I'm sorry Sara. I bought this as a Christmas gift, so we have not played it yet. I read somewhere recently that most people didn't care for the game because there are no definite and distinctive answers, and it leaves too much to interpretation. I'm keeping it anyway, but I would not have purchased it if I had read those comments beforehand. Just a little fyi. I hope it helps you make a decision. Good luck.
Many packages are shipped via UPS/FedEx/something other than USPS and do not deliver to PO/APO/FPO. One reason is that it would technically be delivering to a system run by a competitor. If they were to drop it off at a PO, there is no way for the delivery company to ensure that the package from that point will make it to the customer's hands or actual residence. If something were to happen to it (even if it is an APO vs a standard PO), the delivery company could be held responsible. As much as they would like your business, with too much risk involved for both sides, that is why said items probably were not able to be delivered to your APO.
The judge chooses the card he thinks fits best and announces it to all players. The player who played that card will say it is theirs -- usually with a whoop and a holler as our games get very animated and silly! Hope this helps!