I've become an avid fan of Anne Roiphe again, after a forty-year hiatus. The last fiction I read by Roiphe was Long Division back in the early 70s. But in the past few years I've been reading her various books of memoirs - EPILOGUE, 1185 PARK AVENUE, and now her latest, ART AND MADNESS. And let us not forget the new book's subtitle, because it is exceedingly apt: A MEMOIR OF LUST WITHOUT REASON. Who'da thunk the famously sedate fifties were filled with so much sex, drinking, sleeping around, visiting of prostitutes and, well, yeah, lust.
Roiphe was born on Christmas Day 1935 and was raised under conditions of wealth and privilege, although her home life was plagued by parents who did not love each other, a philandering and cold father and all kinds of other unhappy stuff. That story is told in 1185 PARK AVENUE, all the way up through the dissolution of Roiphe's own first marriage and the deaths of her parents and brother. EPILOGUE is all about the grief-stricken period which followed the sudden death of her second husband, a marriage that had endured for forty years.
ART AND MADNESS is quite a different kind of animal. It was written, perhaps, in response to repeated queries from her adult daughter Katie (also a writer, who penned the Foreword) about what Mom's life was like during her twenties. But I also got the feeling that, at 75-plus, Roiphe is beginning to fell time closing in, because, unlike the carefully crafted prose of the other two memoirs, this one is told in a kind of full-speed-ahead, stream-of-consciousness mode, in a broken, back-and-forth chronology jumping between the fifties and sixties. There are no chapter headings; each section is labeled only with a year, and may jump from high school to young-married/new-mother, then back to a college year, and so on. The style is often terse and short, almost Hemingway-esque in manner. I thought too of the simplistic style of another minor writer I remember from the 60s, Jonathan Strong and his debut book, TIKE AND FIVE STORIES - and a damn good book at that. Other readers, I have noticed, complained of two many "I's" in this book. I noticed this too, but I didn't feel it detracted in any way from the forward (or backward) flow of the narrative. It maintained a uniform speed, which was considerable for the entirety of the book. So I'm not going to 'dis' this stylistic change, because it's not worse, it's just different. And it works, because you feel the urgency to get the stories told; you also benefit from the lifetime of encyclopedic reading she's done and a hard-won wisdom she has gained in the intervening years. Because a younger writer could never have told the kind of story you read here.
There is so much here that is so on-the-mark about coming of age in the 50s (and early 60s too). On dating, for example -
"...I let Bill kiss me until his face was covered with lipstick. I let him put his hands on my breasts. I didn't let him do anything else, because I knew that if I did he would talk about me." Then she tells how at the end of the evening, at her door, he became "not the knight in shining armor," but a "predator," and how she didn't want to be "spoiled goods," as her mother warned her.
There is a rather sad yet nearly comical description of her deflowering in a Barcelona tenement during an overseas college jaunt, by a would-be writer - a lover whose writing turned out to be so bad that she was glad to see the last of him.
There is much here about the doomed-to-failure marriage to playwright Jack Richardson, a man described as entirely self-centered, alcoholic and deeply damaged. In fact he sounds like he may have had some form of Asperberger's in a time before that disorder had even been 'discovered.' A child results from this unfortunate union, which finally dissolved after six years. "The child" - which is the only way Roiphe ever refers to this baby here - ends up irreparably damaged herself, despite being adopted by Roiphe's second husband, a good marriage which lasted for over forty years.
And then there are all the endless parties, happenings and orgies at which Roiphe was a frequent 'decoration' during her divorced years, all the adulterous affairs with married artists and writers from those crazy decadent years that were the 60s. She makes no apologies, but she's not particularly proud of any of it either, noting at the close of her narrative that she "would never do it again. Never." Many famous writers with whom she had dalliances are named here - almost all of them dead now, victims of alcohol, drugs, and too-much-too-soon - or in the case of her first husband, not enough; just failure.
This is one hell of a ride, lemme tell ya. I found most of it positively riveting. If I have a complaint, it's that there is some redundancy here, stuff from the other two memoirs that is repeated. But if you only read this one, that's not anything you'll notice. And this is an excellent, blazingly honest slice-of-life from the artistic scene in NYC in the 50s and 60s. I will recommend it highly. - Tim Bazzett, author of the memoir BOOKLOVER