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Becoming Your Spouse's Better Half: Why Differences Make a Marriage Great
 
 

Becoming Your Spouse's Better Half: Why Differences Make a Marriage Great [Kindle Edition]

Rick Johnson
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It's no secret that men and women are different. And it's no secret that they don't always get along because of these differences, even when they love each other. But having a successful marriage is not about finding the perfect person to marry. It's about loving someone in an unselfish, Christlike manner. Whatever we want out of marriage--unconditional love, forgiveness, passion--that is what we have to give to our spouse. Rick Johnson shows couples how to go beyond merely tolerating each other's differences to using those God-given differences to add spice and passion to their relationship.

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Your Recipe for Marital Success

Having a successful marriage is not about finding the perfect person. It's not even about always getting along. It's about loving the imperfect person you married in an unselfish manner.

Just as a great meal is made from many ingredients, a great marriage is a combination of different traits. If men and women were the same, life would turn out pretty bland. In this witty and insightful book, Rick Johnson shows you how to go beyond merely tolerating your spouse's differences to using them to add spice and passion to your relationship.


"Rick Johnson understands the dynamics of a great relationship, and he's really good at helping others understand them too."--Will Davis Jr., author of Pray Big and Pray Big for Your Marriage

"Rick Johnson shows us how men and women are wonderfully different by design. His incredible understanding of how men think and how women think will give you much better insight into that person you married who sometimes seems like an alien."--Jim Burns, PhD, president of HomeWord; author of Creating an Intimate Marriage and Closer: Devotions to Draw Couples Together

"Conventional thinking wants us to believe that 'compatibility' is the golden key to a lasting marriage. But here Rick Johnson explains the real truth: it's our differences that make us interesting, engaged, and intimate."--Paul Coughlin, author of No More Christian Nice Guy and Married But Not Engaged


Rick Johnson is a bestselling author of That's My Son; Better Dads, Stronger Sons; and The Power of a Man. He is the founder of Better Dads and is a sought-after speaker at many large parenting and marriage conferences across the United States and Canada. To find out more about Rick Johnson, please visit www.betterdads.net.

