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October 16, 2007
For women who long for serious commitment in a relationship, the harsh reality is that if they can't get a man to call them back for a second date, they will be doomed to a life of single-date relationships with no "till death do us part."

Dating expert, Victorya Michaels Rogers, author of Finding a Man Worth Keeping, tells how in this book she went from no dates to being pursued by an Academy Award winner, a rock star, a gospel singer, a preacher, an athlete, and more--until she found the man she decided was worth keeping.

Rogers has dating down to a science, and shares her expertise in sure-fire, guaranteed-to-work secrets. And the best part is that these secrets work for any single woman at any age--secrets that will teach readers how to:

• Evaluate her own personal plusses and minuses and learn how to enhance her finest qualities while minimizing negatives.

• Find eligible men, even involving friends and family in her search

• Flirt just enough to get him to come over and ask her out

• Charm her way through her first phone call

• Dress for the first date

• Establish rapport and relax in the first fifteen minutes of her first date

• Keep the first-date conversation all about him so she can (1) see if he matches her "wish list" and (2) keep him interested in his favorite subject--himself.

• Use body language, gestures, and vocal tone to communicate just what she wants him to know

• Flatter a man with believable, genuine compliments

• Know how far to go on the first date

• Let him down easy if there's no "spark"

• Not to scare him off by being too pushy

Rogers has discovered the secrets to finding and keeping the man of your dreams and has proven that her methods work. She went on dates with more than one hundred men in eighteen months, 98 percent of whom asked her out for a second date. Written for women, by a woman who practiced what she preaches, this book is guaranteed to teach women how to transform their repeat-date ratio.


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"This is one of the best dating books I've ever read. The Automatic 2nd Date gives you the tools to explore what you really need out of a relationship and shows you how to unlock your special sparkle within. Had I known these skills at a younger age, I would have been married ten years earlier." -- Lynn Rosenthal, TV producer, recovered date-a-holic

"Pull up a chair and lean in. You are about to discover the secret truths of dating successfully and finding the real you along the way. This book could change everything for you." -- Tammy Trent, recording artist, author, speaker

"The Automatic 2nd Date is very insightful. It's just what I needed right now. Much of it is so poignant, especially in today's dating society. These are tools that anyone can apply." -- Peri Bay, single girl in L.A.

About the Author

Victorya Rogers went on over 100 1st dates with 98% asking her out for a 2nd. From no dates to being pursued by an Academy Award winner, Rock star, DJ, Firefighter, and more, this Hollywood agent had dating down to a science and enjoys teaching that science to you. She's been married to her husband Will for 10 years and continues to appear on many radio and television programs. For more about Victorya go to http://www.mantokeep.com

Product Details

  • Paperback: 272 pages
  • Publisher: Howard Books; Original edition (October 16, 2007)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1416543821
  • ISBN-13: 978-1416543824
  • Product Dimensions: 8.2 x 5.4 x 0.9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 11.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (7 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #175,662 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Hi I'm Victorya Michaels Rogers, a Life and Love Coach with a passion to help women make better choices so they can live the life of their dreams. I wrote FINDING A MAN WORTH KEEPING for gals who are tired of what they've been getting in love thus far. My latest book, THE AUTOMATIC SECOND DATE, is especially for anyone wondering why you're not getting called back by that guy or as well as for those clueless about how to even get someone to ask you out in the first place'answers and solutions to those questions are given in detail.


What makes me qualified to be your love coach? Not only have I studied the topic for decades and achieved advance degrees, I've been there, done that, and succeeded on everything I teach you. I went from no dates to being pursued by an Academy Award winner, rock star, gospel singer, Christian DJ, athlete and more. During my former career as a Hollywood agent, I've went on well over 100 first dates with 98% of those men asking me out for a second date. I had dating down to a science and I'd love to teach that science to you, with the goal of compelling you to realize you are worth holding out for the very best. Never settle. I'm not one of those authors who doesn't practice what I preach. I am actually happily married to my first and only husband. Marriage is not easy, but it is worth it!

I speak at universities, conventions, churches, retreats, conferences, and dinners helping Singles make better choices in relationships.

Before becoming a Life Coach, I spent more than a decade as a Hollywood agent, representing award-winning writers, producers, directors, actors and technical crew. I also taught three years for the Entertainment Extension Program at UCLA on how to break into TV & movie biz. I received my Master's degree in Theology at Fuller Seminary and I'm in the midst of pursuing my doctorate in Leadership at Dallas Baptist University.


I've been married to Will, my man worth keeping, since 1998 and have two amazing kids.

 

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5.0 out of 5 stars Perfect Gift for Single Girlfriends!, November 23, 2007
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Okay, I love this book. This is a great follow-up to Rogers last book FINDING A MAN WORTH KEEPING. I have so many girlfriends who are single-again and terrified to get back in the dating game. I will be gifting AUTOMATIC 2nd DATE to these girlfriends this year. Rogers guides weary singles on a step by step plan on gaining confidence, courage and charisma. She shows how ANY single woman can compel men to ask them out, AND she reveals step by step instructions on how you can sail through first dates without scaring a great guy away (without being phony or manipulative). I especially like the 100 questions she offers to help jump start a conversation with your man which includes some deep questions you can lightly venture into to help gain valuable insight into the inner character of your man--all on the first date and without scaring him away. Rogers does not teach you how to manipulate your date, rather she shows you how you can "get on the same wavelength" of your man just by paying attention and doing subtle shifts in your normal behavior to actually let someone know you care without scaring them away. If you ever wondered why "HE" didn't call back for a 2nd date, even when you had a great time, then you HAVE to read this book.
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5.0 out of 5 stars I got a man, June 20, 2011
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This is sooo funny. I was reading her book at the same time i was testing internet dating. Well, i was able to really screen the bull from the real. So i ended up talking to this 1 guy that was more about action, calling, set-up dates and keeping them. Well i used this book, what i did was talked less, let him call me more than i did him, and more-so just relaxed. I mean and it worked we are now very steady daters. Her book covers everything a real true read. Don't be embarrased, go ahead & check it out,,,now if i can only find one for how to get married.

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5.0 out of 5 stars automatic 2nd date, HIGHLY recommended, March 26, 2008
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This book is awesome, Even though she is a christian she doesnt come off super religious or strict about things. Her advice is really practical and down to earth while still incorporating and not compromising christian values. This book is an easy read, like im having a conversation with a girlfriend. I read almost the whole book in the same day and im not big on reading...It really encouraged me to pay attention to how i look and clean up my physical a little bit. Some of the flirting techniques were not for me but overall this book was great. Take the advice that works for you and run with it, you will not be dissapointed.
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