Beyond Halftime: Practical Wisdom for Your Second Half [Hardcover]

Bob P. Buford (Author)

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Publication Date: December 16, 2008

Wisdom and Support for Your Halftime Journey Since the publication fifteen years ago of Bob Buford's award-winning and newly updated and expanded bestseller, Halftime, more than half a million men and women have made the halftime journey from success to significance. If you are contemplating that journey yourself or have already started, Beyond Halftime is for you. 'This book is the result of fifteen years of answering questions about halftime,' writes Buford. 'I've focused on the areas that seem to come up most from those who contact me, and I've answered them in much the same way I would answer you if we sat down together over coffee. So in a very real sense, this book allows me to be your companion as you negotiate the ups and downs of the whole halftime experience.' Beyond Halftime invites you to slow down and take time to listen---really listen---to the voice of your heart and the rhythms of your life. The discoveries you're about to make during this vital phase of your life can't be rushed. Enjoy this wise guidance on the things that matter most in moving from gaining success to leaving a legacy. Your most rewarding years lie ahead of you. Welcome to the journey.

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About the Author

Bob Buford is an entrepreneur that grew a successful cable television company in the first half of his life. In his second half, Buford founded Halftime, an organization designed to inspire business and professional leaders to embrace God's calling and move from success to significance. For outstanding resources, self-assessment tools, stories, events and experiences to help you on your Halftime journey from success to significance visit www.Halftime.org. SPANISH BIO: Bob Buford fundo Network Liderazgo, una organizasion que busca aselerar la urgencia de iglesias efectivas para identificar, conectar y buscando inobativos lideres de iglesia. Y tiempo y medio una organisacion desinada para inspirar negosios y lideres profesionales a adaptar la llamada de Dios y moverse de exito a significasion.

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• Reading level: Ages 18 and up
  
• Hardcover: 176 pages
• Publisher: Zondervan (December 16, 2008)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0310284236
• ISBN-13: 978-0310284239
• Product Dimensions: 7.2 x 5.2 x 0.7 inches
• Shipping Weight: 8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (1 customer review)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #247,666 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Until its sale in 1999, Bob Buford served as Chairman and CEO of Buford Television, Inc., a family-owned business that started with an ABC affiliate in Tyler, Texas, and grew to a network of cable systems across the US.

In 1995, Buford wrote Halftime, a book that came from his mind and heart on how to find meaning and fulfillment in the second half of life. Those who read Halftime and Game Plan (published in 1997) often ask what Bob is involved in as a result of his own "halftime" experience. His third book, Stuck in Halftime: Reinvesting Your One and Only Life was released in 2001. Finishing Well, a compilation of more than sixty inspiring interviews threaded with Buford's own experiences, was released in 2004. Halftime was updated and released in 2008, along with Beyond Halftime, a collection of Bob's musings on what matters most in moving from gaining success to leaving a legacy.

In 1997, Bob founded Halftime, an organization to help successful people convert their experience and passions into action (www.halftime.org). Halftime's mission is to inspire and equip leaders to achieve maximum leverage and return on the investment of their resources, measured in changed lives and healthier communities.

Bob hosts The Halftime Institute, a 27 hour experience designed to help those who attend accelerate their transition from success to significance. For dates and to register, visit http://www.halftime.org/the-halftime-institute.

Bob is a graduate of the University of Texas at Austin and of the Owner Managed Program at the Harvard Business School. He has played active roles in Young Presidents' Organization and World Presidents' Organization and served on the board of the Hauser Center for Nonprofit Organizations at Harvard. Buford was the 2000 recipient of The Samaritan Institute Award and the 2005 Christian Management Association Award. "Lead Like Jesus" presented Buford the Leadership Award in 2008 and Roaring Lambs Ministry honored him in 2009. He was the 2010 recipient of the J. Erik Jonsson Ethics Award from SMU Cary M. Maguire Center for Ethics and Public Responsibility.

Bob and his wife, Linda, live in Dallas.

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This review is from: Beyond Halftime: Practical Wisdom for Your Second Half (Hardcover)

I recently re-read two of Bob Buford's books: this one as well as Halftime: Changing Your Game Plan from Success to Significance. (I correctly assumed that it would be best to read them in that sequence.) Inevitably, there are some repetitions throughout the three volumes because most of Buford's core concepts are articles of faith and he takes full advantage of every appropriate opportunity to reaffirm them. However, over the years he has revised and updated the material in new editions as his own life experiences have indicated the need to do so. In this volume, he offers practical advice in the form of "musings" about how to navigate one's way through life while acknowledging that life tends to be "messy, disorderly, one surprise after another."

One of the key issues in Buford's books is having a "purpose in life," one that (as Rick Warren has so eloquently explained) "drives" what we think, feel, and do. Buford changed purposes in what he refers to as "the second half of [his] life" (i.e. life after age 50), by which time he had learned "to embrace discomfort and to celebrate disorderliness. I have [also] learned to trust the unknown that comes with abandoning the drive to succeed." This precisely what Reinhold Niebuhr once had in mind when suggesting this prayer: "God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; the courage to change the things I can; and the wisdom to know the difference." In Chapter 21, Buford explains what happened when he gave a presentation to a young secular audience of business leaders and their spouses. During the Q&A session that followed, one person in the audience said, "I'm a believer in the philosophy of Ayn Rand. Her philosophy is based on selfishness, that the best way to live is to look out for yourself. What do you think about that?"

This response indicated to Buford and the values and purpose in life that he had affirmed during his presentation were not well-received. "In fact, it is probably the way that most people act in their first-half lives, a predominant `success' worldview. If that's the case, then my speaking of self-transcendence and significance followed by surrender to a higher ideal must have seemed threatening to them, and maybe to you [his reader]." Buford's point is that unless and until people are "ready" for self-transcendence, ready to initiate the process to achieve it by changing their purpose in life, they will continue (as Buford did in his own first-half life) to pursue material success. "Would the members of the audience change as they grew into a different season of life? "I wasn't sure as I mused about it."

In this context, I am reminded of a situation almost two centuries ago following a program presented by Ralph Waldo Emerson in Concord, Massachusetts, during which he had explained the benefits of transcendental meditation. Emerson agreed to answer questions and an elderly farmer raised his hand. "All that's mighty interesting, Mr. Emerson, but how do you transcend an empty stomach?" Especially now when the economy is creating so many problems for everyone and especially for second-half people, self-transcendence may not be so important as Buford suggests. That's not to suggest that it shouldn't be; rather, that it may not be.

I enjoyed sharing Buford's thoughts, feelings, and experiences in the two books. He offers hundreds of thought-provoking observations and issues to consider. In fact, there is a "Reflection" section at the conclusion of each chapter. Many second-half people now ask a question posed in a song made famous by Peggy Lee many years ago: "Is that all there is?" And no doubt many of them are saddened by the answer to it. It seems to me that one of the reasons that Buford wrote these two books is to help second-half readers to have both a sufficient and secure standard of living as well as a meaningful and sustainable quality of life, however "disordered" and "surprising" it may sometimes seem. He agrees with Tennyson's Ulysses:

"Tho' much is taken, much abides; and though
We are not now that strength which in old days
Moved earth and heaven; that which we are, we are;
One equal temper of heroic hearts,
Made weak by time and fate, but strong in will
To strive, to seek, to find, and not to yield."