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Another Song About the King: A Novel (Ballantine Reader's Circle)

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"Another Song About the King" is a moving portrayal of the mother/daughter relationship at it's most poetic, heartfelt and compassionate. Simone, a Detroit housewife "who could have been somebody" had she stayed in her native South, is the mother of Silvie, a girl wise beyond her years who has lived her life in the fear that the more potential she shows, the more displeased her mother will be. When Silvie finally breaks free of her mother and moves to New York and her life begins to take off, Simone is struck down with cancer and Silvie must come to terms with a mother, as much larger than life as she is difficult. "Another Song About the King" moved me to tears with writing eloquent, passionate and poetic. The character of Simone reminded me of an Amanda Wingfield in "The Glass Menagerie" set aginst the backdrop of the sixties. Her credo of "Always order a large" is particularly poignant when the reader takes into account the simple background of the middle class suburb that Simone has found her self in. Author Stern has also shown how a woman of talent and audacity could get trapped, particularly in early sixties America. I loved this book and know that other readers will as well, particularly women. The final chapters are gorgeous. I can't wait to see what characters this young author of such tremendous skill and talent will invent next.

Her mother's blue suede shoes always caused a problem for young Silvie. She wants a traditional, conservative mother, but ended up with Mimi - a headstrong, independant woman whose claim to fame is her dates with Elvis. Silvie believes that she has finally gotten away from her mother's indominable clutches when she moves to New York, but when Mimi is diagnosed with terminal cancer she goes home to help her die.

Through this time together, Silvie embraces her mother. She comes to learn the important elements of her family history. Through this time, Silvie gives and recieves the important elements of her mother's life, and finally comes to accept both her childhood and her future. She learns how to move beyond her mother, yet how to more fully embrace her special qualities.

The book is an excellent read for women. It gives a remarkable portrayal of the mother-daughter bond, with all of its pain and promise. Overall, highly recommended.

Most mothers and daughters have bumps or strains in their relationships, but Silvie has grown up under the "guiding hand" of an extremely narcissistic mother, whose claim to fame is her purported date (or is it dates) with Elvis. In fact, she confides to her daughter that Silvie is meant to be an anagram of Elvis. The Elvis-date story, in its various permutations, surfaces at several points in the story, and provides the basis for Silvie's mother's ever-present discontent with her suburban life.

As Silvie grows up in her mother's bizarre household, she attempts to break away; ultimately, she moves to New York. When her mother is diagnosed with cancer, Silvie's world is turned upside down, as she tries to reconcile her relationship with her mother and find out the "truths" and "whys" about her and her mother's life.

I don't usually cry when I read books, but the tears flowed around the end.

With compassion, insight and elegance, Kathryn Stern's wonderful debut novel, "Another Song about the King," traces the tensions and fissures between a repressed but talented mother and her daughter, whose own life's experiences sadly reflect the disappointments, resentments and fears felt by her mother. Stern paints a vivid picture of Simone, whose mothering skills mirror the venomous pressures and arid emotional wasteland of her own childhood. Simone is so repressive and begruding of her daughter's right to a life that, at times, it appears that she could not be more deliberate in her emotional abuse. Silvie, in turn, at a very early age, deliberately withdraws from her mother and builds such an anguished anger and sense of disappointment with her circumstances that she refuses to call her mother any other name than Mimi.

The central conceit of the novel turns around Simone's teen-age "relationship" with Elvis Presley, a "date" whose scope is never completely determined but whose impact on the dissatisfied Simone grows and distorts her own ability to live as a functional adult. Simone's discontent is the central fact of her life. "For a long time, I liked being married, the routine, the security. But then it was the late sixties...and there I was in the suburbs, just planning a week of dinner and making them." The adult daughter, Silvie (whose own name, incidentally, is a semi-anagram of Elvis), understood "her discontent, the discontent of all women caught between the work of staying home and raising children and the larger work of the world."

