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Insight into Arnold, September 7, 2006
In her memoir, Barbara Outland Baker remembers her days as Arnold Schwarzenegger's first American girlfriend in the turbulent late 60s and early 70s. They dated for six years, and she explores both the happy and the not-so-happy times. However, she never stoops to revenge. Instead, her memories of a young Arnold are warm and touching. This Arnold is the insecure foreigner whom most contemporary Americans either forgot or never knew. This is the story of Arnold forging his career out of broken English and hours of body-building. But this book is more than just another biography of Arnold. Barbara's story is all her own. This is a story of a woman struggling to learn who she is the in shadow of a Titan. This is the story of a woman fighting to cast her own shadow. As such, she touches a nerve in every young woman who has ever sacrificed herself for someone she loved. Hers is a long and winding journey, and she took me right along with her.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
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Very Well Written Book, April 21, 2007
This review is from: Arnold and Me: In the Shadow of the Austrian Oak (Paperback)
A very well written and informative book about the early years of Arnold and his first love after arriving in America in the late 60's.
While reading this book one actually feels the emotions of the writer to a certain extent.
If you are interested at all in the story of Schwarzenegger and what he was like before his extreme fame,this is the one book you need to read.
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12 of 16 people found the following review helpful:
2.0 out of 5 stars
a bit whine fest, July 12, 2007
This review is from: Arnold and Me: In the Shadow of the Austrian Oak (Paperback)
I purchased this book hoping to learn more about Arnold. I found that this book is about Barbara, not Arnold. Arnold is just one of the main characters. She keeps writing adjectives about Arnold, but never really says why. I learned very little about Arnold that I didn't already know.
What struck me most was that Barbara knew from day 1 that Arnold was wrong for her, but she dove in anyway, and then wondered why life didn't turn out the way she wanted. She wanted to change Arnold into what kind of a man she wanted. That never works, but so many women think they can pull it off.
Later, she wonders where all the good men are. Well here's a newsflash, Barbara: You are not a good woman, how do you expect to get a good man?
She gave up all her morals and then wondered why she wasn't happy.
She also missed out on a wonderful opportunity to learn from a great man. Arnold may be flawed in many ways, but he knew how to be successful. So often during this book I wanted to scream, "HEY, Barbara, can't you see why Arnold is successful and you aren't? Arnold does it right, you don't." Arnold tried to inspire her to greatness, but she just selfishly wanted Arnold all to herself, to the exclusion of even his best friends. That's not love, that's obsession and ownership.
Frankly, I don't know why Arnold even put up with her for so long.
She says that they had good times, but once I finished the book, I wondered why they ever stayed together. It sure seemed to me that the good times were severely few and far between for Barbara.
I would recommend this book to teenage girls, as a don't-let-this-happen-to-you warning.
Well written, it kept my interest, but I am glad I am done with it.
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