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Does Anybody Else Look Like Me? A Parent's Guide to Raising Multiracial Children
 
 
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Does Anybody Else Look Like Me? A Parent's Guide to Raising Multiracial Children [Hardcover]

Donna Jackson Nakazawa (Author)
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June 17, 2003
"Am I black or white or am I American?" "Why don't my eyes look like yours?" "Why do people always call attention to my 'different' hair?" Helping a child understand his mixed racial background can be daunting, especially when, whether out of honest appreciation or mean-spiritedness, peers and strangers alike perceive his features to be "other."Drawing on psychological research and input from more than fifty multiracial families, Does Anybody Else Look Like Me? addresses the special questions and concerns facing such families, explaining how they can best prepare their multiracial children to make their way confidently in our color-conscious world. From the books and toys to use in play with young children, to simple scripts to help them gracefully react to insensitive comments at school, to advice on guiding older children toward an unflappable sense of self, Does Anybody Else Look Like Me? is the first book to outline for parents how, exactly, to deflect the objectifying and discomforting attention multiracial children are likely to receive. Full of powerful stories and expert counsel, it is sure to become the book that both adoptive and birth parents of different races will look to for understanding as they strive to raise their children in a changing world.


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The author, a freelance writer, is from a western European background, while her husband is Japanese American. Although Nakazawa initially hoped to raise her son and daughter to be "color blind," they couldn't ignore the many comments made by both adults and children concerning Christian and Claire's appearance. When Christian was a toddler he was asked if he spoke Chinese, and the author was assured that little Claire didn't "even look Asian." Nakazawa decided to develop strategies to ensure that her son and daughter would be proud of their heritage and confident about their multiracial identity. Finding no useful book on the subject, she decided to write her own. Based on personal experience and interviews conducted with 60 other multiracial families, Nakazawa has skillfully combined anecdotal research with a strong knowledge of childhood and educational development philosophy to provide this useful guide for raising multiracial children in a color- and race-conscious world. Nakazawa believes that, although most three-year-olds are not racially aware, it is important to deflect insensitive comments from strangers about appearance. As a child grows older, this early dialogue should deepen, so that children will feel safe and comfortable discussing their racial identity with parents and be able to bring up any racially charged experiences that have occurred at school or with friends. Included are suggestions for the special problems that may arise during adolescence.
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"An articulate, well-thought-out book...includes ideas for helping kids discuss race and confront hurtful remarks." -- Mothering November-December 2003

"[A] timely book [that's] very useful and just plain interesting to read." -- Baltimore's Child October 2003

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 256 pages
  • Publisher: Da Capo Press (June 17, 2003)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0738206059
  • ISBN-13: 978-0738206059
  • Product Dimensions: 9.3 x 6.3 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (14 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,056,905 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Donna Jackson Nakazawa

Donna Jackson Nakazawa

Donna Jackson Nakazawa is a nationally acclaimed researcher, writer and public speaker on health and family issues. She is the author of The Autoimmune Epidemic: Bodies Gone Haywire in a World out of Balance and the Cutting Edge Science that Promises Hope (Touchstone/Simon and Schuster, 2008), an investigation into the reasons behind today's alarming rise in rates of autoimmune diseases (multiple sclerosis, lupus, type 1 diabetes, thyroiditis, and dozens of other autoimmune diseases) in industrialized countries around the world.

In her book and lectures on the autoimmune epidemic, Ms. Nakazawa lays out the mounting evidence showing how our modern lifestyles, chemical-laden environment and twenty-first century diet have created the 'perfect storm' -- the ripest possible conditions -- for this epidemic to take hold. Nakazawa blends personal stories with the latest science to shed light on what we should know and do to halt this epidemic.

Publisher's Weekly says, 'Everyone with a friend or family member with an autoimmune disease will find this a must read.' Booklist calls The Autoimmune Epidemic 'A straight-talking alarum'[a] comprehensive heads up.' And Douglas Kerr, MD/PhD and director of the Johns Hopkins Transverse Myelitis Center says, 'The Autoimmune Epidemic is astounding'It is the kind of book that will scare you. It will make you angry' Reading it is a life-altering event. It needs to be.'

Nakazawa is also the author of Does Anybody Else Look Like Me? A Parent's Guide to Raising Multiracial Children (Perseus, 2003) and is a nationally recognized expert on educational issues affecting multicultural youth. She lectures and runs workshops on 'REFRAMING RACE: Understanding the Developmental Challenges of Multiracial Children in Independent Schools' at schools and conferences nationwide.

