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Better Than Sane: Tales from a Dangling Girl [Hardcover]

Alison C. Rose (Author)
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May 4, 2004
Dorothy Parker meets Holly Golightly in this sharp, delicious, bright-girl-comes-to-New-York memoir. Alison Rose, former actress and former model (sort of), takes us from her childhood to her years at The New Yorker, revealing how, often, she “didn’t care enough about existence to keep it going herself” and preferred to stay in her room with her animals and think.

She writes about her childhood in California, daughter of a movie-star-handsome psychiatrist who was charming to friends but a bully and a tyrant to his family (he hadn’t wanted children; he believed mental illness was hereditary). She writes about how she never liked any place better than her wisteria-covered veranda off her childhood bedroom . . . and about the times she lay by the pool with her sister’s boyfriend (she ten; he eighteen), listening to “Ten Cents a Dance” on the phonograph—and learned the victory of cahoots-style flirtation . . .

She writes about moving to Manhattan in her twenties, sleeping in Central Park, subsisting on Valium, Eskatrol, and Sara Lee orange cake . . . about the “alter” family she assembled: Francine from Atlanta, whose beauty was so unnerving she disoriented those around her; “Mother,” the short gay man who photographed Alison; “Baby Bob,” just out of Austen Riggs mental hospital . . .

She writes about moving to L.A., attending the Actors Studio, living with Burt Lancaster’s son “Billy the Fish” (he lived in his own element, coming up for other people’s air), sabotaging her acting efforts (no one knew better than Alison how to shut the window on her own fingers) . . . about encountering Helmut Dantine of Casablanca fame, who gave her shelter from the storm, and about meeting Gardner McKay, her childhood TV idol, and becoming friends—sacred, close, lifelong.

She writes about returning to New York, getting a job as a receptionist at The New Yorker, being taken up by the writers there—“a tribe of gods,” who turned her from a semi-recluse into a full-fledged writer (“You can't be the smartest person who doesn’t do anything forever”); about their kindredness, the impromptu club they formed: Insane Anonymous (a “whole other world that was better than sane”); and her emergence as a writer for the magazine. As Renata Adler said of Alison’s path, “It is the most nuanced, courageous, utterly crazy way to have wended.”

Better Than Sane is the debut of a supremely gifted and entertaining writer.

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From Publishers Weekly

Born into a wealthy Palo Alto family, Rose, a depressed and isolated child, didn't take a real job until age 40, when she became a receptionist at the New Yorker in the 1980s. There, she became either intimate friends or lovers with many of the male staff writers, some of whom she names (Harold Brodkey, George Trow) and others to whom she gives pseudonymous monikers (Europe, Personality Plus). In this tantalizingly elliptical memoir, Rose, now 60, recounts her lifelong inability to connect with "the humans" (she's quite fine with animals), beginning with her own family: a volatile psychiatrist father; a beautiful, autocratic mother; and an older sister whom she admired but could never quite be like. Fleeing California for New York at 19 and living chaotically (spending more than a few nights sleeping in Central Park with a despondent lover), Rose befriended an older gay man and her life-long pal Francine, a Southern beauty. She returned to California to act, living with Burt Lancaster's son, Billy, and attending Lee Strasberg's Actors Studio. The breakup with Billy sent her back to New York, a long depression, the New Yorker and her life's most significant relationships. Rose acknowledges that she has been strongly defined by others, particularly powerful men. She writes much of the memoir in the same style as the "Talk of the Town" pieces she penned under Trow's tutelage; her prose is languid yet involving, and occasionally precious. Rose writes of her life rather than examining it, and her haunting memoir is exquisitely detailed, eerily fraught and ineffably sad.
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From Booklist

