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The Big Book Of NLP Techniques: 200+ Patterns & Strategies of Neuro Linguistic Programming

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When you read this book, you can discover many practical techniques that you will not find under the single roof of another nlp book. I imagine you would have to buy several different books to match the content of this one.

I wondered in buying this book if it would be possible to use it for training purposes, or at least use some of it in training. What I would recommend would be a spiral bound version for ease of use.

Reading through it gradually I have learned many things I did not know.
For example when I learned nlp I was taught the three perceptual positions of nlp.

1. Associated - subjective. Seeing hearing and feeling with your own VAK.
2. Dissociated - Seeing yourself in the picture. Like watching a movie of yourself jumping in a lake rather than jumping in a lake.
3. Other person position. What would you do if you were in another person's shoes?

This book offers two more perceptual positions, although opinions tend to differ once you move beyond the basic 3.

In addition it offers many intriguing techniques you may never have heard of, such as falling in love pattern, resolving internal conflicts, loving yourself pattern, assertiveness installation, the excuse blowout pattern, circle of excellence, forgiveness pattern, the Godiva chocolate pattern, and Erickson's 55 hypnotic phrases to name a few.

If you are new to nlp, and not yet ready for something this comprehensive I recommend Bandler's "Get the Life you Want," and/or "Sourcebook of Magic" by L Michael Hall, which has 77 patterns. Then, as you get more experienced, and start working with people, you can run with this book, having learned to walk with the others.

Hope this was useful.

I have not completely read this book yet (it is a painful experience so I have to do it in small chunks) so I will update this review in the future.

Firstly, the title would be more accurate if it were "A Big LIST of NLP Techniques", though, in fact, it is a BIG BOOK. The most useful part of the book is the Table of Contents. After that, it is a crap shoot.

Mr. Vaknin is obviously not a native speaker of English and that might not be a problem were this an audio book. But since it is written, the glaring problems with usage are troubling. Consider that this is a book primarily about LANGUAGE and so it is crucial that the LANGUAGE be precise. It is anything but. One can often find a dozen or more usage problems on a single page. From simple things such as "worst" when "worse" was intended to entire sections that read like word salad.

The worsT example I have come across could not have been worsE if Mr. Vaknin had tried to parody Erickson's "word salad". It comes in the chapter titled "Erickson's 55 Hypnotic Phrases". I have seen videos of Erickson and heard tapes of him working. The man spoke English ... I am sure of it. But what is presented, between quotation marks, is anything but English so I have to doubt that Erickson actually said them. And, since is no reference given to the work of Erickson in which these may be found, how can I check? (In fact, I have seen almost no references so far ... only a general bibliography.) Examples: "... it might be a way that meets your needs, when ..." or "How much curious could you be if you'd know that ...". And I really don't consider: "With your permission..." to be a hypnotic pattern, any more than "good morning" would be. And this illustrates another problem ... puffing. The book is entitled "The Big Book ..." and touts "200+ Patterns". I suspect that after I have read the entire book I will find that many of these "patterns" are superfluous or redundant and largely serve only to make the book seem to be an encyclopedia.

As for simple readability and useful content, I am finding many problems. In the section on "Well Defined Outcomes" we can read this:

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What is the difference between a goal and an outcome?

Goals can go a long way in helping you achieve excellence. Your goal may be to have a great time at a party, or become a billionaire within three years. There are many different kinds of goals.

Put your mind into that outcome as if you have achieved it, and open your thinking to means of improving that outcome. The time to rework your outcomes comes before you start investing a lot of resources. The way to align with your highest goals is to stay flexible about your outcome; to rework the outcome as needed; to shape the outcome into something even better. Now you are developing one of the hallmarks of NLP: ecology; where all parts of you agree with the outcome; where your desires, your values and your needs are all aligned into one powerful direction.
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Now, after having read that, go back to the question it was to answer: "What is the difference between a goal and an outcome?" Nowhere in that pile of words is that question even addressed! He says that goals go a long way to help you achieve excellence. He says that there are different kinds of goals. [Then does not list or describe them, though I expected some analysis after that tease.] Then he stops in mid stride and talks about "outcomes" ... with nothing connecting that term to "goals". Nowhere does he say anything like: "Goals are X, but Outcomes are Y." He does not define either goals or outcomes ... let alone distinguish between them... which is what he said he was going to do. So far most of what I have read of this book is like this.