As a speaker and workshop leader, Ms. Nakazawa is known for her ability to empower her audience as she explores complex topics with depth, insight and compassion. Highlights of her lecture engagements on 'THE AUTOIMMUNE EPIDEMIC' include:

* Featured speaker, The Congressional Club
* Speaker, Johns Hopkins' 3rd International Rare Neuroimmunologic Disorders Symposium
* Speaker, To Your Health Lecture Series, 92nd Street Y

Highlights of Ms. Nakazawa's lecture engagements on 'REFRAMING RACE' include:

*Keynote speaker, The Association of Independent Schools of New England's (AISNE) Annual Diversity Conference
*Featured speaker, The Association of Independent Maryland Schools (AIMS)
*Keynote speaker, The Association of Independent Schools of Greater Washington (AISGW) Annual Diversity Conference
*Top independent schools around the country including Sidwell Friends; Potomac School; Bank Street School; Wilmington Friends and Georgetown Day

Ms. Nakazawa has also been the keynote speaker on women's health issues at:

* The National Association of Female Executives
* The University of Virginia
* St. Luke's Hospital, St. Louis, MO
* The Executive Women's Network
* Advertising Women of New York and other groups

She has taught courses on magazine writing at Harvard University's Radcliffe Publishing Procedures Course and the University of Oklahoma, and has been the recipient of fellowships-in-residence from the Corporation of Yaddo and the MacDowell Colony.

Donna Jackson Nakazawa has appeared on The Today Show, National Public Radio, and ABC News. Her work has been featured on the cover of Parade, in Time, USA Today Weekend, More, Parenting, and Psychology Today. She has been a contributor to The Washington Post, More, Glamour, Working Mother, AARP the Magazine, Redbook, New Woman, Baby Talk and My Generation.

Ms. Nakazawa received her Bachelor of Arts degree in English and Public Policy from Duke University with honors in 1982 and is a graduate of the Radcliffe Publishing Procedures Program.

 

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54 of 55 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars the book I was looking for, July 15, 2003
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This review is from: Does Anybody Else Look Like Me? A Parent's Guide to Raising Multiracial Children (Hardcover)
As a parent of multiracial children, I was delighted to find this book, which not only answered the questions I had, but gave me a wealth of information, strategies and tips that gives me confidence about the future of our family. While the statistics and psychological data are compelling, the most interesting facet of the book for me was the interviews with over 60 multiracial families. i would highly recommend this book to anyone concerned with the issues faced by multiracial children and their families and parents.
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34 of 35 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars excellent book for parents, November 29, 2003
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This review is from: Does Anybody Else Look Like Me? A Parent's Guide to Raising Multiracial Children (Hardcover)
Thank goodness this isn't another academic tome dealing with racial tensions and ethnicity in the U.S. Finally, we have a book geared for parents that is intelligent, informed and useful. The scripts alone--Ms. Nakazawa's suggestions for what to say to children in response to (or in anticipation of) challenging situations--are worth the price of the book. I know of at least one school that is giving away free copies of this book to all the parents of multiracial and transracially adoptive children in their school. I hope, for the sake of our children, that more schools will get the word out about this book.
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17 of 17 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Highly recommend, May 16, 2006
As the mother of 4 beautiful biracial children, I was delighted to find this intelligent, realistic book. My children are often asked "What are you?" and attempts are made to label them as Arabic, Latin, Greek,Black, Italian, etc, etc. This makes it difficult for them when they are at ages where all of us were trying to "find ourselves". My daughter has also had a difficult time, often meeting women who instantly dislike her based on her appearance alone. This book was refreshing and helped me to realize others go thru the same. I was amazed at the amount of research and fact finding this author included. The everyday anecdotes was also most truthful, speaking from personal experience. great find for anyone who knows, loves, interacts with those of more than 1 race!!
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AT THREE AND A HALF MY SON-Japanese American and Caucasian his first emotional paper cut as a multiracial child. Read the first page
Key Phrases - Statistically Improbable Phrases (SIPs): (learn more)
multiracial teenagers, multiracial young people, multiracial kids, multiracial child, multiracial youth, being multiracial, multiracial families, multiracial adults, multiracial students, multiracial individuals, biracial son, multiracial family, multiracial people, multiracial identity, biracial children, being biracial, racial borders, middle childhood years, racial identity development, interracial families
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African American, Native American, Maria Root, Nancy Brown, Kelley Kenney, Beverly Daniel Tatum, Matt Kelley, Carol Franks-Randall, World War, Caribbean American, Chinese American, Japanese American, Louise Lazare, Mark Kenney, Nicole Brown, Russian Jewish, United States, Bethany Fry, Diane Dillon, George Meyers, Jamie Doyle, Jana Bender, Linda Parker, Naomi Reed, Jennifer Franks
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