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Beyond Second Opinions: Making Choices About Fertility Treatment

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This book certainly has a lot of information on various treatments (as you would likely find in many other books), but what makes this book unique is its in-depth look into the controversy which surrounds these treatments. The risks are covered in depth, where in most books this is not discussed. The benefits of certain treatments over others is discussed. The author is very knowledgable and gives an insiders view of the medical facts surrounding fertility treatments. My biggest surprise was how little is really understood and/or confirmed by the medical establishment. The research is often lacking and the results are anything but conclusive. I realized by reading this book why our RE (Dr) choose not to give my wife fertility drugs during her IUI treatments. My wife would have preferred anything possible that would potentially improves our changes. It is ture that most Dr's seem to throw "everything they got" at patients, even though doing so can be potentially dangerous. This is really an enderlying theme in this book, in my opinion. Often, the success rates do not correlate and are subject to question themselves. The author, who has personal experience as a DES daughter, relates the medical experiments of the past to many of the current treatments, which are more experimental in nature than we know. In our desparate quest to have children, most doctors are caving in to the pressure and giving patients drugs and treatments which are not well understood. This was very interesting to read and should help me and my wife make better choices. Overall, I found this book to be a fresh look on fertility treatments ... not just the facts, but the whole story, which is rarely discussed outside the medical community.

I would recommend reading this book first before going to a fertility clinic. I am undergoing fertility treatment and have therefore looked at several books on fertility and none of them tell you the truth like this book does. At the clinics, very little was explained to me and the doctors seemed eager to prescribe drugs without explaining the risks of multiple pregnancies and cancer. Basically, this book explains that fertility treatments are experimental and that the long term effects may be harmful, i.e. the risks may outweigh the benefits. So a couple considering fertility treatment should be well-informed and the best place to begin is this excellent, well-written and informative book.

I found this book to be the biggest waste of my time and money that any medicial book could be. I wouldn't have finished it, but I have to review it for a class. I chose this book because it looked like a fresh look at infertility. Now I realize she only has two points to make with this book. One, some treatments that infertile patients undergo have long term side effects. Two, there isn't much research to show the rate of "spontaneous" conceptions versus IVF and similar treatments. Would you like to be the control of that study? She hammers that people could get pregnant on their own if they tried longer. Nice thought, but if you to the put where you are considering IVF or GIFT, another 5 years is a long time. In addition to her research, I also found the writing to be poor. She used overly techinical language and writing when there was rarely a need.

Well - this is the first book about Infertility that I have ever purchased. And if more Infertility books are like this- I don't want 'em. It has made it hard for me to want to put any more money into buying a new infertility book. I just felt like the author was very negative toward the infertility specialist. Its a total "bash my doctor book- read all medical journals ever written because your just a guinea pig". Not the type of positive material I want in my home. If I could return it I would! I think I'll donate it to the wood stove this winter. It was too long it didn't keep my interest. I am undergoing infertility treatment and it just didn't seem very helpful!!! I mean lady quit whining about your mothers infertility treatment~ the doctors did the best they knew at the time and you are the miracle from there hard work!