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I hope you will "Believe Me", February 10, 2009
This review is from: Believe Me: A Novel (Paperback)
We live in an age and time when we're often more likely to emphasize and get stuck on being right than on understanding the point of view of another person. During the election season, most conservatives read conservative blogs, while liberals read liberal blogs, and neither group gets very good at really listening to the other. The same thing is often true in religious circles; several times in the past week I've had progressive friends lament the upcoming discussions they'd have with their conservative family members. It seems to be a rare individual who really "gets" people on the other side of the proverbial fence. After reading Nina's book, I suspect that she might be one of these rare folks. Her novel is told from the perspective and in the voice of Nic, a thirteen year-old boy who is an only child. Nic lives with his mother, Lucy, an astrophysicist and a devout atheist who has very little tolerance for matters of faith. She's very content to study the stars, live a good life, and do the best that she can as a mom. Nic, on the other hand, is at that age in life where he's forming an identity of his own. He befriends the local pastor of a small independent church, a Nigerian man named Dele, and begins secretly attending a Bible study at his best friend's house. Of course, it's not long before Lucy finds out about everything, and things begin to spiral out of control in her world. Life for the two of them gets ever more interesting when Dele ends up living with them in a spare bedroom, and everyone is forced to rethink a few of their long-held attitudes, beliefs, and habits about many topics. Late in the book, tragedy strikes the family, and Nic and Lucy struggle to maintain their belief systems in the midst of the pain. Ultimately, the story becomes a meditation on faith, love, gratitude, and compassion--values that transcend any one particular worldview or religious expression. It would be easy for a book like this to become filled with stereotypes, playing on our emotional trigger points or strongly emphasizing one worldview as "correct." (After all, Nic is named for Nicolas Copernicus, and Lucy is the name of a famous fossil hominid.) Fortunately, Believe Me presents each of these contrasting belief systems as positive, well-considered, and fully meaningful to those who hold them. Progressive Christians who have "converted" from a more traditional view will likely find much they understand or even resonate with in both Lucy and those from the church. Anyone who works with youth will thoroughly enjoy the rather precocious Nic, whose unique perspectives on life are a fresh way to approach some common themes (though at times you will see him as just a bit too wise for his age.) The book would be great for a church or community book club, a church library, a gift for a teacher, or just for your own late-night reading. Believe Me, you'll enjoy it, and I encourage you to order a copy today.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:
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Not Bad, But Not Unforgettable, February 20, 2009
This review is from: Believe Me: A Novel (Paperback)
Realistically, BELIEVE ME is a coming-of-age tale about thirteen-year-old Nic Delano. You see Nic's mother is an atheist and influence from Nic's friend has him questioning if God exists. Nic's friend, Kevin's, mother bakes cookies rather than purchases them, and their family unit is what Nic's always dreamed of. Nic's parents are married, but his mother refused to leave her job and move when his father was transferred, so the family is clearly divided. When Nic begins attending regular Bible studies, his mother is furious but realizes stopping him will only drive him farther away. When Nic asks to let one of the church members, an African named Dele, move in, she begrudgingly allows it. Dele's presence begins to work wonders on both mother and son. However, Nic's mother soon has her own secret that will make or break Nic's newfound belief. The pacing of BELIEVE ME is slow, yet steady. It's not a Christian story, yet I was certain it would appeal to Christians because Nic's journey into Christianity was a key point of the story. Characters never truly became mesmerizing, I liked them, but never loved them. I did snicker with the opening line in which Nic asks why there are so many types of peanut butter, that one line pulled me in. Overall, I question who will get the most out of this book. Though it is an adult fiction novel, I almost think that it will appeal to teenagers and pre-teens who enjoy tales of dysfunctional families. BELIEVE ME is a unique storyline and certain to make for interesting reading group discussions.
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Poignant, January 30, 2009
This review is from: Believe Me: A Novel (Paperback)
I really enjoyed Nina Killham's first two books. Her first book, HOW TO COOK A TART is a delightful send-up of our impressions of food, relationships and love with a cast of quirky characters and a hilarious plot with a bizarre ending. Her second book, MOUNTING DESIRE, is a hysterical send-up of romance novels and also contains a quirky cast. When I saw that her third was coming out, I pre-ordered it. Well, it finally arrived and I read it in a day and a half. BELIEVE ME is a slight departure from her normal writing. Sure, some of the characters are quirky and sure, there is a lot of humor, but the story is more, oh, I hate to use these words, as they are so overworked, poignant and heartwarming. This is the story of a young boy and his mother, each searching for something to cling to and believe in. The story is told from the perspective of Nic Delany, whose mother is a devout atheist and whose father is a professor of comparative religions. Nic has fallen in with group of Christians, not just any Christians, but evangelical Christians and he begins to think about religion. He also thinks about all of the things a typical thirteen-year old boy thinks about. Things like video games and sex. The author does an admirable job writing in the first person and even though it's been forty years since I was a thirteen-year old, I found it very credible. Nina Killham made me laugh, she made me smile, she made me think, and she brought a few tears to my eyes. I recommend this book to anyone and have already passed it on to a friend.
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