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Asian Dining Rules: Essential Strategies for Eating Out at Japanese, Chinese, Southeast Asian, Korean, and Indian Restaurants [Paperback]

Steven A. Shaw
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Book Description

October 21, 2008

Most Asian restaurants are really two restaurants: one where outsiders eat, and one where insiders dine. So how can you become an insider and take full advantage of Asian cuisines?

In this indispensable guide, dining expert Steven A. Shaw proves that you don't have to be Asian to enjoy a VIP experience—you just have to eat like you are. Through entertaining and richly told anecdotes and essays, Asian Dining Rules takes you on a tour of Asian restaurants in North America, explaining the cultural and historical background of each cuisine—Japanese, Chinese, Southeast Asian, Korean, and Indian—and offering an in-depth survey of these often daunting foodways. Here are suggestions for getting the most out of a restaurant visit, including where to eat, how to interact with the staff, be treated like a regular, learn to eat outside the box, and order special off-menu dishes no matter your level of comfort or knowledge.

Steven Shaw—intrepid reporter, impeccable tastemaker, and eater extraordinaire—is the perfect dining companion to accompany you on your journey to find the best Asian dining experience, every time.



Editorial Reviews

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“Read this book before eating at an Asian restaurant…you’ll be a step ahead” (Iron Chef Masaharu Morimoto )

“With Shaw’s Dining Rules under your belt, you’ll be ordering like a regular.” (Martin Yan, cookbook author and host of the Yan Can Cook Show )

“What impresses me about Steven Shaw is not that he’s mastered Asian decorum, but that he’s mastered almost everything in the food world. Nobody should be that gifted. I’m twice his age, and I’m constantly learning from him.” (Alan Richman )

“Steven Shaw is the dining companion we all yearn for when eating unfamiliar foods in unfamiliar places: He is warm, wise, and goes out of his way to make us feel as informed (and well fed) as possible.” (James Oseland, editor-in-chief, Saveur, and author of Cradle of Flavor: Home Cooking from the Spice Islands of Indonesia, Malaysia, and Singapore )

“As you order the shrimp fried rice and General Tso’s chicken for the eight hundredth time, you eye the guests to your left. They have, apparently, seen a secret, far superior menu. Hungry reader, they read this book.” (Phoebe Damrosch, author of Service Included )

About the Author

Steven A. Shaw, aka "The Fat Guy," is the founder of the phenomenally successful eGullet website, a James Beard Award-winning food critic, and a contributor to Saveur, Crain's New York Business, and many other publications. He lives in New York City with his wife and son.


Product Details

  • Paperback: 272 pages
  • Publisher: William Morrow Cookbooks; Original edition (October 21, 2008)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0061255599
  • ISBN-13: 978-0061255595
  • Product Dimensions: 8 x 5.1 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 10.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (51 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,399,942 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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17 of 19 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Entertaining October 22, 2008
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This little book is a very entertaining read. Part storytelling, part instructional, often very personal, every page is engaging. Steven Shaw writes in a style that is something between a columnist's approach and an essayist's. The result is a series of interesting, short segments that loosely hang together within each of the cuisine-specific chapters of the book. The closest comparison I might make to the flow is to a travel show on television.

Is the author authoritative on the topic? I can't honestly say, though I'm mostly convinced. I hedge because of issues with the advice itself - the "rules" referenced in the title - and the limited coverage. See more below on that. The book carries two Asian heavyweight endorsements on the front and back covers, though: Iron Chef Masaharu Morimoto and Martin Yan of Yan Can Cook. So presumably the educational content is accurate.

This is a 250 page book that covers 5 major cuisines. Each cuisine chapter is, therefore, regrettably limited, especially when you toss in all the personal stories and offbeat - if interesting - segues (e.g., pairing French wines with Japanese food). And there's the rub - the book is supposed to be about "dining rules," here meaning what you need to know and how to act in order to be treated like an insider and get the good stuff. The overview-level coverage winds up coming short of the goal, in turn leading to the doubts concerning the author's authority mentioned above.

The Japanese section illustrates all the points mentioned above. The entire section is only about 50 pages long. Shaw occupies the first several with a charming story about the Ushiwaka Maru sushi bar in New York City, followed immediately by some sushi myth-busting, a few pages on sushi history, several more on a personal sushi story and a sidetrack into Kaiten sushi not particulary relevant to US readers, finally devoting 8 or 9, quite usefully, to sushi basics. If you are getting the idea that there is a heavy sushi focus to the Japanese cuisine chapter at the expense of the remainder of the cuisine, you would be correct.

The author has STILL not got on to the task of advising us on the "dining rules," however. And before he gets there, there are nearly 5 pages of his personal odyssey into making sushi at home. Sigh.

We finally get to the advice on page 47, under "Guerrilla Sushi Tactics." I'm primed and ready. I'm educated and entertained. Only to find that the advice amounts mostly to bravado and things you probably already know, including sitting at the sushi bar and talking directly to the head sushi chef. The most interesting thing here is, literally, the author's comments on the various cuts of tuna.

