King” in all aspects of life: friends, manners, hygiene, modesty, and so much more. Girls learn the answer to important questions such as “Why am I here?” and also read how to navigate the world with an understanding that being a daughter of the King makes a difference in all things! Each book features a saint for the girls to look to as a role model and helps the girls make daily examination of conscience questions based upon the particular topic covered. John Paul II’s writings on feminine genius are explored and girls are encouraged to embrace their unique gifts. The accompanying prayer journal (All Things Girl Journal) is perfect for girls to chart their prayer life. This book series is the basis for the television series by the same name, seen on EWTN and available as a DVD through the EWTN online catalogue, and is co-hosted by Teresa Tomeo and Cheryl Dickow. Tomeo and Dickow co-authored the book “All Things Girl: Truth for Teens” for girls ages 13-18 and “All Things Guy: A Guide to Becoming a Man that Matters” for boys ages 9-14. Both books are available at www.bezalelbooks.com.

Product Details

• Paperback: 60 pages
• Publisher: Bezalel Books (November 17, 2008)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0981885454
• ISBN-13: 978-0981885452
• Product Dimensions: 9.8 x 6.8 x 0.2 inches
• Shipping Weight: 4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.1 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (11 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #820,257 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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19 of 22 people found the following review helpful:

2.0 out of 5 stars All Things Girl, sadly.... mostly fluff, March 5, 2009

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Barbara B. (Sherman, TX) - See all my reviews

This review is from: All Things Girl: Modern and Modest (Paperback)

My sisters and I (ages 15, 13 and 10) eagerly awaited the arrival of these books. As we received each one, we became more and more saddened. While they would contain a few sentences of the beauty of the Church's teachings, they would quickly switch to fluff topics. For example, we had hoped to hear more on how your inner beauty is much more important than your physical. With such beauty, why do you need to use so much makeup or any at all? The beauty book (and the modern and modest) gives many very detailed makeup tips, (lip liner, lip stick, lip gloss, TONS of eye makeup, mascara, blush, concealer, foundation, powder, etc, etc, etc.). I do not personally think that makeup is a bad thing and certainly is not sinful, but I was hoping that they wouldn't put such an importance on the need for it. The book seemed to promote the draw into vanity (and not how to combat it) which is so promoted by our current secular world. They do say some things like you don't need designer clothing, etc. but that was pretty much it. I suppose I see how they were trying to bridge the ever widening gap between our Christian world and the secular world, but I still think that they had a great opportunity here that they missed using.

The other books missed the mark for us too. In Friendship, Boys and Getting Along, they say that "going with" and "having a boyfriend," simply means that you like a boy. When they could have stressed more firmly about waiting to date, they simply say that going places alone or having boy/girl parties are for high school. While this is a common take on dating, what about the virtue building possibilities here of not stressing such an importance on feeling that one must date in high school or even earlier? While the authors often have some good things that are character building, they just as often turn back to the secular view. The other sad thing about this book in particular is how they slam boys, saying that they just don't get "it." Also, that when you are ready to have a rational conversation, they are still doing silly things like playing with legos.

They seem to be constantly contradicting themselves, for instance, they say that makeup should be modest (that you shouldn't look like you have makeup on) and then they give 7 very detailed steps on how to apply all the various kinds of makeup that if followed would not look natural. And the aforementioned dating problem where they say that dating and courtship should be kept until you're ready to find a husband and then say that having a boyfriend and "going" with a boy should be saved as something to look forward to in high school (or younger).

They do have a few redeeming factors, they talk about your dignity as a daughter of the King (the same intro is repeated in every book) and about how your situation does not affect your dignity. Also, they have some prayers, good saint stories, and an examination of conscience in each book (these are not thorough, as they only cover the sins contained in the subject of the book, i.e., friendship). They try to give advice about friendship, clothing and hairstyles, although again they are mainly secular and sometimes rather obvious.

The manners book (All Things Girl, Mind Your Manners) is probably the best book, although you could probably get a much better book on manners somewhere else. They have place settings, a fun page about manners around the world, church manners, and other general etiquette.

8 of 8 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars A must own book, December 18, 2008

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Colleen M. Matthewson (Dearborn, MI United States) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: All Things Girl: Modern and Modest (Paperback)

Before reviewing this link, I looked to see what else was said about this book. I see two very postive and one negative. I considered the points in the negative. It seems that person missed the uplifting message and instead focused on the look of the book. I personally love the look, but I guess exterior images are a matter of opinion. If you are buying a book for the look then it's a shallow purchase. My daughter loves the book because of the powerful message if conveys. It helps girls to see themselves the way God sees them--their natural beauty worthy of protecting and enhancing. I too thought it was short, but that was because it left me wanting more. I just have not been able to find anything else out there with such a powerful and beautiful message, so this book has my full approval.

10 of 11 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars My 8 year old daughter loved this book!, January 17, 2009

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Gregory S. Mcnulty "Scott" (Indianapolis, IN USA) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: All Things Girl: Modern and Modest (Paperback)

I bought this book for my 8 year old daughter (not knowing if it was age appropriate) because I started noticing subtle trends in her behavior that made me concerned that the secular culture was starting to affect her. What a pleasant surprise it was when she became very interested in this book -- once she started reading it she could hardly put it down (she even asked to bring it to a restaurant to read while we were waiting for our food)! I browsed through the book before giving it to her and was very impressed with the style of writing and the solid Christian message. For example, it was suggested to examine your conscience before going to bed (which we already have taught our kids) but instead of just recalling the things you did that weren't pleasing to God it was suggested to also think of the things you did that pleased God. I thought this was great advice especially for Christian parents who are trying to teach their kids the importance of good works in an active faith life.