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Because He Loves Me: How Christ Transforms Our Daily Life

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In her latest book, Because He Loves Me, Elyse Fitzpatrick asks an interesting question: In your pursuit of godliness, have you left Jesus behind? You may be wondering, how is that possible? Do you remember the biblical account of Mary and Joseph's return to Nazareth following their celebration of Passover in Jerusalem? After a day's journey, they realized that Jesus was not with them. They hurried back to the city and found him in the temple, speaking with the teachers. Fitzpatrick uses this story to illustrate what many Christians do in their relationships with Jesus. "By definition, we Christians joyously celebrate our Passover Lamb, our salvation with Jesus, but then, like his parents, we eagerly head on back to Nazareth, back to living out our beliefs without a conscious awareness or acknowledgment of his presence. Of course, we assume that he is somewhere nearby. We haven't felt his absence because we're so preoccupied with living life for him" She goes on to clarify, "What I am saying is that once we've been saved, once we've understood and accepted the message of the gospel, the person and work of the Redeemer becomes secondary to what we're focused on -- living the Christian life." Because He Loves Me is written for the Christian who thinks the gospel is just for "getting saved," who knows he is supposed to be different, but isn't seeing the transformation he expected, or who wonders about the difference Jesus is supposed to make in his daily life. Fitzpatrick teaches Christians how the gospel is central to everything.

The book is divided into two parts: How God's Love Transforms Our Identity and How God's Love Transforms Our Life. In the first section, Fitzpatrick does something very interesting. She shares the gospel with scripture only, no explanation or commentary, using 111 portions of scripture from both testaments. Then, she asks for a heart check. "What did you think as you read the preceding verses?" The temptation is to skip these pages and think, Yeah, yeah, yeah, I already know the gospel. That kind of response proves Fitzpatrick's point: Many Christians experience a disconnect between the gospel and their daily lives. "I've written this book because grasping the reality of God's love will provide every answer to every question we have about him and ourselves. It will tell us who we are, why we're here, and how we're supposed to do what we're supposed to be doing. Delighting in God's love will transform everything about us, including who we are, or our identity." Over six chapters, Fitzpatrick pinpoints the symptoms, diagnoses real spiritual problems, shares God's remedy, and explains deep truth regarding who we are in Christ. She answers the question, What does it truly mean to be a child of God? The answer lies in the gospel. What Christians need to understand is that we never outgrow the gospel. It may be considered elementary or shallow waters by many, but there are depths to the gospel and the power of God's love.

In the second section, Fitzpatrick teaches how to be who we are, as described in the first section. She gives very practical applications for the gospel in our daily lives. She uses scripture to explain how God works in us to carry out his commands, how he cleanses us and sanctifies us, how his love demonstrated in the gospel motivates us to walk in obedience rather than mere moralism, and how we can rest in Christ's finished work and cease beating ourselves up when we sin. Fitzpatrick's training as a bibilical counselor informs much of what she writes in this section. She offers insight into several unbiblical ways of thinking common to Christians, getting to the root and replace it with truth. I think one very important chapter, one that I didn't expect, is "Gospel-centered Relationships." In this chapter, Fitzpatrick explains why God commands that we live in community. The church is imperative for our sanctification. The Christian life is not meant to be lived alone. "Maturity in Christ occurs when, by the Spirit and in God's grace, our brothers and sisters take biblical truth and apply it lovingly, patiently, boldly to our hearts. In the same way that I've encouraged you to remember the Lord in your pursuit of godliness, I'm now encouraging you to see that the primary way he'll minister truth to you is through deep and transparent relationship with others...Jesus uses sinful human beings to prepare his bride."

Because the word "gospel" is used so often, Fitzpatrick is careful to define the gospel early in the book. The gospel "is the incarnation, sinless life, substitutionary death, burial, bodily resurrection, ascension, and eternal reign of the Son of God, Jesus Christ." Not once does she indicate that the gospel is something "we do." It is a work that is done for us for the glory of God. Our only work is to believe, to look to the crucified and risen Christ, and even that is something God works in us first.

Because He Loves Me will prove to be life-transforming for those who read and apply its message. Yes, we go to the gospel to understand salvation, but we also go back to it again and again to inform how we are to live every day for the glory of God.

Have you ever been driving home, surrounded by clouds, lost in thought, barely seeing the road ahead of you, when suddenly the sun breaks through with stunning brilliance? Or have you ever seen a familiar word in print, and suddenly it looks strange, unfamiliar, as if you are seeing it for the first time? Elyse Fitzpatrick's new book has that effect on me.

I've been a Christian for over thirty years. I have read alot of Christian books. I know my Bible. I know how to live the Christian life expected of me. So I trudge dutifully through my days, head down, thoughts immersed in the crisis of the hour. My Christian beliefs hover somewhere overhead, clean and complete, somewhat disconnected from the messy ground where I spend my days.

