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The Best of the Human Side [Mass Market Paperback]

Leslie Dashew (Author)
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0965802833 978-0965802833 September 1, 1997 1
The Best of the Human Side is full of valuable advice and perspectives on increasing your effectiveness as an individual, as a member of a team, or as part of a larger organization. Members of family businesses will find this book of particular interest as there are a series of chapters dedicated to the perils and pleasures of family-owned businesses.

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The world is evolving at such a rapid pace that we must be prepared to cope with change and to benefit from it, rather than fall victim to it. Most importantly, we must understand how to make changes in ourselves and to understand our limitations in changing others. This is not an easy process! I have shared some of my own experiences and reflections throughout this book (particularly in the first section) in order to illustrate that work in these areas continues throughout our lives. I have found that when we are courageous enough to share openly, others are more open as well.

Our effectiveness starts with our own integrity. For what do we, as individuals, stand? What is our purpose or mission in life? What values guide our actions and use of resources (time, money, relationships, intellect)? And what gives us joy? The clearer we are about who we are, and what we want to do with our lives, the more effective we can be. Otherwise we are reactive to the forces around us.

Therefore, the first portion of this book includes chapters to help you reflect on your life, purpose, and sense of self. Much of this portion was written at the end of the year, as I reflected on the year that had passed and the one about to begin.

At the next level, our effectiveness as humans comes from our ability to relate to others, i.e., interpersonal effectiveness. This includes our ability to communicate, to solve problems, and to work with teams and larger systems, such as the complex family business. Thus, Part Two addresses interpersonal skills and team effectiveness.

Part Three focuses on the family business, which is a specialty of my practice. The family business is one of the most complex of all human systems, composed of two sub-systems that normally operate more independently. The overlap can cause great confusion when family members/business members are unclear about which "rules" prevail. Even if you are not a part of a family business, I hope you will find insights useful in other complex systems.

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Thousands of people have benefited from the wisdom in these pages as Ms. Dashew has shared her perspectives in her newsletters, articles, seminars, and lectures. Finally, she has written a book that includes the best of her work. This is the type of book you will want to share with friends and family to help them with all of the challenges in their lives.

Product Details

  • Mass Market Paperback: 160 pages
  • Publisher: Beowulf Inc; 1 edition (September 1, 1997)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0965802833
  • ISBN-13: 978-0965802833
  • Product Dimensions: 8.8 x 6 x 0.6 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 10.4 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (3 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #2,439,404 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Leslie Dashew has combined her background in organizational development and family therapy to specialize in consultation to family businesses and families of wealth, as well as other organizations, private and public. She has been in practice for over 38 years and is now located in Scottsdale, Arizona.

Leslie helps individuals, families and organizations chart the course of their future.

Her work with family businesses includes prevention of serious problems by helping clients establish the policies, practices and skills of healthy family organizations. She also works with families who are in severe conflict to help them untangle the knots between family and business issues. Leslie's clients come from large and small businesses throughout the U.S. and abroad, in many different industries. Her expertise lies in helping these clients create harmony in the family and prosperity in the business.

Leslie also works with families of wealth to help identify a shared vision and strategies to help families optimize the impact of wealth on the family and its interests.

While Leslie has worked extensively with family-owned businesses, she has not lost touch with her roots in consulting with leaders, boards and teams in other organizations as well.
Leslie's work includes:

* Providing counsel to leaders
* Building Teams
* Assessing the family and business
* Developing a shared vision for family and its assets
* Creating practical plans to achieve the vision
* Developing clients' skills, knowledge and shared perspectives
* Designing and facilitating of family meetings and family councils
* Creating and/or enhancing the effectiveness of boards and foundations
* Resolving difficult conflicts
* Providing on-going support and advice to assure continued success
* Facilitation and change management services

Leslie has written four books. She is a co-author of Working With Family Businesses, A Guide For Professionals, published by Jossey-Bass. Leslie's second book, The Best of The Human Side was published in October of 1997. Her third book, Health, Wealth and Families: How to Assure Your Wealth Helps, Not Hurts, Your Family was published in January of 2003. Leslie's newest book, Keys to Family Business Success (co-authored with her partners in the Aspen Family Business Group) was published in early 2011.

She is often quoted, and her writing on family business issues can be found in popular, business and trade magazines including Wall Street Journal, Family Business, INC, Black Enterprise, Entrepreneur, USA Today, Investment News and many others. She was even featured in an interview in the Nepali publication, The Organization, and in Professional Builder magazine.

