From Publishers Weekly
Loizeaux began this intimate, harrowing journal weeks after the death of his five-and-a-half-month-old daughter Anna from VATER syndrome, a rare condition involving congenital deformities of the heart, kidneys and esophagus. Anna, who died on July 4, 1989, underwent surgery and intensive care, and was able to spend her last four months at home as "a normal kid" despite a colostomy bag and a need for intravenous antibiotics. Written with luminous clarity and heartbreaking candor, this journal is an exorcism of grief, an outpouring of a father's fiercely tender love and an agnostic's attempt to come to terms with what seems a senseless, devastating tragedy. As Loizeaux and his wife, Beth, cope with their daughter's death, they endure painful, empty holidays and attend adoption classes while trying to have another baby. In a postscript the author, a Maryland teacher, reports the birth of his second daughter, a healthy girl named Emma. Those coping with the loss of a loved one will find this resonant book a source of strength.
Copyright 1993 Reed Business Information, Inc.
From Library Journal
VATER syndrome, a rare condition of vertebral defects, imperforate anus, and radial/renal dysplasia that combine to form a host of congenital anomalies, remains undetectable by amniocentesis. It therefore came as an awful surprise to the author and his wife when their daughter Anna was born with the condition and when, five months later, despite multiple procedures and operations, she died. This memoir of Anna's life, written in clear, moving prose, chronicles the time with her as well as the year after her death. It is a heartbreaking story, but the author's skill and eloquence make it unforgettable. While it also discusses a baby's death, Elizabeth Mehren's Born Too Soon ( LJ 6/1/91) lacks the memorable writing style of this book. Very highly recommended.
- Janet M. Coggan, Univ. of Florida Libs., GainesvilleCopyright 1993 Reed Business Information, Inc.