In Because He Loves Me, I find the truth about Jesus Christ, who he is and what he has done for me, pulled out of the sky and onto the street where I live. Elyse connects the facts of the gospel--the life, death, resurrection, and ascension of the Son of God--not just with the problems I face today, but with the ways I think and speak about those problems. It startles me awake and makes me see my Savior again, for the first time. I am surprised, helped, and filled with wonder.

This is the phrase that Elyse Fitzpatrick uses to describe herself as an adopted daughter of the most Holy God and it is a phrase that has helped bring a new love and thankfulness for the Gospel of Jesus Christ and how this truth impacts and changes my daily life. I cannot tell you how many times, as I was reading this book, I would speak out loud, "why didn't anyone teach me this?"

I'm 37 years old. I grew up in the church and was "saved" as a child. I attended a Christian college. I have a Masters of Divinity (something I find hard to imagine bestowing on anyone) from a seminary. I worked as a chaplain in an oncology hospital for a little over 8 years and I'm just now starting to get the Gospel. My intent is not to run down the local church or its educational institutions, but the truth is, the doctrines of grace were never shared with me. Many years after seminary, I learned of the rich heritage of the doctrines of grace in my own denomination that sadly have been replaced with works and self-help.

I am married to a wonderful man that I met in seminary. I have a 21 month old daughter and I stay home and do my best to try to take care of them. When I quit work to become a mother, my life in Christ truly began. I went through a year long depression following the birth of my daughter and experienced the "darkness that could be felt." After a horrifying weekend on anti-depressants, I emailed the head of the women's discipleship at our church and she began coming to my home once a week and still does. I had never been discipled before. (This has been more of "church" than anything else I have experienced.) I have theology degrees and ministry experience, but had never been discipled the way Titus 2 commands. This book is priceless. Every woman I know will have a copy. Elyse, thank you for taking the time to write this bedrock book.

Next to the Bible this has been the best book I've ever read. It's been transformational in my walk with the Lord and have been highly recommending it to people. Even if it takes you 3 yrs to go through it because you're too busy to read - do it!

Elyse, I'm thankful that God had moved on your heart to write "Because He Loves Me".

I have been feeling like my mind has been altered in the last few months, maybe it started around December last year...I have no concept of time so it could have been 5 years ago. Anyway, I was having a hard time putting into words how my thinking was changing, how it was impacting my life, and how it was changing the way I see myself and also how I counsel people. God's love was becoming central in my thinking and His saving grace, the gospel, became like my heartbeat. It was there before, I was mindful of it, talking about it, teaching about it, but it wasn't central in my mind. I think my weakness, fear, dependency, and pain has helped me to see the Gospel as Glorious, my Savior as Father, and my failure as His strength. I started reading your book a few days ago, and thought, "This is what I've been talking about...this is it...this is how I feel". It was so great to connect the dots. I loved how you weaved Scripture together in the first chapter, and I was either tearing up or overcome with thankfulness as I was reading it.

This book speaks to every area of Christian life with one simple yet necessary message, let Christ's love for you demonstrated in the cross change you. Elyse has clearly challenged us to leave behind our list of self-righteous do's and do not's and come and kneel before the bloodied cross to find real change in our lives. She is honest about her own struggles and gives hope, and concrete steps for change in our thinking. I find myself highlighting parts every page and amazed with how much the gospel and Christ's love means to every area of my life.

WOW! By far the best writing I have found on this subjedt! This book has cleared my mind,and caused me to understand more than I ever have before........A MUST READ!!

Mrs. Fitzpatrick leads you through the gospel, showing how important it is for Christians to dwell in the gospel. Oftentimes, we think the gospel is just for salvation. Then we go about the rest of our lives trying to live for Christ in our own strength. That's not what the gospel is about. Christ saved us, and He is the One who changes us, too. When we realize how much God loves us, and what He went through to show us that love, and how He sees us now as He sees His Son, we cannot helped but be amazed and encouraged. God loves us! That truth changes how we view life and all the joys and sorrows that accompany it. This book challenges your mindset and causes you to revel in the love of God.

I have been reading this book together with some other mothers and discussing the questions at chapters end and has been impacting my life as a Christian. I often forget how His work on the Cross should impact my heart- not just my actions. The gospel IS for believers--Praise God!

Many of us struggle with guilt and shame because we don't realize the life-changing implications of the gospel message. Although we understand that we're saved by faith, we still may find ourselves repeatedly trying to earn God's favor by our works. But since sinful man can't win the favor of a holy God by his own works, this dooms us to failure. Elyse's book shows how to break free from this burden, which we were never meant to carry, and step into the light and easy yoke that Christ promised to those who trust in Him (Matthew 11:28-30). I highly recommend it!