As I said, I have not read the whole book yet and I will update this later when I have. For the moment I want to alert people that they might be wasting their money if what they expect is anything more than a list of NLP patterns mixed in with other things little of which seems to be comprehensible. It would not be as bad as it is if he at least provided references. Then if you read something that sounded as though it might be useful if you could only understand it, you could look it up at the source.

The book is full of useful techniques. However, it is not well-written. Needs a good proofreader and/or editor.

I got this book for Christmas and I was absolutely stunned. It has no fluff just like in the description and it was surprisingly easy to understand. It gives you step by step instructions on how to do the pattern and tells you what the pattern is supposed to accomplish. It even seems to go from fundamental to more advanced. It is very helpful and has helped me achieve some levels of nlp that I though I couldn't reach for a while. Great book.

This book has some useful information in it, but I wished I'd never bought it because finding what you want is a nightmare. I just spend 10 minutes looking for some info and eventually gave up. As a life coach and NLP master practitioner I often need information quickly and this book (unless you get really lucky) cannot deliver that.

If you are going to read it from cover to cover, fine. If you want it as a reference work, forget it.

If you're studying NLP, this is a great reference book. There are a lot of books on history and theory which is necessary to get the full range of what NLP is. But this book is the "nuts and bolts" of NLP techniques.
It's a good buy and I recommend it to my buddies in the NLP community.
The only think I wish it had were flash cards!

First of all, I should say that the book does full justice to the name it has been given. It does indeed cover almost all of the important patterns in NLP, although the author, in all humility, has disclaimed the book to be a bible.

A greater surprise that I had, was to find that the book is not just a loose collection of patterns, but that the patterns have been very logically and systematically arranged, starting from the basic concepts of NLP, then moving on to the basic patterns and thereafter moving on to more advanced patterns. Even the big guns of NLP like Core Transformation, aligning perceptual positions, re-imprinting etc can be found very clearly as well as concisely explained. The author has also explained modelling as well as the basic modelling method. This makes the book not only useful to begining practitioners and aspiring practitioners, but also to the more experienced NLP practitioners. I think there would never come a time when I won't need the book, as long as I am using NLP in my own life, as well as helping other people change their lives for the better. In and through the pages, one cannot fail to see how much of hard work the author has put into, in learning as well as mastering the patterns. The author has identified most of the glitches and difficulties one may encounter when one tries to practice the patterns.

Any pattern, which can be too much for a beginner to practice alone, or might require expert help, the author mentions that up front. Every word that can be found in the book has been very thoughtfully written, one can find little or no fluff that one usually finds in many other books. Another notable feature is that every pattern begins by mentioning who all deserve the credits for the creation of the pattern.

The author of the book is someone who has an excellent credibility, in-depth knowledge and extensive therapeutic experience in the field of NLP and Hypnotherapy. And this book is the outcome of his own personal experiences with trying out the patterns over the years. This book is definitely a must-read. Any one who is serious about practicing NLP should own this book.

A useful book for those, who already know the drill... must have finished at least one organised trainging.

Not for begginers, though.

The book is very informative. It provides a lots of techniques to learn about. However, I think that the instructions to practice the skills should be a bit more detailed, with some practical examples.

The book contains some useful content but I find that it lacks an overall structure as well as a good table of content to reflect it. Further, it would benefit from more rigour in the theoretical background behind the exercises which is often absent. I'm wondering if the book as been reviewed at all by an editor as the quality of the language is poor and with frequent grammatical and spelling mistakes. I just realized that the book has been self-published and it shows.

Other example of the lack of professional editing includes tasteless and even sexist jokes such as:
- about the `size' submodality - "Size matters! Don't believe the girl who says it isn't. If she can't see it..."
- about the `change of focus' submodality - "They spoke in words that only they make clear meaning of (you know, women are excellent in that skill - and luckily for all of us, they use it well to educate their men)"
This is just two of countless examples of tasteless and irrelevant `jokes'. How can this be in a NLP training book? A book that is meant to be used by professionals?

I wish I could be more positive about it but I can't, not after paying 70$ for it.