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How to Pick Up Beautiful Women in Nightclubs or Any Other Place: Secrets Every Man Should Know

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I bought this 3 weeks ago -and what can I say IT WORKS!!The basic premise is that women are so obsessed about their looks and feelings that you just need to tap into this using the RIGHT techniques.
The most revealing part for me was the 50 or so interviews with women ALL of which followed the same theme -compliment a woman on either her looks or her clothes and your halfway there.ie tell any woman she has beautiful eyes and thy will never forget you.Your looks come on a fairly low rating so dont feel you have to look like Brad Pitt for this to work.
The first time I tried it I thought this is soooo corny and yet it was amazing to see this womans face light up like a xmas tree !!I ended the night back at her place-case proven!.
There is a lot more to the book as well- my only gripe is that some of the lines are slightly old fashioned-but I just changed those any way.
To sum up if you want to learn how to quickly pick ANY woman up get this book now.

DEAN

This is the best book I have read on the subject. It helps you discover the psychology of women, particularly beautiful women. Thanks to this book, I am now dating a gorgeous red-headed actress, by far the best looking woman I've gone out with.

While the information in this book may at first not seem that profound, it will give you the clarity and the confidence to get the woman you want. Meeting and dating beautiful women is not very hard once you know what they are really looking for, but we, as men, make it way too difficult and complicated. We are often intimidated by a beautiful women's looks and so are afraid to approach her. When we do muster up the confidence, we often come across as cocky and self-absorbed because we feel we have to impress a woman with our accomplishments, because we are not good-looking enough to deserve a really beautiful woman. What we fail to understand is that looks are not as important to women as they are to men. Eagan gives us a glimpse into this truth and maps out an effective strategy for succeeding with women. His method is not the only way to approach and "pick up" a beautiful woman, but it does work, and it will improve your skills if you try it out.

Some of the language he uses may seem a bit arcane, such as "can we spend some time more agreeably together", and you may feel weird trying it out since he suggests using it word for word. My advice is to not be afraid to modify the language to something you're more comfortable with. Most important, understand that it is the sincerity behind your compliments and "lines" to a woman (and everything you say for that matter) that makes all the difference. All women are secretly longing for a nice, honest, well-mannered guy who listens to them, shares what he is feeling, and treats them with respect, to completely sweep them off their feet. If you master this skill, you can have ANY woman you want. Eagan provides some brilliant advice toward this end.

I was a bit skeptical of this book. I am writing this review and giving it 5 stars only because John Eagan's techniques did work for me, when done properly.

I recommend reading this book, even if not for picking up girls, but just for the entertainment. Everyone already possesses these techniques to some extent, but what makes this book rather successful is the much needed confidence it gives to its readers. However, there are a few things I advise fellow readers of this book:

1. Feel free to slightly modify some of the 10 'approach' lines. Some of them are rather long and corny, especially when the first couple of seconds of impression you give the lady are of great importance. John Eagan stresses that you mean what you say and you're confident while doing it (it's how you say it, not what you say).

2. This book deals with fast-paced approaches of meeting a girl. After the two of you are at good comfort level with the girl, let progress flow naturally. Remember, this book is about 'meeting' girls, not what to do after. If you're after a relationship rather than a one night stand, just remember that most of successful relationships are ones that started off as friendships.

3. Ignore the sentences where he says: "After you read this book, you will be more confident than ever". This is said throughtout the book (including the end), so don't get too excited.

4. Try to get the main idea in this book. I classify them as the 3 C's: be Calm, Cool (smile, have some fun), and most importantly, Confident.

Overall, this is a good and entertaining book, and will most likely give you the confidence to approach women. However it is only a book on how to meet girls in the first place. It does not go over what to do after the initial meeting and phone call, and there is no book that will cover that other than to tell you to 'be yourself'.

Yes, this is the book to buy men. WHY ? It enables any guy to pick up any woman, it lets you UNDERSTAND women; a bubble popping technique (my own words-its like the descruction of the Berlin's women's wall ),... ..Why would a guy lie, on here. Currently other guys are wondering"HOW THE HELL DOES HE GET ALL THE WOMEN!!!!" very jealously, so I give them insights too, this book could give you a career in teaching men too as I have unwillingly found in how to treat women with the absolute respect that they sooooooo need to have to carry their beauty through evolution, so please for my kids sake, buy it so these beautiful womEN get carried into my future generations. Beautiful women must be appreciated, I am Canadian, we have some tough women here to pop, but it works in every culture, at least in my experienceS. Iranian, Japanese, European, Russian, are just a few confirmations, so carry on , and consult my page for more, its just a few of the words, by far not what is the most essential in what is needed to BE mr. right.

