Beat Him At His Own Divorce! [Paperback]

Ted Knight (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: September 1, 1998

The author of "Beat Him At His Own Divorce!" is a man, Ted Knight. It is the result of his work with several women whose husbands walked out on them after 25 or more years. They did not know what to do or where to begin. This book contains the lessons that proved successful in helping them "Beat Him At His Own Divorce!" Every woman who has read the book has either said it got them through a very difficult time or, if she was already divorced, wished it had been available when she was going through that very difficult time. The purpose of the book is to empower women at a time of emotional devestation and help them substitute logic for emotion thereby improving their ability to make good decisions for themselves and look after their best interests. It is easy to read. So many books about some aspect of divorce are not easily understood and the readers are not in the best emotional state to learn the material they contain. The techniques suggested in "Beat Him At His Own Divorce!" have been practically tested both in the business world and in real-life divorce situations -- they have demonstrated their utility, time and again. Among the topics addressed are: how to organize the work of divorce, how to maintain resolve, how to determine divorce goals, what information is needed and where to get it, tips for managing the lawyers, accountants and other members of the "divorce team", how to negotiate for and protect better settlements and what to say to the children/grandchildren and mutual friends. Additionally, suggestions are offered for dealing with topics such as revenge, inspiration, humor and the aftermath of divorce. Often the lessons are reinforced by humorous vignettes about what happened or did not happen in the divorce situations that Mr. Knight assisted. "Beat Him At His Own Divorce!" is probably one of the best investments a woman can make after she hears those shattering words, "I want a divorce." Additionally, all readers are invited to contact Mr. Knight (the instructions are in the Foreword to the book) with questions they might have about the material in the book.

Editorial Reviews

Review

"American men should pay Ted Knight not to publish this book. It is 'must reading' for abandoned wives. This practical guide provides the tools to even the odds and level the playing field for deserted wives." -- Larry Losoncy, Ph.D., American Association Marriage and Family Therapist, AMFT

"I had the wonderful opportunity of using the original draft of 'Beat Him At His Own Divorce!' at an emotionally devastating time -- when I could not think clearly. This book is a 'must'. It is a complete manual of how to get through the divorce process emotionally, how to understand the legal system, and a mandatory tool for managing your lawyer. I could not have made it without this help." -- Jessica Robertson

"Ted Knight's book is a war manual, and, as such, a deterrent to war. It should be required reading for men who are thinking about trashing their wives. Jesus of Nazareth once said (I paraphrase Luke 14:31): 'If a warrior finds himself up against a stronger foe, then let him quickly sue for peace.' Heed that advice, guys; a woman with this book in her hands will have your head on a platter." -- Robert J. Stamps, Ph.D., Methodist Minister

About the Author

Ted Knight is a management consultant. He has worked with public and private sector clients for almost three decades helping them to find logic and develop accuracy in their decision-making. As a result of his professional work, he was requested by several women, who had been left by their husbands after several decades of marriage, to help them sort out the problems of dealing with their husbands' divorces. Mr. Knight responded with techniques he has used in business and was successful in helping them develop logic out of chaos. Mr. Knight and his wife of 32 years live in Arlington, VA. They have three adult children and recently became grandparents for the first time. Mr. Knight holds a Bachelor of Arts from George Mason University and a Master of Hospital Administration from The Medical College of Virginia. He is president of Washington Consulting & Management Associates, Inc.

Product Details

• Paperback: 111 pages
• Publisher: Thornsbury Bailey & Brown (September 1, 1998)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0945253133
• ISBN-13: 978-0945253136
• Product Dimensions: 8.8 x 5.8 x 0.4 inches
• Shipping Weight: 6.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (12 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #553,888 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

Customer Reviews

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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Too Late!, May 1, 2000

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Nancy Georges (North Carolina) - See all my reviews

This review is from: Beat Him At His Own Divorce! (Paperback)

I enjoyed Ted's handy tool for women contemplating divorce. Unfortunately, it comes too late to be of benefit to me. However, I can personally verify it's effectiveness, as I had to learn this handy "how to" manual, on my own and with numerous mistakes. I am giving it to a couple dear friends and hope they will calm down and read it! Ted needs to write another manual, this time, "How To Get The Injured Parties Attention." This tool will only work if you read it and employ the suggestions!

8 of 9 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars A book for the thinking man., May 28, 1999

By A Customer

This review is from: Beat Him At His Own Divorce! (Paperback)

One sure way to beat anyone at anything is to know their possible strategies ahead of time and find ways to counter them. Mr Knight has offered men that opportunity with his book. Rather than making me shake in my shoes, I found useful information which gave me a "heads up" to possible pitfalls and flaws in my plan. Thank you, Mr Knight.

5 of 5 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars Clear-headed & upbeat about handling the emotions of divorce, December 21, 1998

By A Customer

This review is from: Beat Him At His Own Divorce! (Paperback)

A right-on primer for helping rejected women handle the mess of divorce. Loaded with positive examples of real women who met the challenge and came out with their sanity, self-respect, and pocketbooks intact. Mr. Knight makes a strong argument, and backs it up with case histories, that women can take charge of their situation by using proven life management techniques. A concise, easy-to-read, and purposeful guidebook.