That done, we're on to a discussion of red wine and sushi - taking 4 pages, then 10 pages - 10 - titled "Beyond Sushi: Taking in the full scope of Japanese Cuisine"! To say that this is the briefest, barest, sweeping survey coverage of a limited number of food items would be an exaggeration. And to end the chapter, Shaw takes 5 pages on a completely off-the-wall topic - sushi (again) and pregnancy!

Whew!

What this book needs is a consistent focus. Starting with what's promised in the title would help, as the advice turns out to be thin. The format is also problematic. This is a pulp paperback and there isn't a single picture to be found. It's as if the author and publisher assume the reader is already knowledgeable. But that invalidates the premise of the book, doesn't it?

As I struggled for a cogent title for this review, it all boiled down to the single word "entertaining." If you approach this book as a diverting read written by an engaging author, you will enjoy it. If you go looking for a comprehensive look at any of the cuisines, or, frankly, substantive advice on being treated like an insider, you're going to be a little disappointed.
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12 of 15 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars Title is misleading October 23, 2008
By Laura I
Format:Paperback|Amazon Vine™ Review (What's this?)
I assumed this would be a book about 'Asian dining rules' and I was pretty much wrong. Maybe I have a different definition of what 'rules' are, but I assumed that meant things like etiquette, what not to do, etc. I love going to eat at authentic asian restaurants and figured this book would show me how to interact with the staff properly.

In my opinion, the book seemed like it was aimed more at people who had never ate at an Asian restaurant before (who those people are, I have no idea). The advice was common sense, like if you go to a Chinese buffet, fill your plate right when it's brought out from the kitchen so that the food is fresh. And, avoid the lomein because it'll fill you up. The Japanese section of the book focused almost entirely on sushi, and frankly I think there's a lot more to Japanese cuisine than that. It's sort of like writing a book about Italian food and only talking about pizza. I had figured this book was going to tell me things like what 'itadakimasu' means, etc.

Like I said, I think this would be a good book for someone who really hasn't had much by the way of Asian food, and would like help choosing menu items. But if you already have a passion for is, you should probably pass this one up.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Fun Read! November 1, 2008
By R G
Format:Paperback|Amazon Verified Purchase
Reading Asian Dining Rules is like spending time with a good (and funny!) friend who explains what food critics already know about how Asian restaurants really work and how to get the most out of your experience. He takes you through Guerrilla Sushi Tactics, explains "Thai spicy", and lets you in on the secret of the Two Menus in Chinese restaurants. The real stories about families who have started and run their own restaurants are great. I find myself thumbing through the book before heading out to Asian restaurants now. I would recommend the book to both novice and experienced diners.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
1.0 out of 5 stars Totally misleading title. Buy a bunch of Asian cookbooks instead, even...
This is not a book about Asian dining etiquette. This is mainly a book about Asian food served in the US and what you need to know to get the most out of the experience. Read more
Published on December 7, 2010 by Jackal
3.0 out of 5 stars Moderately entertaining not actually instructional
I read this book the first time and came away with the feeling that I hadn't learned very much from it... Read more
Published on October 16, 2010 by C. J. Thompson
4.0 out of 5 stars Decent primer for asian cuisine neophytes
Steven Shaw's, "Asian Dining Rules" is a decent primer for neophytes to the wide-world of Asian cuisines and makes for a light, fun read for those with many belly-fulls of... Read more
Published on September 16, 2010 by Sibelius
5.0 out of 5 stars Asian dinibg info
The book is in excellent condition, transport time was just a bit longer than usual, but I an very satisfied. I would prefer that a bill not be included in a gift.
Published on September 6, 2010 by EP
4.0 out of 5 stars Fascinating and fun read
Steven Shaw is a New York Jew, which automatically makes him something of an expert on Chinese food at least. Read more
Published on May 27, 2010 by Stacy Alesi
4.0 out of 5 stars Asian Dining Rules!
See what I did there, making the title into a pun by adding an exclamation mark? Well, all humor aside, this is a very good introduction for those who have never eaten at an Asian... Read more
Published on May 17, 2009 by Zekeriyah
3.0 out of 5 stars Cursory Look but Good For True Culinary Beginners
I was somewhat led to believe from the cover that this would be a tips and cultural guide to various Asian cuisines and while the book does contain that, it does so very... Read more
Published on April 20, 2009 by Carl Cheng
4.0 out of 5 stars Great for the adventurous but relatively inexperienced palette.
The title of Steven Shaw's breezy little reader ASIAN DINING RULES can be taken two ways; first as a rundown of the rules that one should abide by when dining in Asian restaurants,... Read more
Published on April 16, 2009 by Brian T
3.0 out of 5 stars decent guide to asian dining
A little too narrow in scope to be of much practical use, but provides a good guide to asian dining.
Published on March 19, 2009 by Adam
4.0 out of 5 stars Entertaining and educational
Entertaining and educational, Steven Shaw's 'Asian Dining Rules' is full of great information for lovers of Asian cuisines. Read more
Published on February 22, 2009 by Michael Jandrok
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