I knew Darron as Elder Smith in Michigan. We were both missionaries in the Saginaw area at the same time. He was an awesome missionary, and I was frequently impressed with him and how he brought his preexisting talents into play (including his martial arts expertise) to forward the word of God one way or another. I remember well that he had an exceptional way with people and was a perfect example of a true LDS Saint in my opinion.
Sadly for me, it seemed he did not think so highly of me. I was shocked and really honestly confused when he called me a racist to my face. I never understood what I had done or said or how I acted, if I had acted any differently around him than anyone else, to be accused of such a repugnant title. I've thought about that many many times since then (25 years ago) as the description hurt me very much and has always been so polar opposite to how anyone else has described me before then, and since, regardless of their race/ethic/religion/politics. I am still quite sorry that I gave him that impression.
I can only conclude that others have probably given him that impression throughout his life despite (like me) having also held him in the highest regard as a human being and a child of God, bar none.
That said, I am so grateful that his testimony in the gospel is still so firm. It has also meant so much to me, and of course that does not include the mormon-folklore promoted by Alvin R Dyer or Mark E Petersen or others ... falsehoods that are not in harmony with revelations through Joseph Smith. I hope someday when we slough off this mortal shell that he can look upon my bared soul and see that whatever he felt earned me that title when he and I were acquainted is not, will not, be there in any way. I hope he is similarly surprised at that great reckoning day when he sees the hearts of others he's so effortlessly labeled as racist in the past.
In the meantime I applaud his excellent effort to set at right many of these wrongs ... the church needs it and I deeply agree with much of what he says here and have made similar efforts myself online and in quorum meetings and such - not because of what Elder Smith called me but because I find racism repugnant.
Nobody can control how a reader or listener (be it Darron Smith or anyone else) chooses to interpret another one's words. The fact is that there are racists in our church, and the rest of us should correct them vehemently, and do our best when speaking or doing to be sensitive, and much more effort needs to be made by LDS leadership in that respect. The church does also need to come out and admit that wrongs have been done, and that what's most important is that the church comes clean in matters where some of it's leaders said racist and claimed false teachings while others who knew better looked the other way and allowed folklore to muddy up the true and fair nature of the revealed gospel.
There is much to learn from this about the nature of revelation and the priesthood through the study of these things ... and much good can be done by having LDS leaders explain these things to the membership rather than saying "that was in the past, let's move on". That might make the media go away, but it doesn't serve justice. It does seem though that for many there is little that can ever be said that will make the current state of affairs right enough. And that is understandable. It still needs to be done, and I suspect it will be ... it will take time ... I hope not much longer.
I look forward to the day when the church leaders more clearly identify that things like a changing of skin color when Nephites embraced a ferocious lifestyle is not racial (genetic) but the natural, yet foretold, consequence of a sun-basking lifestyle (the relationship is of course intuitively scientifically obvious and God works by the scientific laws of nature than He created). Symbolism is everything (in all churches in fact) which is why Book of Mormon prophets spoke of it as they did, but some of the symbolism of the past simply does not have the proper place today that it did then. That is precisely why we need a prophet and modern day revelation as stated in Amos 3:7. That's what we received in 1978. Now, let's hope our prophet helps right these wrongs more aggressively instead of just saying "let's leave that in the past". The gospel is too great for that to be the end all be all.