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Big Girls Don't Cry: The Election that Changed Everything for American Women [Paperback]

Rebecca Traister
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Book Description

June 7, 2011
Big Girls Don’t Cry offers a startling appraisal of the 2008 presidential campaign and brilliantly demonstrates that it was transformative for American women and for the nation. The campaign for the presidency reopened some of the most fraught American conversations—about gender, race and generational difference, about sexism on the left and feminism on the right—difficult discussions that had been left unfinished but that are crucial to further perfecting our union.

Throughout the book, Traister weaves in her own experience as a thirtysomething feminist sorting through all the events and media coverage—vacillating between Hillary Clinton and Barack Obama and forced to face tough questions about her own feminism, the women’s movement, race and the different generational perspectives of women working toward political parity. Electrifying, incisive and highly entertaining, Big Girls Don’t Cry offers an enduring portrait of dramatic cultural and political shifts brought about by this most historic of American contests.


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"A passionate, visionary and very personal account.” (New York Times Book Review)

“Superb.... Big Girls Don’t Cry is much more than an assemblage of these type of ‘boys on the bus’ campaign anecdotes. As anyone who’s followed Traister’s sharp and lively essays in Salon knows, her particular ‘beat’ is gender. What she does here is tease out the cultural narratives that came to wield so much power during the [2008 presidential] campaign and, finally, in the voting booth.... There’s so much…to be learned and argued over in Big Girls Don’t Cry…. Girls, these days, can not only run for president; they can also brilliantly analyze presidential campaigns, too.” (Maureen Corrigan NPR’s Fresh Air)

“I ended up admiring Traister and loving her book. In its best parts, it is a raw and brave memoir of a journalist who discovered that all is not well for women in America, and a description of how she and other young women are laying claim to their rightful place in the fight. . . . Such a youthful embrace of the women’s work yet to be done is exhilarating—for her generation and for mine.” (Connie Schultz The Washington Post)

“Traister's book masterfully reminds us that we have just lived through a historic moment when a woman, no matter how flawed she was, ‘came within spitting distance,’ of a nomination for president.” (Slate.com)

“Rebecca Traister is the most brilliant voice on feminism in this country. I was totally caught up in Big Girls Don’t Cry from the first page, and couldn't believe how much Ms. Traister captured and illuminated a story with which I had thought I was so well versed: the 2008 election. She told it as if for the first time.” (Anne Lamott, author of Bird by Bird)

“Traister is a clear-eyed, whip-smart observer of the political scene, alert to the resurgence of identity politics as well as the recrudescence of feminism that marked the most recent presidential campaign. She has fashioned a remarkably engrossing page-turner of a cultural narrative, one which features outsize characters and unpredictable plot twists. Big Girls Don't Cry is a report on the 2008 election but more importantly it is a report on the way we think now. If you want to understand where we are going as an electoral entity—why Sarah Palin is the folk heroine du jour and why Michelle Obama has domesticated her free-thinking persona—read this book.” (Daphne Merkin, novelist and critic)

“The startling intelligence and graceful prose of Rebecca Traister’s coverage of American cultural politics has been one of journalism’s best kept secrets during the past decade. With Big Girls Don’t Cry, she claims her place as heir to the tradition of Mary McCarthy and Joan Didion as she excavates the tectonic changes that lurked below the surface of most election reporting and illuminates events in a manner that will surprise political junkies and casual observers alike.” (Eric Alterman, author of Why We’re Liberals)

“In this riveting account of the 2008 election, Rebecca Traister negotiates the shoals of race and gender with exceptional grace and skill and establishes herself as one of the major younger journalists working today.” (Katha Pollitt, poet, essayist, and columnist for The Nation)

“Rebecca Traister’s lively, insightful narrative discloses an under-reported layer of the 2008 presidential campaign—and in so doing makes the subject fresh and vital again. An important and disquieting book, but also a pleasure to read.” (Robert Draper, author of Dead Certain)

“I didn't know what I didn't know about the 2008 election until reading Rebecca Traister’s smart, entertaining take on it. Well-researched, well-written, provocative, and insightful, BGDC is a high-spirited salute to feminism in its many forms.” (Curtis Sittenfeld, author of American Wife)

