15 of 16 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars
Like a fast-paced novel, yet useful, July 31, 2009
This review is from: Be the Hero: Three Powerful Ways to Overcome Challenges in Work and Life (Hardcover)
I'm surprised. While the ideas may be familiar to those acquainted with the psychology of personal change, the book reads like a fast-paced summer novel. And I need its reminders daily.
Best dialogue from the book:
Jeff said, "So I think I get what you are saying, but this guy was a jerk. He didn't have a reservation. There was a forty-five minute wait and he wanted to be seated immediately in one of the premier seats in the restaurant. That's a jerk."
"No," said Martin. "That's a story. You are telling yourself a story about this person that's making you angry even now."
Best insight:
Whatever the problem (or opportunity), I have options about how I frame the situation to myself. Hard to implement at times, but incredibly powerful. And confirmed by dozens of classic studies (McAdams, Sheehy, Levinson, among others)--most of which don't read as entertainingly.
New Yorker cartoon that most relates: A man walks in on his wife in bed with another man. His wife says, "Allow me to offer a competing narrative."
Healthy parody from The Onion: "I Guess Now Would be As Good a Time as Any To Triumph Over Adversity." Includes observations like " I'm just not up for a moment of unprecedented human achievement right now. Maybe after I finish watching the rest of this Seinfeld episode, I'll be in the mood to discover my previously untapped wells of courage and power. But maybe I'll take a nap first."
Far Side cartoon that most relates: Two devils watch a guy pushing a wheelbarrel of coal through the fires of hell, and he's whistling. One devil says to the other, "You know, we're just not reaching that guy." Whether at work or home, I must beware what I tell myself others should do, and what hell my own story puts them through.
Sure such books don't change external reality. But I can change how I relate to that reality, how I respond, and what I do. And that can change what then happens in reality.
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14 of 15 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Be the Hero..., August 10, 2009
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Length:: 2:40 Mins
Here's a video the author made to promote his book. Check it out.
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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
A quick read, but insightful and moving, July 24, 2009
This review is from: Be the Hero: Three Powerful Ways to Overcome Challenges in Work and Life (Hardcover)
Noah has written an excellent parable that is readily applicable the moment you pick it up. All of us experience "change moments" when the way we view the world colors the way we live those moments. The true value of Be The Hero is that it helps us to recognize the way we are seeing things and to consider that as the basis for behavior change.
You can use Be The Hero to improve your communications and your relationships immediately -- but it will have even more value as you practice Noah's techniques at home and at work. Thanks for a great read!
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