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5.0 out of 5 stars
Confirms your private and worst suspicions, March 21, 1999
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This review is from: Anti-Gay (Sexual Politics) (Hardcover)
This brief book confirmed my private suspicions about so much of "Gay" life: that it is reckless, vulgar, mindless, irresponsible, a ghetto, etc. If you read this, you will be offended - or you will acquire the independence of mind to stop trying to be a clone in order to be homosexual. Many gay men and women (and I speak as a gay man) do not have the wit to understand how they can love members of ther own sex without buying into the usual boots/buzzcuts/anti-femininity (if you are a lesbian) mindset or the catalog X/camp humor/bar culture (if you are a gay man) mindset/prison. There are a great number of acidic and very funny (and correct) observations here. Yes, it is negative. How could it not be? Some have complained that this book offers no solutiions or alternatives. I do not see why it should when the answer is very simple. We need to grow as human beings and not define ourselves and validate ourselves with the trappings of a trash culture that has only existed for a generation or so. Voluntary self-confinement to a cultural ghetto is even worse than being forced into a concentration camp by the homophobes because it is freely chosen and self-limiting. Have the backbone to think for yourself and to talk back to the gay culture cops when you don't "fit in" (god help anyone who does want to fit in). Forget about being "gay." Love who you choose - and don't worry if you are "living the gay lifestyle" or not. Quite frankly, it isn't worth worrying about, defending, or investing in. If anything, it can kill you. Openly criticize those who claim to speak for us (usually because all opposition has been shouted down). In summary: live your life - not some life designed for you by the gay culture. It is nothing but a strait jacket.
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11 of 13 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Ballsy, December 19, 2001
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It's funny how a book about why homos don't need to be `gay' is attacked for not being gay enough and for failing to offer us the New Mince Forwards. It's as if gays are too delicate and fragile to be exposed to self-criticism and dissent without being immediately soothed and reassured by a vision of The Emerald City. It's precisely because this book doesn't have anything to sell us that it is so refreshing. Odd how a book with `Anti-` in the title turns out to be CRITICAL, isn't it? The various books which have appeared in the US since 'Anti-Gay' (a UK book, please note) appeared have pretended to be critical but have all been way too gay. All of them have been written by pink snake-oil salesmen who want to convince us that they have patented the `right' way to be homo - e.g. Signorile and Sullivan squabbling over who should have the keys to the Gay Community pulpit. Their `critical' dimension has turned out to be mere moralism. Funnily enough, the most `political' statement in regard to contemporary homosexuality turns out to be an attempt, however unlikely, to free homo-ness from political imperatives (which anyway have just become a branch of consumer politics). 'Anti-Gay' does this with humour and wit, and also with real balls - an organ that sheep-like contemporary gays wouldn't know what to do with, besides shaving and hanging weights from.
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13 of 16 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Open your eyes and read this book, August 1, 2005
This review is from: Anti-Gay (Sexual Politics) (Hardcover)
This is not a book for the over-PC Queer activist crowd. Its meant for anyone who has felt alienated being an out and proud homosexual in the contemporary 'gay community' (in fact, the very term 'gay community' will sound like a misnomer after you read this book).
I liked all the essays in the book... however, it does ignore an important issue - the rampant racism in the gay community. I can't speak for the lesbians but any gay man of color like me can tell you from his own personal experience that 'white' is the gold standard in the gay community and the whole community is clearly segregated along ethnic and racial lines. The book does not address this topic head-on. This book also does not talk about the misogyny of some gay men (I mean the hatred directed towards heterosexual women and NOT women who are lesbians or bisexuals). However, its still a pretty good book. It raises issues that no one in the mainstream media has dared to raise far. It may not solve any problems or answer any questions but its still a start.
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