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Product Details

  • Paperback: 160 pages
  • Publisher: Bascom Hill Books (June 1, 2010)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1935456083
  • ISBN-13: 978-1935456087
  • Product Dimensions: 8.4 x 5.4 x 0.6 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 13.6 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 4.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (10 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #2,226,679 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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What a thoughtful and refreshing rejection of the various bad habits narrow-mindedness, intellectual laziness, self-pity, self-indulgence, free-floating rage that drives today's awful frenzy of self-righteousness in our national conversation. Nikki Stern is a model of the even-keeled grace, tolerance and common sense that Americans need to rediscover. --Kurt Andersen, host, public radio s Studio 360

Nikki Stern wields her enviable wit to tilt at society's windmills in a voice empowered by her starring role in arguably the most seminal event of our lifetimes. The painful and public loss of her husband on September 11 and the changes to her life since that day mirror the patterns of loss, anger, despair and rebuilding that our nation as a whole continues to experience. Before you know it, you'll feel a sense of optimism born of the notion that if she can greet each day with humor, intelligence and yes, hope then it seems possible that we may all collectively as a nation be able to do so as well. --Christal Smith, The Huffington Post

In this impassioned and important book, Nikki Stern drawing on the personal tragedy that led to her own brush with the rabbit hole of fame asks us to reject preconceived notions about who we believe and what we decide is true. Stern makes a persuasive case that we can find new ways to reconnect to our moral and rational center, ones that are less reliant on the received opinion of famous or notorious Americans." --Leif Wellington Haase, director, California Program

About the Author

Nikki Stern worked as a public relations executive before the death of her husband in the World Trade Center on 9/11. While serving on the board and as the first executive director of Families of September 11, a national organization for families affected by the terrorist attacks, she was co-recipient of a Common Ground award in 2005 from the global conflict transformation group, Search for Common Ground. She has maintained advocacy roles on the advisory boards of Project Rebirth, Americans for Informed Democracy, and the Public Diplomacy Collaborative at Harvard University s Ash Institute for Democratic Governance and Innovation. Her writing has appeared in the New York Times, Newsweek, and USA Today.<BR><P>Nikki retains an interest in public engagement and global diplomacy as well as topics concerning women, writing, and humor. She blogs regularly about politics, culture, entertainment, and other issues of both greater and lesser importance, 1 Woman s Vu.

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Nikki Stern has authored two non-fiction books. BECAUSE I SAY SO: MORAL AUTHORITY'S DANGEROUS APPEAL details her experiences as a 9/11 widow in the context of our culture's attraction to moral certainty. HOPE IN SMALL DOSES, which Psychology Today has termed "an intelligent book," explores the possibility of hope that thrives in times of uncertainty. Nikki's essays also appear in BEYOND ZUCCOTTI PARK (New Village Press) and GLOBAL CHORUS (Rocky Mountain Books). Her suspense novella, DON'T MOVE, is available exclusively on Kindle.
She has written for the New York Times, Newsweek, USA Today and Humanist Magazine, Princeton Magazine and has been a guest on NPR's "All Things Considered" and CBS "Sunday Morning," among others. She's probably too attached to her dog Molly, but she makes no apologies for it. For more on Nikki, visit http://nikkistern.com, like her at https://www.facebook.com/NikkiSternAuthor?ref=hl or tweet her @realnikkistern

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Best of all, it's one of the few books I've ever read that I enjoy reading over and over again.
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This author is helping us to discover what we can do about our current dilemma in the US and how we can heal from our past.
Robin G. Sneed
While her topic is serious, her writing style draws the reader in as if in conversation with a friend.
Hawley Roddick

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10 of 10 people found the following review helpful By Lea Lane on June 8, 2010
Format: Paperback
Nikki Stern writes with clarity and strength, gently leaning on her tragic experience as a 9/11 widow to make her points. She is skeptical, confident and wise, rejecting our emphasis on celebrities and faux moral authority, and leading us to accept uncertainty in a world of uncertainties.
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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful By Con Chapman on June 9, 2010
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This is a memoir with a moral dimension, one founded on humility. Nikki Stern was thrust by circumstances--her husband's death in the 9/11 acts of terror that Janet Napolitano famously euphemized as "man-caused disasters"--into a position where she was publicly identified as a moral authority, through no act of her own. The discomfort produced by that unwanted designation sets her off on a rumination as to what or who, exactly, is a moral authority.

With a calm and reasonable tone that reminds one of Peggy Noonan with a left-of-center perspective, Stern dissects moral authorities of various stripes and finds them wanting. She doesn't slip over into that moral agnosticism that Robert Frost said was characteristic of liberals, "so broad-minded that they can't take their own side in a quarrel," and raises important questions for consumers of mass media experts and self-appointed pontificators.

If what you are looking for is a modern-day version of Kant's categorical imperative this is not the book for you, but if your heart is looking for answers on questions of right and wrong, you'll find comfort in the journey described here.
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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful By Hawley Roddick on June 8, 2010
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Nikki Stern balances her challenge to the legitimacy of "moral authority" with her enthusiasm for critical thinking skills that are key to our ability to figure out what's going on in our lives and in the world. While her topic is serious, her writing style draws the reader in as if in conversation with a friend.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful By Marlene Dunham on June 10, 2010
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I was impressed with the insightfulness with which this book was written. As she touches all our "sacred cows" from religion, to politics, celebrity to our revered physicians and questions if these are the sources we should be looking to for moral authority. Nikki states that "no matter what our belief's, however, our skepticism ought to extend to anyone who claims to act on a higher authority's behalf".

Nikki lost her husband on September 11, 2001. He worked at the World Trade Center. It was through many experiences as a "9/11 widow" that she came to see how the cloak of moral authority would be draped on her and other relatives and survivors of this disaster. Not because they necessarily deserved it, or had the knowledge but due only to perception.

The message Nikki leaves us with in her book is that we need to think for ourselves, trust our own judgment. "We need to learn the art of critical thinking" she writes. Just because someone in authority or is well respected makes the statement "Because I Say so", doesn't make it so.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful By ScowlCaptain on June 12, 2010
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Because I say so is a cogent, well thought out, contemporary (post 9/11) look at those seen as possessing, or claiming to possess, moral authority. Nikki Stern does an amazing job of pointing out the fallacies of celebrities acting as societal authorities, the evolution of who society places on a pedestal, and a frank and realistic look at how to see the world through your own lense of moral judgment without buying into the world of pop culture celebrities and self-made gurus who claim to have the corner on what is right or good for the individual and the greater society. Great job Nikki!
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