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Big Red Lollipop

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Yeah, I have a little sister. Have since I was six. And like most older siblings I had the usual older sis/younger sis relationship with her you might imagine. We older siblings get a lot of innate perks, being the first and all, but when you're a kid you have a tendency to only notice the problems. Little sisters want to go everywhere with their older sibs. That's just the nature of the game. What author Rukhsana Khan has done with her newest picture book "Big Red Lollipop" is tell a new story of little sis/big sis woes with a twist that'll knock young readers' socks off. It doesn't matter if a kid is an older sibling, younger sibling, or only child. This book packs a wallop, in part because of the art of Sophie Blackall, and in part because Khan has given us one of the best stories about forgiveness I've read in a very long time.

What a nightmare! When Rubina ran home one day to tell her mother than she was invited to a birthday party, she couldn't believe it when her Ami told her she had to make sure her little sister Sana was invited too. And not only does her little sister pitch a fit when she doesn't win all the games at that party, but she eats all the candy in her goody bag right away. Rubina's a more patient type. She saves her own big red lollipop on the top shelf of the fridge so that she'll be able to eat it first thing the next day. Imagine her horror then when Sana eats HER lollipop too! And her mother doesn't even take Rubina's side! A couple years later, Sana gets invited to a birthday party of her own and is shocked when her mother says she has to bring HER younger sister Maryam along. Rubina could say nothing and let Sana get what's coming to her, but instead she tells their Ami to let Sana go by herself. Ami agrees. After the party, Sana gives Rubina the big green lollipop she got as a gift at the party. "After that we're friends."

Part of what I love about this book is how it manages to come up with a new universal truth; No matter what country, culture, religion, or background you are from, there is one thing on which we can all agree: little sisters are annoying. Rubina may be Pakistani-Canadian, but this story is a perfect melding of culture clash and something that could happen to anyone, regardless of where they're from. In this particular case Rubina's Ami insists on Sana accompanying her older sister to a birthday party, but there are plenty of parents here in America from other races and religions that would insist on the very same thing. And the outcome, let's face it, might be exactly the same as what you find here. The difference is only in the details.

On a more basic level, I was also keen on how Khan constructed the story. She could have begun by wasting time showing Rubina receiving her invitation at school. Instead, the first line of the book is, "I'm so excited I run all the way home from school." This allows Rubina to tell both her mother and the reader the news about her birthday party invitation at the same time. I like how information is conveyed here. I also like how well Khan is able to show that time has passed without saying something as rote as "three years later". Rubina gives a short "I don't get any invitations for a really long time", and we later see the girls older thanks to this line and thanks to Blackall's pictures. It's a wonderful melding of image and text telling a single tale.

Artist Sophie Blackall has written her own fair share of picture books in her time. In a way, she cut her teeth on inter-girl arguments and friendships when she illustrated the "Ivy & Bean" series for Annie Barrows. Here, she places most of her characters against a white background, allowing their expressions to really pop off the page. You have the distinct impression that Blackall knows from whence she illustrates too. There's something about little Sana crying about not being able to go to the birthday party with Rubina that looks calculated. I think it's the fact that her left eye is closed, while the right one looks sneakily over at her older sis. And look at that last picture of the two girls with their arms around one another. That, combined with the sentence, "After that we're friends" just hits me where it hurts. Sana is looking at the viewer. Rubina is looking over at the little sister that has unexpectedly made amends after all those years.

The attention to detail within the pages is also remarkable. I love the Formica dining room table where the girls color and do their homework while Ami types on her laptop. It grounds the book in the present, which I really appreciate. I love the sheer variety of colors and patterns on the clothes of the characters and the fancy borders around cutaway images. Personally, I'm convinced that the first page of the book is an unconscious homage to the Sophie Blackall cover of Newbery winner Rebecca Stead's book "When You Reach Me". Something about the maplike quality of it.

When it comes down to it, this is a book about grace. Self-sacrifice is never felt more keenly by a child than when a story speaks on their level about something they understand. I could read a kid parable after parable about forgiveness and not make so much as a dent in their scaly little brains. But tell them a story about an older sister being wronged by her younger sibling and then going out of her way, in spite of her anger, to keep that same sister from experiencing a similar fate... THAT hits home. Hear that? That is the sound of thousands of tiny jaws plummeting downwards after getting to the end of this tale. It's their little minds trying to grasp the concept of not taking an eye for an eye or, in this case, a lollipop for a lollipop. And I won't blame you a jot if you tear up just a little bit at the end of this book.