About the Author

Rebecca Traister is senior writer for Salon, where she has written about women in politics, media, and entertainment since 2003, and where she covered the 2008 presidential campaign from a feminist perspective. She has also written for Elle, the Nation, the New York Observer, Vogue and the New York Times, among other publications. She lives in Brooklyn with her husband.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 352 pages
  • Publisher: Free Press; Reprint edition (June 7, 2011)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 143915029X
  • ISBN-13: 978-1439150290
  • Product Dimensions: 1 x 5.5 x 8.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 11.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (19 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #414,973 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Traister covers the comedy angle especially well. takingadayoff  |  7 reviewers made a similar statement
For those of us who were actively involved in the 2008 election, this book is a must read. Lucy Stone  |  8 reviewers made a similar statement
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37 of 40 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Big Girls Do Cry September 14, 2010
Format:Hardcover|Amazon Verified Purchase
For those of us who were actively involved in the 2008 election, this book is a must read. One may not agree with Ms Traister's take on it but will marvel at her wit and unique insight, especially when speaking of the immense pressure felt uniquely by woman. As someone who is still fairly "bitter" about what happened to the first extraordinarily qualified woman to run for President, I laughed, cried and fumed as I turned the page. From "You're nice enough" to a "thrill running up my leg" comments and the inept Clinton campaign management, my personal memories were jarred and reawakened reminding me that perhaps we haven't come that long a way baby.
As one who was forever changed by the election, I look forward to the discussion which should be started by this book. Unfortunately, as a woman, this book by Rebecca Traister might not receive the same hoopla by the media that accompanied "Game Change" as I fear- we really haven't come that long a way-hope I'm wrong on this one.
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22 of 23 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars You've Come a Long Way, Sweetie September 17, 2010
Format:Kindle Edition
Presidential campaigns have always been one part spectator sport and one part democracy in action. Participate if you want, but don't expect anything to change. But 2008 took more out of us than previous campaigns. It was exhausting on a whole new level. Even the stoics among us were in such a weakened condition by election day that we were all crying, with joy that America had elected a black president, with frustration that so many things had been said and done that could never be taken back, with relief that the marathon was over.

Maybe I'm a glutton for punishment, but I have already read a couple of the behind-the-scenes accounts of the election (Game Change: Obama and the Clintons, McCain and Palin, and the Race of a Lifetime, Renegade: The Making of a President), which were interesting, but ultimately forgettable. Reading Big Girls Don't Cry brought back the most infuriating moments of the year leading up to the election. This isn't the just story of the candidates, it's the story of how the 2008 campaign brought out the still-raw feelings of the women's movement. It's about how on one hand, women are more influential and powerful than we have ever been, but on the other hand, women hold only about 17% of the seats in the House and Senate.

Rebecca Traister recounts that many of her thirty-ish friends who assumed their lefty boyfriends were progressive, found them to be about as traditional as their grandfathers when it came to women's issues. It was a bit unsettling to read that Obama has a habit of calling women reporters "sweetie." Even if you weren't supporting Hillary Clinton for president, it was disappointing and yet unsurprising to see the Hillary Nutcracker being advertised everywhere, even in the Funny Times, a left wing humor magazine.

Big Girls Don't Cry goes into fascinating detail about the Clinton campaign, especially the press coverage, which was different that year because so many women were in a position to report on a woman running for her party's nomination. Traister also dissects the coverage of Sarah Palin, as well as that of Michelle Obama. She notes how many women were promoted to cover these women, making the presence of a woman in the anchor's seat a media event for Katie Couric, old news when Diane Sawyer and Gwen Ifill and Christiane Amanpour became anchors.

Women comedians were big news too, as they shaped the way we looked at the candidates. Who can forget Tina Fey, Amy Poehler, and Samantha Bee? Traister covers the comedy angle especially well. I appreciated catching up with the jokes and bits that I missed at the time. One of my favorites (and apparently a favorite of Traister's, since she mentions it twice) is the line superdelegate Donna Brazile cracked to Stephen Colbert - "Look, I'm a woman, so I like Hillary. I'm black, I like Obama. But I'm also grumpy, so I like John McCain."
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15 of 16 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars I'm not prejudiced but . . . October 18, 2010
Format:Hardcover|Amazon Verified Purchase
A riveting recap of the full-of-surprises 2008 election, including the inexplicably harsh treatment Hillary Clinton received from even the liberal media, especially the boys at MSNBC.
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I am interested in political issues and especially those that dovetail with women's issues, so this is a good fit for what I like.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Very interesting take on women in and around politics
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I found the book well written and the topic fascinating. I like the complexity it brought out and how the election fits in the progress towards cultural change.
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5.0 out of 5 stars You Go Girl... Ehhhh... Girls (A Male Perspective)
Ms. Traister's part memoir, part campaign analysis is a very astute, level-headed observation of what occurred during the 2008 Presidential campaign. Read more
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1.0 out of 5 stars Why is Kindle more expensive than print?
One of the reasons I bought my Kindle was because Amazon.com advertised that ebooks are cheaper than print ones. And why not? They are digital! Read more
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5.0 out of 5 stars Hits the nail on the head
I bought Rebecca Traister's book after being a longtime fan of her work on Salon, particularly the articles she wrote for the now defunct Broadsheet. Read more
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