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Assembling My Father: A Daughter's Detective Story [Hardcover]

Anna Cypra Oliver (Author)
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August 5, 2004
In 1974, when Anna Cypra Oliver was five years old, her father put a gun to his head and killed himself. That shot has haunted her all her life. Obsessed by the need to learn who he was and why he died, she set out on a journey of discovery, following the clues he had scattered during his brief lifetime. Assembling My Father is her extraordinary chronicle of that journey. Strikingly original, it is a stunning mosaic of eloquent language and memorable images — photographs, journal entries, even doodles, the poignant artifacts that are part of the record of his life.
Lewis Weinberger, Anna’s father, the product of an affluent and cultivated Jewish background, married a vibrant girl with strong avant-garde leanings. Drawn to the counterculture, they made their way to Taos, New Mexico. There, in the chaos and disorder of hippie life, their marriage foundered, a devastating blow to Lewis and the beginning of his drug-saturated disintegration. After his suicide, Anna’s mother, born Jewish, became an ardent Christian fundamentalist, taking up with a series of rough-edged, sometimes violent men. This was the world of Anna’s childhood, indelibly delineated here.
A fascinating personal memoir, Oliver’s story is also that of a turbulent era that, for better and for worse, changed the world.


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Growing up, Oliver had no real interest in learning the details of the life of her father, Lewis Weinberger, or the circumstances of his suicide (which happened in 1974, when she was a toddler and he was 35). Luckily for readers, her interest is piqued when she is in her 20s. Oliver's careful detective work spans decades, probing worlds as different as Jewish Queens, N.Y., in the 1940s, and Taos, N.Mex., in its late-'60s heyday of hippiedom. As Oliver digs through memorabilia and conducts interviews, she learns her father was much more than a deeply flawed individual: he was also a drug user and a drug smuggler. She relies on her father's journal and sparse personal effects (including home movies and his favorite books and records) to present a portrait of a tormented genius (Lewis was a failed architect), although the most memorable descriptions come from family and friends. After an emotionally draining afternoon spent with two of her father's boyhood buddies, Oliver writes, "In the space of an hour, my father has gone from a... man who committed suicide while on drugs to a sophisticated man of intellect who was a hero to his friends." Oliver's memorial to her elusive dad—and the way researching and writing it changes her own identity—is unforgettable. Photos.
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From Bookmarks Magazine

Assembling My Father is not a conventional memoir. Oliver tells her father’s story in bits and pieces, as widely varying as the possessions of his that she picks up during her quest. Some reviewers felt the work’s haphazard organization suited its subject matter; others craved more structure, or found some elements of the collection less engaging than others. All agreed, however, that Oliver rendered her search for her father’s identity with affection and bravery. The search for an absent parent is a well-worn topic, and Oliver deserves high praise for making it fresh.

Copyright © 2004 Phillips & Nelson Media, Inc.


Product Details

  • Hardcover: 368 pages
  • Publisher: Houghton Mifflin Harcourt (August 5, 2004)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0618341528
  • ISBN-13: 978-0618341528
  • Product Dimensions: 9 x 6 x 1.3 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.4 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 4.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (6 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #2,702,263 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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5.0 out of 5 stars An excellent memoir and first book, October 5, 2004
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Prior to reading "Assembling My Father" I was lucky enough to attend a writer's workshop with Anna Oliver in Boise, Idaho, and I must say she is an incredible woman. She is not only intelligent and insightful, but also extremely well read- all of which show up in her writing. In "Assembling My Father," she experiments with style and form, including extensive primary records such as pictures, news articles and writings from her father's journal which add to the overall theme of a "detective story." The inclusion of Anna's own tale of personal growth alongside her discoveries of her father's untimely demise create a depth of emotion and a unique poignancy. This is a must-read for anyone interested in writing memoir, especially family history, or for anyone who is interested in the counterculture of the 60's and 70's. I cannot reccommend it enough.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Unique and totally engaging, August 21, 2007
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This book is fascinating--it says it's a detective story, and it is, but with a twist--it's a detective story about people, and why they do what they do. It's a mystery where the writer tries to unravel how choices and fate and relationships and everything else all twist together to make and change lives, sometimes in sad ways. To me, it is the most interesting sort of mystery ever.

Which is why reading this book was such a total delight. It's like spending time with a really intelligent, engaging person dissecting events and following shreds of evidence, and there's this sense of loss when it's all over--you kind of want to stay engaged. A most excellent read!!
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3 of 4 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent, October 26, 2004
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I often randomly choose books to read, without reading reviews or recommendations. Sometimes that method backfires and I'm stuck with a stinker, but not in this case - I was very pleasantly surprised by this book. Perhaps it was the writing, perhaps it was the loss of my own father when I was very young (probably a combination of both) - this book touched me in a personal way that no other book has for some time.
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