I was going to sum all this up by saying that kids like comeuppance stories, but who am I kidding? Adults, for crying out loud, like comeuppance stories. They like to see the "villain" of a piece get a taste of their own medicine. There are hundreds of stories out there like that. Far rarer is the story that believably shows one character letting another one off the hook for no reason other than the fact that it's the right thing to do. And remarkably, Khan does it without plunging into some kind of wild didacticism. This story is different. Show don't tell, they say. Khan shows. The results are telling. One of my favorite picture books of the year.

Ages 4-8.

Rubina was sooooo excited that she had been invited to a birthday party she ran all the way home from school to tell her Ami about it. She had the invitation in her hand and her eyes glistened when her Ami asked, "What's a birthday party?" Ami listened as she fed their youngest sister, Maryam. Rubina's sister, Sana, started to wail and pout, "I wanna go too!" For goodness sake, this was NOT something you took your little sister to. It was embarrassing, but she was just going to have to call Sally up and ask if the little pest could go.

It was an embarrassment, a total one. Sana pitched a fit when she fell down when they were playing musical chairs and had to "win all the games." They did get some nice little party favors, including a big red lollipop. Rubina was going to save hers for later, but her sister "didn't know how to make things last." She was going to savor hers in the morning, but when she got up you know who had eaten it down to a little triangle. "SANA!" Needless to say, Rubina wasn't going to be a party girl for a long time because she was stuck with her little sister. Then one day Sana came home with an invitation. Her eyes glistened as she asked Ami if she could go. All of a sudden Maryam began to scream, "I wanna go to!" Waaaaaaaah!

This is an adorable story of sibling rivalry that will not only tickle your youngster's funny bone, but also yours. Anyone who has two or more children will chuckle when the girls spat, demanding that they have been direly wronged by her sister. The artwork captures the little nuances of jealousy, anger, frustration, and ultimately the love shared by the girls. If you've ever experienced the "crisis" of children disagreeing with each another, you'll get a big kick out of Rubina, Sana, and Maryam!

Rukhsana Kahn is one of those rare, gifted storytellers. Khan won a Golden Kite Award for the text of The Big Red Lollipop at the Society of Childrens Book Writers and Illustrators (SCBWI) conference in August. Khan gave one of the most inspiring and entertaining speeches by telling her real-life story of sibling rivalry and cultural differences, and how she brought this winning story to life. Blackall's illustrations beautifully compliment and capture the many emotions in the story. This is a funny book about sibling rivalry that kids will relate to. Provides for good dialogue opportunities between parent and child.

Rubina races home after school, with her first birthday party invitation. Her mother asks Rubina, "What is a birthday party?" Rubina explains that "it's when they celebrate the day they are born." There is cake and ice cream, games and toys. In the background her little sister Sana, screams that she wants to go. Not understanding the custom, her mother tells Rubina she can go if she takes her little sister. They attend the party and leave with a gift bag and a Big Red Lollipop. Sana eats her lollipop on the way home, but Rubina carefully saves lollipop on top of the refrigerator for the next morning. Guess who spots the lollipop the next morning? Because Rubina takes Sana, shedoesn't get any invitations to birthday parties for a long time. Then one day Sana runs home from school with an invitation to a birthday party and is told that she must take her little sister Maryam. Rubina has a decision to make. This is a charming book that takes some unexpected twists and turns. It also introduces cultural differences to children. I have added this book to my book shelf.

Big Red Lollipop
This is well written book with very good illustrations.
Coming from a similar background of Asian family, I could relate to the story.
My 3 year old grand-daughter absolutely loves it, specially when her name is placed for the main character.
We first brought the book home from our library, but then decided to buy a copy for her, and must have read it at least 50 times or more. She still gets mesmerized with the story and loves to pick this book for our reading time together.

Rubina rushes home, eager to attend her first birthday party, only to find out that she must bring her younger sister, Sana. With the next party invitation, Rubina and Sana, as well as their younger sister, Maryam, learn how to balance the privilege of a party invitation with sisterhood, finding that friends, rather than sisters, should attend. This story of sisters and friendships offers a nice chance for children ages 4 to 7 to explore different cultures and relationships.

How embarrassing for Rubina she has been invited to a birthday party and is suddenly embarrassed at the thought of having to bring her little sister with her. Her mother, Ami, does not quite understand the American tradition of not bringing your sister to a party and informs Rubina that if Sana cannot go, neither can she.

In a "what comes around, goes around" theme, Sana is invited to a party and she must take her younger sister. How will this unfold and what lessons will be learned by both Rubina and Sana?

Designed for Reading level: Ages 4 and up, the overall theme of sibling rivalry is well covered, but there will still need to be some discussion on sharing and respect for others and their things, and how best to handle situations that benefit all involved.

I bought this book for my daughter and she loves for me to read it to her often. Great story about sisters and a family from another culture learning about how Americans celebrate birthday's.