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Praises for Kelly Johnson and her contributors, June 28, 2009
This review is from: A Better Man: True American Heroes Speak to Young Men on Love, Power, Pride and What It Really Means to Be a Man (Hardcover)
Kelly Johnson's book A Better Man is targeted to young men. I am not a young man, but a middle-aged woman, and I found myself wanting to reach for my yellow highlighter in each essay or interview, or in Johnson's introductions, to underscore a bit of wisdom or humanity that touched my core. But, I did not for I did not want to mar the newness, the pristine landscape of this recent publication. Because that's how I feel about what Johnson has done, opened up a new frontier with this courageous achievement. As readers, we are encouraged to be brave enough to meet her there.
If I were a parent, I might be defensive if I saw the title of this book. Sort of like, I'm doing a fine job thank you. As the mother of five boys and one girl, Johnson herself admits that this work was born from the frustrations of trying to instill right from wrong in the face of so much outside distortion. This is something we all struggle with, not only young men, knowing what's right yet possibly following what's popular instead, or acting out of unresolved pain. I promise you, this book in no means talks down to anyone, but makes tangible that which each of us knows we are all capable of, being a better person. Each contributor has a unique and pertinent viewpoint.
As a person with liberal tendencies, I balked when I saw GHW Bush's name. But I kept an open mind and was very glad I did. Perhaps you'll see a name that causes you pause. When it comes to Richmonders, Wilder is a controversial figure stemming from his tenure as mayor. My advice is to keep an open mind and don't be deterred from stepping into these pages with this mixed bag of heroic men who have so willingly shared what has worked for them to be able to do what's right and to prosper, in many more ways than solely monetarily.
What heartens me is the honesty found here both on the part of the editor and the contributors, a willingness to go to places deep and sometimes scary in order to make a difference in young lives. A place where one's own truth speaks louder than the manipulative mainstream media thereby allowing for a more authentic expression of what it means to be a better man, a better human. And there are plenty of laughs along the way, too.
In conclusion, I bet you, too, will be inspired to reach for the highlighter to underscore whichever passages resonate with you. When I reread this book as I know I will, I intend to go ahead and use that highlighter. This is not just a book for young men, yet it is very important that it reach that very special target group.
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10 of 10 people found the following review helpful:
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"A Better Man", July 3, 2009
This review is from: A Better Man: True American Heroes Speak to Young Men on Love, Power, Pride and What It Really Means to Be a Man (Hardcover)
In her latest book, Kelly Johnson sends a wonderful, positive and inspirational message not only to young men, but to all readers, on the meaning of living one's life as a "Better Man". The interviews of the twenty-six strong, influential role models and heroes from the military, politics, sports and television are encouraging and uplifting stories, lessons and life experiences that we can all learn from. I have passed this book on to my son, who, as a new father, will no doubt be moved by the stories as I was. My grandson will also have a copy of the book. We are living in a troubled world, and I found this book to be a wonderful, strong message of hope and encouragement.
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A Better Man - Advice For Her Sons And Our Sons, June 28, 2009
This review is from: A Better Man: True American Heroes Speak to Young Men on Love, Power, Pride and What It Really Means to Be a Man (Hardcover)
Kelly H. Johnson is a talented writer, who has given a gift to all young men. As the mother or stepmother of five boys, Kelly Johnson searched for a way to give her sons and our sons a deeper understanding of what it means to be a "Better Man". She has chosen well respected men from all cultural and racial backgrounds to offer their heartfelt counsel to our sons. The result is a broad spectrum of advice that she ties together through her interviews and word associations. Young men will benefit from this book, but men and women of all ages will love the biographies, editorial notes and views of their heros.
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