54 of 55 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Comments on Becoming Anna, January 13, 2000
By A Customer
I am writing to provide some background for the readers of the above
book, since I feel that I can clarify some matters about which some
have been curious. My wife and I are the old couple mentioned in the
epilogue of Anna's book, with whom she has lived on and off for
several years. Some readers have questioned whether a 16-year-old
could write so perceptive an account, implying that she was helped by
others. Soon after she came to our house, she sat down at the
computer and started writing. At first we did not know what she was
writing, although soon she said she was writing the story of her life.
She told us a lot about her past, probably everything in her book, but
the written product we did not see. Rarely, when was pleased with
something she had written, she would read a few pages to us, but we
did not have a chance to read the whole thing until it was being
submitted to the press. She worked nearly every day, sometimes for
long hours, and was very proud of having finished before her l7th
birthday, but then it was 500 typewritten pages long. In the
following year, still without accepting advice from us, she cut it
down to 250 pages. Early in her stay with us, of course we wondered
about her stories and the accuracy of her recollections. We got a
copy of the records from the institution where she spent about a year.
We found no inconsistancies; she tells the truth. Nothing bad was said
about her in the records except by way of her mother's accounts. Some
have wondered how she could remember accurately all the things that
she reports. Of course she may misinterpret as much as anyone else,
but we early learned that she has a remarkable memory for
conversations and emotions. She would give us an account of some
episode, and then months later expect that we remembered the details,
and she knew exactly what she had told us (it all sounded familiar
when she had to repeat it). I am sure that every episode that she
describes is correct as she understood it, and I have a lot of
confidence that her interpretations are accurate. ...
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14 of 14 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Raw, poignant emotion, November 27, 1999
By A Customer
This review is from: Becoming Anna (Hardcover)
This is a very painful but important book, and an accurate depiction of the world as it is perceived by children and adolescents. All who work with young people should read this book: teachers, librarians and mental health professionals. I hope that more young people will write about the lives of quiet desperation that they are leading in this country and around the world. I do not care to judge whether this book is the product of a distorted perception of a mentally ill child. Whether Anna was truly mentally ill or not, her words and her pain echoed my own childhood. When children suffer, they may have a tendency to distort what they are perceiving in the world around them, and they may exagerate what they see and experience, but there is no doubt that strange and bizarre and sick things do occur in their lives. The words in this book are written by a child in pain, a child who has no doubt suffered. She should not be judged as to the accuracy of her accounts of her own pain. It is so obviously real. Even if Anna did have a loving home and a loving family, no child in this world is immune to the the sick things that do occur. It is enough to drive anyone to the point that Anna was driven to and that she so poignantly describes in this book. I applaud Anna for her insights into the injustices that children suffer every day. It is a wonder that all children don't go insane.
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11 of 11 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
thumbs up!, July 8, 2001
By A Customer
I am so glad that I found and read this book before reading the negative reviews here. It is a wonderfully written book--it really surprised me to be reading something so well-written on the topic, in fact. This book is a rare gem in it's willingness to stand up to the system while being quite eloquent.
I may be accused of "siding" here, but I feel there are perfectly good reasons for it. I too have pretended I was crazy to escape living with my mother and had my life engulfed by trying to make it to my eighteenth birthday in a home that didn't treat me like a human being. I personally related to many of Anna's descriptions of her frustrations. Many people do not want to acknowledge what really happens behind closed doors, the cycles that repeat themselves over and over again. The disbelieving reactions of readers, criticizing her for her attitude, enforce the culture that believed Anna's mother and trapped her in mental institutions. And to these reviewers, the reason doing laundry in the basement is a big deal is because her dad lived in the basement and repeatedly beat her in that spot. It would not have been feasible for Anna to write a book full of apologies to her readers, so she offers a succinct one for interpreting the tone of the book, noting that if she is going overboard in anger, it is for lack of what she could feel going through it. And such a story is so complicated that I think she handles the issue very well.
If you haven't read this book, please don't listen to the harsh reviews calling Anna's vantage point into question. Yes, it's a harsh and infuriating topic. But she's done a marvelous job telling her story, and it's one of the best-told such stories you'll find.
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