I first heard about Ms. Bomer's book of short stories in an online magazine article. I was intrigued enough that I purchased the book. I was not disappointed. I found the book to be filled with short stories that were angry, despairing, bitter, raw and dissolute.
Many stories deal with the angst and existential loneliness of people, even (and maybe especially) those in relationships. Those with families feel alienated and frightened. Nothing comes out like expected and the ideal does not exist except as a fleeting idea.
The characters are mostly affluent and educated people, disenchanted with their lives and their families. They are graduates of Smith, Middlebury, and Connecticut College. Unlike the wonderful writers Donald Ray Pollack and Raymond Carver who write about the poor and disenfranchised, and the cultural calamities that they face, Bomer examines the dysfunction and poverty of life of the more affluent and educated.
There is the wife who can't get her husband to leave home until she holds a knife to her neck and threatens to kill herself, the man who believes that his life's trauma results from having to watch his wife give birth. There is a woman trapped in a loveless marriage, governed by her own anger and alcoholism. She can only feel anger, rage, resentment and disappointment. These are typical feelings shared by many of the characters that people Bomer's stories.
Many of the stories deal with the dynamics of marriage once children are present. There is the family where one child 'belongs' to the father and the other to the mother. In another story, the father is the odd man out. In yet another, a mother tries to appease the child she loves by paying more attention to the child she loves less.
Almost all these stories deal with imploding families, with dynamics so mercurial and devastating that the reader wants to hold on to their chair for dear life. This is a book to savor. It definitely will stay with you whether you want it to or not. It is powerful, bold and strong. Don't miss this book. Thank you Paula Bomer!