As someone who is taking a year off herself, to figure out what she wants to do and how she's going to get there, this book resonated with me. It's scary to not conform with what everyone else is doing. To feel a little left behind. To feel like you're completely insane. But at the same time- everyone feels that way. Zulkey explores the topic in a very human way, being really sympathetic to her character but also making no effort to hide her flaws. Cecily is a fun girl, but she's spoiled. She's not ok with things changing. She's worried about the unknown. She doesn't do anything earth-shattering in her year off- she doesn't travel or start a non-profit or write a novel. She just needs time to figure herself out. Come to terms with the changes going on in her life. Get to know her family and maybe let go of a few friends.
I think the book was very realistic in that not everything was tied up neatly at the end- we don't really ever get to know Cecily's mother, we don't see how her relationship with her sister evolves, and we don't get to see if she actually does well in college. But that is true to life. Cecily's best friend from high school warps into a complete stranger in college- who among us doesn't know how that feels? She's a really easy character to cheer for and enjoy. She's quirky, with a dry sense of humor and a lot of heart.
It was light and fun and hilarious, but also hit the spot in terms of getting its point across. A lot of kids who apply to college would like reading it; maybe it's better to read it after they start college, so they'll understand it better. It's also good for anyone who sometimes looks in the mirror and thinks, "What in the world am I doing with my life?" As you'll see in the book, it's ok to wonder that, to think that there must be something that you're missing. You're not the only one. And even if the book doesn't have the answers, and doesn't offer sage advice, it's nice to know you're not alone.
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