Leslie speaks widely at academic, professional and trade associations. She presents workshops and seminars for companies across the U.S. and abroad. She is renowned for her interactive programs on family business issues, management, leadership, team building, change and stress management, as well as individual and interpersonal effectiveness.

Leslie also conducts training for professional and trade associations such as YPO (Young Presidents Organization), Family Firm Institute, American Institute of CPAs, Society of the Plastics Industry, American Hotel and Motel Association, American Society for Training and Development, Attorneys for Family Held Enterprises (AFHE) as well as Family Business Educational Forums, Universities, Chambers of Commerce and Small Business Development Centers.

As a family therapist as well as an organizational development consultant, Leslie's insights are also shared individually and in workshops on managing "problem" employees, chemical dependency, communication skills, stress and change management and overcoming barriers to professional effectiveness.

Leslie has served in many volunteer and professional organizations on boards and committees including the Board of Trustees of Pitzer College, The McDowell Sonoran Conservancy, the Scottsdale Center for the Arts, Women Business Owners, Inc., the Scottsdale Cultural Council, the Council For Children, and the Family Firm Institute. In 2010 The Family Firm Institute awarded Leslie the "Richard Beckhard Award" which is the most prestigious award in the family business field. It recognizes contributions to the knowledge and practice of advising family businesses. "Leslie has been a vanguard in our field and always at the leading edge of new knowledge and tools in understanding and serving family businesses," says Kelin Gersick, Ph.D, past award recipient and FFI leader. "She not only helps to develop many of the concepts and tools used by other professionals, but she also mentors individuals, families, and organizations across the globe to help chart the courses of their futures."

She was named One of The Ten Outstanding Young People of Atlanta and recently was elected to the International Women's Forum.

Leslie's undergraduate degree in psychology is from Pitzer College and her graduate degree in psychiatric social work is from the University of Michigan. She served on the Emory University Medical School Faculty in Psychiatry for 6 years.

 

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5.0 out of 5 stars Practical, thoughtful, succinct look at family business., September 5, 1998
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This review is from: The Best of the Human Side (Mass Market Paperback)
For the consultant, advisor, or family member, this is a must read because it is an excellent guide through the sometimes difficult waters of family business.

As an advisor to family owned businesses, I found the book particularly helpful in understanding the individual in relationship to the business and in understanding the interplay of the family system with the business system.

Ms. Dashew is straightfoward in her approach to the complexities of family owned business. She provides ample exercises that draws the readers attention to the issues with tips you can use in resolving those issues.

In her book, Ms. Dashew tackles difficult issues such as substance abuse (an issue too often supressed in the family and the business) and whether to join the family business. She brings clarity to the issues and provides practical advise.

Whatever your involvement with family owned businesses, this is a book that should be on your bookshelf.

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5.0 out of 5 stars Thorough, fresh, and insightful - from a leader in the field, July 28, 1998
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This review is from: The Best of the Human Side (Mass Market Paperback)
This is one of the best books on personal development that I have read. A rare find amid the myriad self-help and pop psychology books, The Best of the Human Side offers a fresh perspective relayed with warmth, humor, and common sense. Many topics address issues family businesses face; however, several of these same topics (confrontation, dialogue, listening) apply just as strongly to non-business, interpersonal relationships.

I look forward to reading more from Leslie Dashew.

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5.0 out of 5 stars The best book to date on the complexity of a family business, June 29, 1998
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This review is from: The Best of the Human Side (Mass Market Paperback)
In its most simple form, The Best Of The Human Side is about making connections.

First, there must be a connection with one's own identity - of being clear about who you are and what you are about before you can adequately enter into the second part of the book - making connections with others.

Finally, having looked at some practical ways of connecting with others, Leslie brings us to the most interesting and dynamic of all human interactions - the family business connection.

Having grown up in a family business, I can state with certainty that the insights, lessons and tools that are provided in The Best Of The Human Side are pragmatic, useful and easily understood.

There is a healing that takes place as you begin to understand that the dynamics of a family business are shared by most, if not all, family businesses. Ms. Dashew pulls from a wealth of different sources (i.e. The I Ching to The Lion King) to explain the multifaceted issues that face family businesses and in that explanation, there is a connection with other families who are experiencing the same thing you are.

For anyone who owns a family business, works for a family business, consults to a family business or in any way is connected to a family business, this book is a must to read.

It is easy to read but don't let that fool you to the depth of its content. Take your time and reflect on each chapter. This book makes a real connection!

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