Product Details

  • File Size: 509 KB
  • Print Length: 225 pages
  • Page Numbers Source ISBN: 0800732502
  • Publisher: Revell; 1 edition (January 1, 2010)
  • Sold by: Amazon Digital Services
  • Language: English
  • ASIN: B0038636H2
  • Text-to-Speech: Enabled
  • Lending: Enabled
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #57,735 Paid in Kindle Store (See Top 100 Paid in Kindle Store)
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11 of 13 people found the following review helpful
Format:Paperback
I can understand why everyone doesn't love this book. This book is written from a biblical perspective. The basis of is to help a man and wife fulfill our God-designed roles within marriage as stated in the bible. I can see why people think this is backward and it definitely ruffles some feathers; but in light of the state of marriage in this country, I believe that we would all do well to heed Rick Johnson's advice. There is not a single place where he says that men and women are not to be equally valued. We have to bear in mind that EQUAL does not mean SAME. There are just some things that men do better than women and vice versa. When we accept that and fill our roles accordingly and to the best of our ability, marriages can become more harmonious. Society tells us that as women we shouldn't want to be taken care of, and that men shouldn't take a leadership role in their families. We have suffered as a result. This book is a great read if you are looking for christian, God-centered guidance in your marriage. I am already seeing results in mine!
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7 of 9 people found the following review helpful
Fabulous Read January 27, 2010
Format:Paperback
Rick Johnson has written a great book identifing the differences in our spouse that can pull us apart if we are not aware of them. He shows the reader that working to celebrate your differences and use them as strengths in your marriage is something obtainable. He splits our differences into 7 modes for men, such as the sex and work and 7 moods of women, such as the importance of girlfriends and nesting. The reading is easy and uplifting, with practical help, words and ideas to apply to your marriage right now. I love that he points out that if you are looking for the perfect person, to bad. You will not find that person here on earth. Yet if you look at your husband or wife, God created him or her to be the one that hones you and helps you grow closer to your spouse and God if you listen and respond to God. A good read and highly recommended insight to apply to any marriage, failing or growing!
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17 of 24 people found the following review helpful
By cmg
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I teach a young married Sunday school class and we went through this book with our couples. I hadn't read it prior to starting with the class. It started out pretty good but went downhill fast. The book is definitely from a "traditional" view where the men work and the women cook, clean, and make babies; where the man lords over his wife and "allows" her spending money for the kitchen and decides who she can hang out with. The author is way over his head when tries to explain how women work and includes an entire chapter on menstration and how this causes dissension in the home. I had hoped for a lot more than this.
But we did have great conversations in class about the book (hence the 2nd star), its just that most of it was how we disagreed with what he was saying.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
great book
My husband and I have been reading this book together. Great for helping couples stay connected. I highly recommend this for all martial seasons.
Published 1 month ago by Mrs. Terrell
becomming your spouses better half; why differences make a marriage...
I found this book entertaining, but did not learn a lot of new material from it. If you have studied marriage before, you will find this book is basically the same thing. Read more
Published 1 month ago by psuvan
Worth the read
I picked up this book prior to getting married. It's been very enlightening and helped me understand the moods of a man. In turn he has learned to understand me better. Read more
Published 2 months ago by amcook11
VERY Biased!
I am not sure if this book fits 21st century. This such an 17th, 18th Century book. May be this is good for really passionate christians, but not for everyone. Read more
Published 3 months ago by booklover87
Men and Women 101
Out of all the books I've read on marriage this one really explains the basics of men and women the best. Read more
Published 5 months ago by Rebecca Johnson
1950s ideology for the 21st century
I picked this book up out of curiosity, and within pages, found myself completely outraged at Johnson's outdated, misogynistic understanding of the institution of marriage. Read more
Published 5 months ago by LucyMae
Excellent
This book was very helpful in opening up the discussion of the differences between men & women. It was very informative and helped me gain a better understanding of my husband and... Read more
Published 6 months ago by Impressed
Helpful insight that has made our marriage better!!
I have read several of Rick's books, so I was eager to see what advice he has for married couples in this book. Read more
Published 9 months ago by Cperry78
Completely Shocked!!
I am in the process of getting married and saw this book and thought it would be a great read. I was so disappointed. I have to completely agree with Rapunzel's comments. Read more
Published 13 months ago by Ruby Red
Sexist
I find this book VERY sexist towards women. The man has to be a gate keeper and keep bad character out? Seriously? Not a marriage of equals in my opinion. Read more
Published 14 months ago by Rapunzel
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Rick is the founder of Better Dads, a fathering skills program designed to inspire and equip men to be more engaged in the lives of their children. He develops and delivers inspirational training workshops and presentations across the country for organizations including businesses, churches, civic groups, social service agencies, hospitals, prisons, and schools.

He speaks at many large conferences across the US and Canada and is a popular keynote speaker at men's and women's retreats and conferences on parenting and marriage. He is a nationally recognized expert in several areas having been asked to deliver papers at venues such as the 2007 County of Los Angeles Child Abuse Prevention Conference and the 2008 State of New York Fatherhood Conference.

Prior to becoming a bestselling author and speaker, Rick was a small business owner for 16 years, owning and operating an environmental engineering firm. He attended George Fox University receiving a Bachelor of Arts degree in Management and Organizational Leadership, and has a Masters in Education from Concordia University. He is a veteran of the United States Navy, has served on the Board of Directors for several community and business associations, and coaches high school basketball in his spare time.

Rick has been featured in many national publications such as New Man Magazine, Crosswalk.com, Christianity.com, Christianity Today's Men of Integrity, Relevant Magazine, Pentecostal Evangel, Thriving Family, and Proverbs 31 Ministries Magazine.

Rick has appeared on over 200 radio programs and television shows around the United States. He is the former co-host of a live, weekly radio show called, "An Hour of Honesty and Common Sense." He is a recuperating collector of Three Stooges memorabilia and is secretly addicted to cheeseburgers and Hostess Cupcakes.

Rick and his wife Suzanne have two (nearly) adult children and live in Gresham, Oregon.

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