Stern's masterful talent of characterization reveals itself fully through Silvie, a sensitive and inquisitive child who bears the brunt of her mother's smoldering fury. How should a child respond to a parent who insists the child develop her talents, but once expressed, elicits a competitive anger from the very adult she yearns to please? Silvie decides to withdraw, to finish in second place, to acquiesce to her mother. This tremendously affecting character pushes her sadness "down into that tight little bead no one could see, filling the space with emptiness, nothingness...I feared I lacked a self."

"Another Song" is not just about the evolving relationship between a mother and her daughter. This deeply reflective novel also treats the issues of insanity, suicide, depression, divorce, existential anguish and terminal illness. Never forgotten is the humanity of the central characters, and that compassion animates Stern's ability to make even a Simone a character about whom we care. This author, with a sure and sensitive hand, understands the quest all children, regardless of age, have to understand and forgive their parents.

Given that this is a debut novel, the prose is remarkable, the voice unique, the insights into human behaviour and relationship profound. Mother-daughter relationships are always complicated, oft times ridden with confusing expectations, dreams of the future/reminiscences of the past, and always always the burden of aging - whether it be of youth blossoming or the prospect of death. This writer captures the emotional complexity of the relationship with great dexterity and compassion. We only hope that she continues to write yet again and again and again, many novels, many works, of which I'm sure she is entirely capable.

Any woman who has ever had a love-hate relationship with their mother will love this book. It's a beautiful and touching story about how different we see a mother's "good" intentions from when we are children to when we become adults. No matter how painful the journey, in the end we see that we all do the best that we can whether we're the mother or the daughter. It brought tears to my eyes.

I just finished Another Song About the King, and I loved it! The ending made me cry. I really enjoyed the mother/daughter dynamic though of course, my own mother would never be difficult in any way. I especially liked the part where the mom dumped the sour cream over the girl's head, and I loved the stories about Elvis. I can see where it would be hard to get over having gone out with young Elvis. I myself own a pair of too small, uncomfortable, blue suede shoes that I just can't bear to part with. I will recommend this book to all my friends with mothers.

I read this book literally in one sitting. The normal conflicts between a mother and daughter are heightened and made more dramatic when the mother is jealous and stuck in the 60's, always thinking about the "what ifs...". This is the type of woman Betty Friedan was writing for in The Feminine Mystique. This is definately a woman's book, and many women will recognize people they know in the story. The mother was born ten years too late. Poor Sylvie is pushed into the shadows by her mother's need to be recognized and acknowledged (bold, audacious clothes and a complete lack of tact), so Sylvie is forced to retreat into the shadows and intentionally underachieves so that her mother looks better than daughter. This seems to be a uniquely American trait. Sylvie finally escapes to New York to be an artist, only to learn, soon after moving to New York, that Mom has terminal cancer. Many scenes are highly moving. Sylvie's struggle with forgiveness and anger toward her mother is remarkably touching. Her mother's spirit is indominantable and it is Sylvie's father, the normal nice company man, who garnered my sympathy. I highly recommend this book. It is spiritual in that the lesson I learned is that when all is almost said and done (and mom is dying) all that matters is the love between the mother and daughter. All transgressions and omissions stand by the wayside for this special time. Hopefully this book will be reviewed and recognized and will shoot for the bestseller list. It is terrific!

Mimi never tires of telling her daughter, Silvie that she is named for the king, Elvis. She once dated the king. Mimi has big ideas and intentions, but finds herself stuck in the role of mother and housewife. This is not where she wanted to be. She loves the spotlight, dressing up in her high heels and swirling around in dresses.

Silvie is dowdy by Mimi's comparison, comfortable hiding from the spotlight. Mimi is disappointed that Silvie is not more 'out there', not more like her.

Silvie moves town to get out from under Mimi's shoes, but is driven back to her mother's side when she discovers that she has cancer. It is truly heartbreaking for Silvie to see her mother who was larger than life, slowly disintegrating before her eyes.

This is a good book about mother-daughter relationships, but it was really nothing new. It's all about people finding each other before they are separated forever.