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Ellen Mitchell (Author), Rita Volpe (Author), Ariella Long (Author), Phyllis Levine (Author), Madeline Perri Kasden (Author), Barbara Goldstein (Author), Barbara Eisenberg (Author), Lorenza Colletti (Author), Audrey Cohen (Author), Carol Barkin (Author)
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March 3, 2009
Meant to comfort and give direction to bereaved parents, Beyond Tears is written by nine mothers who have each lost a child.  This revised edition includes a new chapter written from the perspective of surviving siblings.
The death of a child is that unimaginable loss no parent ever expects to face. In Beyond Tears, nine mothers share their individual stories of how to survive in the darkest hour. They candidly share with other bereaved parents what to expect in the first year and long beyond:
*Harmonious relationships can become strained
*There is a new definition of what one considers "normal"
*The question "how many children do you have?" can be devastating
*Mothers and fathers mourn and cope differently
*Surviving siblings grieve and suffer as well
*There simply is no answer to the question "why?"
This sharing in itself is a catharsis and because each of these mothers lost her child at least seven years ago, she is in a unique position to provide perspective on what newly bereaved parents can expect to feel. The mothers of Beyond Tears offer reassurance that the clouds of grief do lessen with time and that grieving parents will find a way to live, and even laugh again.

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Each of the nine mothers who contributes to this short but eloquent volume lost a child who was in his or her teens or 20s, just beginning to fulfill the promise of their brief lives. The mothers found solace by coming together and sharing their pain: as Rita Volpe writes in an opening poem, "Together we have found new ways to live and love and remember the life." Here they share what they've learned for other parents experiencing a similar tragedy, offering concrete advice and emotional reassurance (despite what the culture tells us, there is no closure, writes Cohen in her introduction-but there is a chance to enjoy life again). These bereaved mothers discuss frankly the force of their rage and guilt; the impact of the loss of a child on their marriages (their inability to have sexual relations, the difficulty of coming out of their own pain enough to acknowledge that of their husbands); and their ways of coping. Bereaved parents will find comfort, sympathy and support in this powerful, honest sharing of one of life's most painful experiences.
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“[An] eloquent volume… Bereaved parents will find comfort, sympathy and support in this powerful, honest sharing of one of life's most painful experiences.” —Publishers Weekly

“The thoughts and feelings related here are incredibly honest and courageous and would greatly assist any parent who has lost a child and feels alone.  Highly recommended.” —Library Journal (starred review)

“[Beyond Tears] lets readers know that there are folks out there who have been in their shoes, felt their feelings and learned to live life again.” —The Plain Dealer (Cleveland)

 

 


Product Details

  • Paperback: 208 pages
  • Publisher: St. Martin's Griffin; Revised & enlarged edition (March 3, 2009)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0312545193
  • ISBN-13: 978-0312545192
  • Product Dimensions: 8.1 x 5.6 x 0.6 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 6.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (41 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #59,788 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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48 of 48 people found the following review helpful
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Since my son was killed in an auto accident I read every book I could looking for help. I I got more help from this book than any other...It was a like a lifeline. After reading it I bought an additional copy which I actually cut up and left parts around my home for reassurance and comfort. When someone asks me what can they do for a friend who has lost a child, I recommend this book. Since it is written by nine mothers (and nine fathers) who each have a different perspective and different way their child died, this is a book for every bereaved parent, but it is also a book that should be read by everyone. The loss of a child is a loss like no other and this book is a guide for family, friends and professionals offering insight and understanding and an inside unobstructed view into the real world of the bereaved parent.
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18 of 18 people found the following review helpful
the most horrific loss July 16, 2006
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This book connects across the gulf of emptiness and loss that bereaved parents are intimately familiar with. It seems to speak the language, and address the pains that those who have not grieved a lost child can only fathom.

It is also offers hope for those who are new to this grief and describes the different way of living that now becomes life.

I recommend this book for anyone who has lost a child, or knows somwone who has. As a therapist who works with grieving parents, I can attest to the help Beyond Tears continues to bring with each additional reading.
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17 of 17 people found the following review helpful
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Candid and compelling

I am also a bereaved mother. These nine women have bared their most innermost feelings in this honest and powerful book. It is the best book I have read, (and reread), on this subject. I highly recommend it to not only to all bereaved parents, but family, friends and professionals who care enough to acquire some insight into what life is really like after losing a child. They have bravely shared their hearts and bared their souls in order to give others hope.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
Beyond Tears
Wonderful, revealing stories everyone should read who knows someone who has had a child, or spouse die. I enjoyed it so much, I ordered more to give to friends.
Published 8 months ago by Donald Watson
A perfect gift for a difficult occasion
Unfortunately, I have had more than one opportunity to send this book to friends who have lost children. Read more
Published 14 months ago by Jona
Not going crazy
This book has been a tremendous affirmation of my sanity in grief when friends are expecting a grieving parent to "get over it." There is no "getting over it. Read more
Published 15 months ago by Rosemarie S. Perry
tragedy is a very personal journey. no right or wrong path
The terrible tragedies described in beyond tears are powerful guides on a journey through the torment and rebuilding that is borne from the death of a child. Read more
Published 17 months ago by cak
Beyond Tears :Living After Losing a Child, Revised Edition
I have read several books since I just lost my son a few months ago, I was very disappointed in this book, for several reasons, it gives no hope or inspiration, it is very... Read more
Published 22 months ago by DMR
Beyond Tears
Was a well written book about the real suffering parents endure after the lose of a child. Created positive hope for the future for other parents.
Published on February 1, 2010 by Dorothy A. Musarelli
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Published on December 17, 2009 by J. Spell
Not a book to cheer you up but....
It's a read to help you find a roadmap of your own. I found that taking 9 different viewpoints was extremely validating. Read more
Published on June 10, 2009 by Joy Costa
EXTREMELY HELPFUL
This book has been very helpful in coping with the loss of my 21-year-old son in February 2009. It pinpoints the emotions that are so hard to describe to the outside world and... Read more
Published on April 14, 2009 by CAROL BEUSCHLEIN
Not what I expected
I was really looking forward to reading this book after I lost my only child. I have to say that I was a bit disappointed at the negativity portrayed in this book. Read more
Published on April 3, 2009 by Jacqueline Vaux
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