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The Best of Friends: Martha and Me [Hardcover]

Mariana Pasternak (Author)
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March 16, 2010

Set in a world of luxury and power, this is the story of two remarkable women and a friendship that changed both their lives forever.

For more than two decades, Mariana Pasternak and Martha Stewart were nearly inseparable. They first met over a garden gate in Westport, Connecticut, two suburban wives wedded to successful men but with grand aspirations of their own. Their bond only deepened after their marriages ended in divorce. Struggling as a single mother, but drawn into a seductive world of privilege and adventure, Pasternak watched with admiration as her friend built an empire that would make her one of the richest women in America.

A European ÉmigrÉ with sophisticated tastes, Pasternak helped to smooth Stewart's rough edges, while Stewart drew Pasternak into a rarefied world, where together they navigated the sometimes hilarious and often difficult challenges of being single. The depth of their friendship not only benefited them both but also influenced how they defined themselves, through good times and bad. Friendship between women is never simple and this one was no exception.

With Stewart's newfound success and Pasternak's zest for adventure, the two women's friendship was based on their mutual quest for wonder and discovery. They rode horses through the desert dunes of Egypt, hiked the winding Inca Trail to the mysterious Machu Picchu, paddled at night in dugout canoes through the Amazonian jungle. They toasted the good life with thin-stemmed champagne glasses and sipped “jade dew" green tea in Martha's Turkey Hill kitchen. This was no ordinary life.

As time passed, money, men, and the arrogance of wealth frayed the bonds they had built so carefully over more than twenty years. The final break came when Pasternak was called as a witness in the high-profile trial that brought about Stewart's conviction and prison sentence. Pasternak's deeply personal memoir tells the story of their friendship with honesty and candor, reflecting on the power of such intense relationships to change our lives, and the devastating aftermath when those relationships end.


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About the Author

Mariana Pasternak grew up in Romania and immigrated to the United States as a political refugee. The mother of two daughters, she has been a biomedical engineer and has held other positions involving computer-based research and development. For the past twenty years, she has been working as a realtor in Connecticut, where she lives.


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  • Hardcover: 416 pages
  • Publisher: Harper; 1 edition (March 16, 2010)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0061661279
  • ISBN-13: 978-0061661273
  • Product Dimensions: 9.6 x 6.4 x 1.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.3 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 2.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (46 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #789,792 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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24 of 26 people found the following review helpful:
3.0 out of 5 stars Friendship!, March 20, 2010
This review is from: The Best of Friends: Martha and Me (Hardcover)
It is said the rich are different, and if reading this book is any proof that is correct. Mariana Pasternak is intelligent and eloquent, very smart and knows the designers, the correct food and artists and music. Her turn of phrase and descriptions are rich too; "winters long and sharp as shards of glass."
She enjoys the lifestyle of travel and good food and eloquent company - she and Martha seem to have been made to be friends.
As you read, even from the beginning few pages the qualms sneak in: the way Martha holds her glass out to be taken and many times Mariana states how she notices how very few friends Martha has and how she tends only to talk to men. As time goes on she questions if her daughters are even safe in Martha's company, one time using irritating face paint on them and another goading them into using a watercraft they had never been on before to skim around piranha infested waters. Mariana does not say anything at either time to Martha that would endanger this friendship between them.
Mariana says that their friendship put a strain on her marriage, but she chooses Martha many times over again, over what she thinks are fair accountings in their money dealings, over their travel expenses, over dinner bills and much else.
It isn't what I would call a friendship, but they both served a purpose in each other's lives. Mariana gets a good lifestyle and experiences for her daughters, Martha has a companion and 2 girls to have a way of life experiences with. They seem to be good company for each other until the end in the courtroom where of course their `friendship' is irrevocably ripped apart.
We all know what to expect from these books, the gossip and insider knowledge of what is going on in another `world'. Mariana delivers those stories in the incidents she relates of Martha's extreme actions and arguments with her neighbors, her quest for a male partner after Andy's departure; with whom Mariana seems to have developed an adoration of. She describes how he wears a walkman because he is the sort of person who wanted to bring music close to his soul. Of course Martha screams at him for wearing it.
In her viewpoint, Andy was the one responsible for Martha's success.

As with all relationships there are two sides to every story, this is not Martha's but another's viewpoint. It will give you her view of a world that most of us, who read it will not live in, so that in some ways is interesting and what holds the fascination. If you want a gossipy book about the Martha Stewart life this is it
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31 of 35 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars Glimpse Into Martha's World, March 19, 2010
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I enjoyed this book mostly because it offers a behind the scenes look at Martha's houses, lifestyle and trips. I thought it was fascinating to learn how she bought her houses, decorated them, and furnished them. I also enjoyed reading about the amazing trips she took. For me, these things were the highlight of the book. I found some of the story a bit unbelievable. The author claims to have had doubts and misgivings about Martha for years, yet did nothing. She even writes about Martha "endangering" her children yet she didn't say a single word or do anything to stop it. It's hard to believe. Her account of the trial and the events leading up to it also seem a bit questionable. There is a lot of convoluted reasoing and explanations about what she said at the trial and what she actually MEANT.

Her characterizations of Martha, while often negative, do match what others have said. And honestly, I'm not sure how you get to be Martha Stewart without being a bit cold, calculating, and tough. And I have to say, after closely observing Martha's public persona for over a year for my blog [...], these characteristics do peek through as you watch her on her show and on interviews she does. She's a tough cookie and a very powerful woman. I did think it interesting that the author talks about Martha's loneliness and search for love, which I find poignant and believable. All in all I thought this was a good read because of the glimpse it gives you into Martha's homes, trips, and lifestyle. I wasn't as much interested in the 'who said what to whom' aspect of this.
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful:
3.0 out of 5 stars The Best of "Friends"?, April 18, 2010
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This book while interesting disturbs me. It seems that Pasternak freely uses Stewart to live the life of the rich, and while allowing herself to be used and compromised, never stands up to Stewart even when Pasternak's children are allegedly endangered.
Aside from rather sophomoric inclusions of philosophers, artists, designers, sycophants and parasites, the author NEVER refers to her husband (or her other relationship) by name (a legal issue?). The stilting and constant use of "fiancé", "husband to be", "husband", "lover" etc. are annoying.
Stewart may have been toxic, but Pasternak allowed, if not fostered, Stewart's behavior by tolerating it.
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