Army Wives: The Unwritten Code of Military Marriage (Paperback)

by Tanya Biank (Author) "Christmas 2000 had been a slower news cycle-but not so slow that I didn't have to cover the cop beat well after eleven on a..." (more)
Key Phrases: Andrea Lynne, Gary Shane, Fort Bragg (more...)

Editorial Reviews

From Publishers Weekly
In this insider's account of the sometimes-lethal strains that military life puts on families, Biank, an award-winning journalist and the daughter of a career army officer, finds much to admire in military spouses. She follows the lives of four women at Fort Bragg, N.C., home of the 82nd Airborne Division: the wife of a high-ranking officer who adds luster to her husband's career with her own polish; a senior noncommissioned officer's wife who ambivalently watches her son follow in his father's footsteps; a woman who falls in love with an enlisted man early in his career and struggles with balancing army demands with her own needs; and a former soldier who finds that the counterterrorist operative she married may be just as dangerous to her as he is to terrorists. Though her prose is sometimes clunky and some of the history feels a bit dated, Biank's novelistic sense of detail and suspense vividly demonstrates how "the Army... could bring couples closer together... or it could rip relationships apart." Army wives cope with unpredictable deployments and struggle to raise children alone, often on small paychecks, in a community both tightknit and sharply judgmental. "Army wives serve, too," says Biank—in an institution ambivalent about families. She makes sympathetic both their pride and their tragedies. (Feb.)
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From Booklist
The author of this provocative portrait of modern army wives is herself an army wife and comes from an army family. That combination of experience and insight enhances the value of the book's depiction of the army-family community. Basically, army wives these days are more often than not educated professionals but are expected to function enmeshed in a unique hierarchy very different from anything in civilian life. Moreover, they are far more frequently required to move house and home than civilian wives, and their risk of suddenly becoming widows is constant. For this the army has established support networks, but again, those are sui generis. Overall, Biank furnishes a detailed reminder, if any is needed, that the military is still a hierarchical subculture dominated by male values that imposes a considerable burden on those semi-innocent quasi bystanders, army wives. A good choice for military collections of any size. Frieda Murray
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Product Details

• Paperback: 288 pages
• Publisher: St. Martin's Griffin (May 29, 2007)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 031233351X
• ISBN-13: 978-0312333515
• Product Dimensions: 8.2 x 5.5 x 1 inches
• Shipping Weight: 8.8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.0 out of 5 stars See all reviews (57 customer reviews)
• Amazon.com Sales Rank: #26,579 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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14 of 16 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars Heavy Reading, February 11, 2006

By	P. F. Gay "Rockysgal" (Fort Knox, KY) - See all my reviews (REAL NAME)

This review is from: Under the Sabers: The Unwritten Code of Army Wives (Hardcover)

I am an Army wife and was thrilled to see a modern look at the military wife. The book is extremely well written. The characters were brought out in a manner that humanized them rather than stereotyped. The book is about Army wives at Ft. Bragg during a short time period and does not truly show how happy a lot of us really are. I finished the book and felt really depressed about the deaths and suicides on Ft. Bragg. The 82nd is unique and many Army wives never set foot there. I am a former soldier as well as the spouse of an Army man with 24 years in and we still love it. We do not just help out during funerals. The fun is missing in this book. It is fun to be part of it all-- we are not duty bound to help each other. We do it because we want to do it. The book also keeps bringing up "clean houses" as if that were the most important thing we care about. She mentions funerals and what woman would want a crowd coming through her house without the chance to straighten up. One of the best Army wife moments I ever had was at West Point when another Army family stopped by at 11am on a Sunday morning and seeing the chaos that my house was in just after church she quickly smiled and said, "I live in my house too." That is what Army wives are really like. There are truly many awesome wives out there and more great marriages than bad. The book focuses on mostly bad marriages and tragedy. In this operational environment I was hoping for an inspirational book about Army wives. This book is a page-turner and I could not put it down. After re-reading the jacket I can say the book does advertise itself as being just what it is, but the publicity around the book suggests it gives insight into the world of all Army wives.

7 of 7 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars A remarkable book, July 5, 2007

By	M. Krajeski "army wife" (Wakefield, RI) - See all my reviews (REAL NAME)

This review is from: Under the Sabers: The Unwritten Code of Army Wives (Hardcover)

I nearly read this book in one sitting--it was that mesmerizing. As an Army wife for 18 years, I can tell you that Tanya Biank has accomplished what I've never seen: a book about Army life written with a journalist's eye for detail and the understanding, compassionate tone of someone who's been an Army brat and became an Army wife herself. Her research, candor, and writing talents are first-rate as she offers us a window into the lives, personalities, and backgrounds of 4 very different Army wives.

This isn't the definitive book on Army wives--no one can write that because it's a deeply personal and complex subject that defies description. I think the subtitle is unfortunate, "The Unwritten Code of Army Wives," as if it were a tell-all, but don't be put off.

UNDER THE SABERS is part slice-of-life, part cultural commentary, and part news reporting as Biank's portraits of these Army wives intersect with the sensational national headlines of the murders at Fort Bragg. In the process, she articulates the daily challenges we can all relate to, such as frequent moves, solo parenting, social pressures, and anxiety about our husband's safety. UNDER THE SABERS documents an important and unrecognized social history. It will always have a prominent place on my bookshelf, no matter where we live.

Marna Krajeski, author of HOUSEHOLD BAGGAGE: THE MOVING LIFE OF A SOLDIER'S WIFE.

8 of 10 people found the following review helpful:

3.0 out of 5 stars Not typical of Army life, April 16, 2007

By	K. Richey "bookworm" (Fort Bragg, NC) - See all my reviews (REAL NAME)

This review is from: Under the Sabers: The Unwritten Code of Army Wives (Hardcover)

I read Under the Sabers because it was reccomended to me as an Army wife making a move to Fort Bragg.

And while I did think the book was an interesting read, I would not reccomend it to just any Army wife. It was not at all uplifting, and I wasn't told any accurate descriptions of the book. It wasn't just about the Army Wife killings that took place at Bragg.

The book jumped around a lot, and it seemed so random at times. I felt like all it focused on was death and never the positive aspect of Army life. I only really related to one of the characters and that made it hard to get into the book.

After reading the book, I was very apprehensive about our PCS to Bragg, as it did not put Bragg in a positive light at all. The whole tone of the book was negative and it was a real downer to read.