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The Art and Practice of Loving

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Very positive coaching within reality. Not too deep, not rightous, just open and honest. I have to constantly order this book as I give it to so many of my friends and I hope I don't get it back, that it's out there being read by many. I re-read this book every other year or so to keep on track with personal growth and to stay a positive influence in the world.

I am a former student of Professor Andrews, both in his chemistry courses and his class on understanding human values. His outstanding personable qualities made learning from him a joy. This book reflects these wonderful attributes in a subject that should be dear to everyone. As one of his teaching assistants for chemistry, I remember discussing triumphs with him and my fellow students (his definition of a triumph was anything you consider to be a triumph). Nearly 20 years later, I still vividly recall this! Professor Andrews first wrote a text titled, "Willing to Love" for his course on problem solving. The book examines love and relationships, integrating it with his personal feelings. Likewise, this book shares such feelings and is a must-read by those wanting to better understand their own self-worth (and more importantly, realize they do have it).

This book is amazing! It has 144 practices that completely transform how you think about your life, other people, loving, and spirituality. It is extremely clear and full of really unique insights. I think both deeply religious people and atheists will be comfortable reading it and will gain from it. Its probing insights will change how you approach all the relationships in your life. I especially liked his inquiry into whether it is more important to be loved or to be loving. I also found his practice of working to love people you don't think you like to be very eye opening!

Dr. Andrews spent much of his career as a Chemistry professor, during my time at UCSC he converted into an emeritus faculty member and began to offer his incredible and unique insights into the world via a writing class. After taking his class I sought out his book to continue reading and thinking in the ways he had taught. To summarize much of what Dr. Andrews espouses is about maximizing the quality of your experience and really appreciating life and all of it's gifts. A BIG HELP TO STRUGGLING RELATIONSHIPS, seriously it will help if you sit down with your partner and do some of these exercises. Enjoy

No, this is not a sexual book. It's just good practical advice on loving, which we all need in our lives, now more than ever. It's one I'll keep in my library for years to come. Enjoy!

This book is one of those rare "self-help" books that actually provides comprehensive and useful advice. No preachiness, no big photos of the author on the cover. Just Frank telling you ideas he thinks are useful for living a good life. I've been opening this book on and off for more than three years, and still find them relevant. Frank has helped me change my life dramatically for the better. This book is absolutely worth your money.