This book is packed with information that none of the other books even touched on. I'll try to give you a few examples of what I mean. The book is over 260 pages and there are about 20 italicized pages that just cover university studies on dating. The book covers every aspect from how to approach a woman to how to look, act, and behave. There are super techniques in the book that will get you a date every single time you use them. I don't want to ruin it for the author but let me give you some idea of what's in the book. He interviewed two thousand women and in the book are a number of the actual interviews. One of the questions was "What is the best thing a man can say to you when he first approaches you that would make you feel good and want to respond to him?" He gives you the top answer from the two thousand women he interviewed. If you don't know what that answer is, you'd better buy the book. Here's another example; the book covers how to have a conversation with a woman. The author shows you how to establish connections and understand similarities. "There is more familiarity and more informal warmth during a conversation between men and women." While you're having a conversation, it is important to have a sense of humor. The author describes exactly what kind of humor women like. The author also informs the reader that "while you are having a conversation with a woman you have to seed in certain "cues" under the radar that she is listening for. The author states you have to convey that you are an individual who is _______, _______, and _______." If you don't know what these three important cues are, you'd better purchase the book.
There is a chapter in the book called "Questions and Answers." It covers almost every question you ever had about getting a date with a woman. One of the questions is "How do you impress a woman on the first date?" The answer involves what is called a two factor theory. If you use this theory properly, she'll be so impressed on the first date, she won't stop thinking about you until you call her again. I can't really explain what the two factor theory is here, but the book goes into it in detail very nicely. The book also covers what the "bad boy appeal" is to women, "body language," the art of persuasion, secrets of beautiful women...I could go on and on. It's cutting edge compared to anything else on the subject, and believe me, I've read them all. If you're looking to improve yourself and be one up on the next guy, this is the book for you.

I think I am a frugal person. To get me to part with $14.95 you'd better give me my moneys worth. I read the Men's Fitness Article that rated this book number 1. I've seen him on TV a number of times but when Howard Stern called him "amazing", I decided to buy the book. For my money, I wanted to know how to attract women. For my money, I wanted to know how to ask women out. For my money, I wanted to know what turns women on and off. And for my money, I waned to know everything and I want plenty of phone numbers. I can honestly say, I got my moneys worth. This book is everything you always wanted to know about "dating" but was afraid to ask. In the book there is what Eagan calls "super techniques." Eagan instructs the reader to carry out the "super techniques" word for word. I decided I had nothing to lose. Word for word it'll be. It felt like I was in a dream when I got my first phone number. I could not believe this pretty woman was writing down her phone number and handing it to me, exactly as he said it would happen. I realize now why the techniques are what Eagan calls a win-win situation for women. The way the super techniques are worded, she can't lose by giving you her number. It's genius! I was astounded at what wealth this book has brought me. My only regret is that I didn't buy this book when I first heard about it. I would recommend it to anyone.

I like this book. It speaks in a common sense format. If your looking for a book on how to understand women and approach them, this is the book. I also recommend Men from Venus and Woman from Mars to understand women. I have to say for the amount of pages and information this book, it is a great deal.

The author categorizes all women as the same, and that is, they judge a man by his personality, warmth, how he holds a good conversation and how he treats her. Well, ALL women are not like this, especailly the beautiful ones.

Just about half of his book consists of copies of his supposed surveys he has supposedly given to over 2000 women during the course of his time as a bartender. I don't know about that, but his surveys were useless to me anyway because they weren't believable. In these surveys he asked the women questions like: "What 3 attributes do you expect men to have when he approaches you:" He then gives the women 9 answers to check off. Some of them being, "good manners," neatly dressed," "honesty" and "friendly." He didn't give them an option to choose "good looks" "good job." He stated that 90 percent of the women surveyed stated that looks had nothing to do with whether they were attracted to a man or not. EARTH TO JOHN EAGAN...EARTH TO JOHN EAGAN. This is why these surveys are uselss. He also put in his survey, "Should he be smiling?" Well of course they are going to mark "yes"! There are a few questions he asked women that could be useful though. Like, "What was the nicest compliment a man has ever paid you?? That was pretty good. That helped me somewhat, but he goes on and on and on, taking up nearly half of the book.

Another thing that ticked me off is when he states that if she refuses to dance with you it's because she doesn't feel like dancing. Yeah, right! It's because she isn't interested you in enough to dance with you! If she was, she would at least ask you to sit down. Right??? Another thing he states is that Beautiful women aren't interested in your money. Yes, he stated that. So, as you can see, there is a lot of bull in here. Why can't just one book, JUST ONE be truthful with the single guy, AND give good advice on how to be more successful with women???

But, with all that set aside, you will still find a few good things in here that makes this a god buy. No, I am not contradicting myself here. Just ignore all the obvious [junk] and use the advice that is believable. There are still a few good nuggets in here that may help you. Those few things alone is worth the price of the book.

Yeah this book has good info... though I disagree with some of the techniques in here cuz they didnt work.

Once upon a time, I was such an ultimate "nice guy" who would tell women that they're beautiful... yeah... sincere compliment. When I did that to women, they'd smile... yeah they feel good for awhile cuz they start to feel "special".

But later on, I became irrelevant. Like the women got tired of me since I put them on a pedestal and worshipped em like a goddess.

When I toned down the "you're so beautiful" compliments and stopped worshipping em, I got treated better by women.

I think this book failed to touch on that topic. Yes I agree with SINCERE COMPLIMENTING and BEING CONFIDENT, but just dont overdo the compliments or else you'd look like a total loser.

I gave this book 3 stars because I still think its got helpful, powerful advice not found in internet seduction sites... but I wished I woulda gotten more of my money's worth on this. :(

I bought this book awhile ago when I saw it was rated number 1 by a national magazine. It has immensely enhansed my personal life. I could not state all the benefits this book will give you in this small reveiw, even if I tried. I have been dating beautiful women since I bought this book. I have even read an interview recently in Men's Fitness Magazine, October 99 issue, in which Pamala Anderson Lee was asked what turns her on, what is the best thing a man could say to you when he first meets you and what turns you off, what is the sexiest part of a man, etc. All her answers were dead on what Mr. Eagan says in his book. No wonder why I am getting so many beautiful women. If it is good enough for Pamela Anderson it is good enough for any woman. This book deserves all the attention the media has been giving it. If you want beautiful women like Pamela Anderson, BUY THIS BOOK!