Deadpan, smart, hypersensitive, and mordantly funny, Rose could be a character out of the fiction of Julie Hecht, but she is, instead, a writer for the New Yorker and Vogue who has decided to tell the story of her quirky life. Rose describes a spectacularly alienating California childhood and a mid-1960s escape to New York, where she attains tentative success as a model and actor in spite of a phenomenal lack of drive and a touch of agoraphobia. She returns to California for a shot at the movies but ends up depressed, dependent on Valium, and weirdly capable of doing nothing. Finally she saves herself once again; returns to New York; contacts a family friend, Brendan Gill; and lands a receptionist job at the New Yorker in 1985. There she attracts a circle of admirers, including George Trow and Harold Brodkey, who appreciate her drollness and recognize her nascent literary abilities. Although Rose's sexy and entertaining memoir suffers from archness and coattail riding, it is oddly pleasing in its nervy revelations of the author's unusual sensibility. Donna Seaman
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Product Details

  • Hardcover: 240 pages
  • Publisher: Knopf (May 4, 2004)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1400041244
  • ISBN-13: 978-1400041244
  • Product Dimensions: 8.5 x 6 x 0.9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 15 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 3.1 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (11 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #2,008,246 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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6 of 7 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars A BOOK THAT I LOVE, July 13, 2004
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As a longtime admirer of Alison Rose's pieces in The New Yorker, her Talk of the Town stories and profiles, over many years, I am so happy she has written Better than Sane: Tales from a Dangling Girl, a book that I love. I read it in one sitting. There is a nobility about Rose's story, a life spent in search of a direction for her singular and considerable gifts. When Rose writes about the characters whom she loves and who love her back, she writes with such style and wit and self-awareness that many of her sentences will stay with me for a long, long time. A
great chapter is a road trip that Alison and her mentor and friend, George, take through the South. It made me cry. Another favorite is a romantic and sexy description of an affectionate lover: "It seemed to me he brought the highest reverence -- a sort of tactile worship -- to being up close to another person." If any reader has doubted herself, she will find comfort and reassurance in Alison Rose's spectacularly well-written first book.
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5 of 6 people found the following review helpful:
3.0 out of 5 stars I'm in the middle , clearly controversy means something!, July 24, 2005
This review is from: Better Than Sane: Tales from a Dangling Girl (Hardcover)
I usually only review books that I absolutely love- but in this case I wanted to read this tome in one night and be done with it... Alison has a beautiful and sometimes seductive and brilliant way of stringing thoughts together- an idiosyncratic way of descriptive device. Five stars for individuality and fine form.
The issue that I think most detractors have is the content and viewpoint of this clearly unfeminist female who in current jargon "gave all of her power away" to captivating and famous intellectuals - and I agree it's unclear the extent of the physical affairs that she was having - although there was plenty of mind games and heady flirtation and this was the food of her life- approval from men .So, if it's not your bag then you probably won't like the book-The men seem pompous smug and peurile to me, but I wasn't there. Everyone has their own life to live and Alison Rose shouldn't be judged to harshly for her choices. Certainly the game was a two way street and these New yorker men loved having their err egos stroked.To readers I say "try it , you might like it, and if not then she's just not your cuppa. "
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4 of 5 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars A REAL WRITER, July 30, 2004
This review is from: Better Than Sane: Tales from a Dangling Girl (Hardcover)
Alison Rose is a real writer. Better Than Sane:Tales from a Dangling Girl is literature, which is hard to come by these days.
Rose knows what friendship is. I have memorized a sentence she wrote about the writer Harold Brodkey: "If I have, say, twenty fragments of my mind all to myself, and I give ten to Harold, then half of them are taken care of for a few hours. Then I have only half the trouble, half the isolation. A real luxury." In the chapter "Dangling Girl," Rose's loyal friend Francine flies in from Atlanta to help Alison pack up her office at The New Yorker. The description is sad and charming and so beautiful that I could feel the decades of friendship, as if I had been in the office with them. On the last moving day, the brilliant writer, Renata Adler,(there is a sublime Adler quote in the epigraph)takes the photographs of George Trow and Harold Brodkey off the wall, a final goodbye. Parts of Better Than Sane are elegiac, but all of it is written in prose that, elegiac or not, brings happiness to a serious reader. We need Better Than Sane in our uncertain world.
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