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Bonding over Beauty: A Mother-Daughter Beauty Guide to Foster Self-esteem, Confidence, and Trust [Paperback]

Erika Katz
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Book Description

March 1, 2011
Makeup, skin care, shaving, hair color, periods--the tween years are full of landmines for moms.

As the mom of a tween girl, you know what's coming: puberty. As your daughter enters the teen years and exerts her independence, will you suddenly seem out of touch? Will she turn to her friends for advice before coming to you?

The tween years present a golden opportunity for you to start a dialogue and gain your daughter's confidence--to talk to her about the things she cares about and show her they are equally important to you too. How you deal with the sticky ''grown-up'' issues early on will determine the nature of your relationship with your daughter for years to come.

No mom wants to hear, ''Mom, you just don't get me, and you have no idea what I'm going through!'' followed by a door slam. Erika's comprehensive beauty guide on hair, skin, makeup, hair removal, puberty, and more will help you open the doors of communication and give you great bonding activities for you to do with your daughter.

With Bonding over Beauty, you'll have the knowledge and tools to create bonds that will last a lifetime.


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''Are you having a difficult time connecting with your tween or teen daughter? If you feel a little lost on how to talk with her during this difficult time as she goes through puberty, check out a great new book from former child actress and model Erika Katz, who's now a mom in New York City. Bonding Over Beauty offers a down-to-earth guide for moms to help address all the beauty, grooming, hygiene, body issues and questions their daughters have, while also making it fun. Best of all, it offers some great bonding time for mothers and daughters as they paint their nails together or learn to make organic face scrubs from scratch.'' --New York Family Magazine

''I would say that Erika hit the mark with her book and then some. If you have a daughter or know someone with a daughter, this book would be a great thing to have as we try to help our girls make their way through this world we live in.'' --3 P's in a pod

''Containing numerous bonding activities that can ease the difficulties faced by young girls on the road to physical and emotional maturity, the book also lets mothers know the crucial topics they need to address regarding the confusing effects of puberty. From step-by-step recipes for creating inexpensive, at-home body scrubs and acne remedies to advice on how to deal with unwanted body hair and even more unwanted periods, to recommendations for the best and most age appropriate beauty products for girls to use, Bonding over Beauty is an essential read for anyone raising a 'tween girl'' --Pink Lemonade of Life

''I don't think there is anything this book does NOT cover! I even found hair and makeup tips for me! If you have daughters, or your friends/family members do, you need this book! Think of it as a primer to the tween/teen years and as a modern resource! I am NOT saying that we need to emphasize beauty with our daughters, but rather good skin/hair care, proper hygiene, nutrition and exercise, and the realities of being female. The external world WILL put emphasis on these things to your daughter, whether subtle or unavoidable, they are realities that kids face today. Why not be proactive and emphasize the things in this book ALONG with intelligence and making intelligent choices? That's the key--well armed, your daughter can make great decisions and save herself (and you) hours of heartbreak and drama. Isn't that worth it? So go check out this book, you won't be disappointed, and your daughter will thank you! --Bless Their Hearts Mom

''I loved this book because I could relate to a lot of things in it from my own experience and what I am already noticing in my daughter. You may think that from the title it's all about beauty, which you may not be interested in. There is so much more to it...'' --Tiff's Pixie Dust

''The author has produced a helpful guide full of creative ideas for mothers in creating better bonds with their daughters. This book will benefit mothers who have trouble communicating with their tween daughters and who consequently feel out of touch. Written with empathy and love, this book will prove useful in facilitating communication and fusing the important bond that is necessary for a healthy family relationship.'' --ForeWord Magazine

About the Author

Erika Katz was initiated into the beauty industry at the age of three months, when she appeared with her father on the front cover of Babytalk magazine. By the age of thirteen, she had appeared in more than a hundred television commercials and several Hollywood and television films, had been photographed by Richard Avedon, and had modeled for numerous catalogs and national magazines.

After graduating from Dartmouth College with degrees in French and psychology, Erika interned in the beauty department at Seventeen magazine. Using her experience at Seventeen, cosmetology classes, and lessons learned through her extensive work in television and modeling, she created a beauty guide that served as the foundation for Bonding over Beauty.

Erika lives in New York City with her husband and two children. She is involved with NYC-Parents in Action and blogs for her website bondingoverbeauty.com.


Product Details

  • Paperback: 240 pages
  • Publisher: Greenleaf Book Group (March 1, 2011)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1608320987
  • ISBN-13: 978-1608320981
  • Product Dimensions: 8.1 x 0.7 x 5.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (14 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #748,348 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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4.6 out of 5 stars
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4.6 out of 5 stars
It was in that moment that I knew the time I was taking to read a book about beauty had paid off. Natalie Hjelsvold  |  5 reviewers made a similar statement
I have a copy of this book, and found some sections inside very interesting. Shannon  |  1 reviewer made a similar statement
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98 of 109 people found the following review helpful
Format:Paperback
I had high hopes for "Bonding Over Beauty" as the mom of an almost-9 y.o. girl who is starting to show the earliest signs of beginning puberty. The back cover promised a "comprehensive guide on hair, skin, makeup, hair removal, puberty and more" with ideas for "great bonding activities to do with your daughter". As a sorority alumna, I'm certainly aware of how females bond with each other over beauty and grooming. And I remember how lost I felt as a young adolescent being the daughter of a "second-wave" feminist who rejected many traditional primping activities. I wish my mom had helped me learn to do it right instead of my having to figure it out the hard way all on my own.

Ms. Katz is a former child model and actress, and I think this experience has left her very out-of-touch with how many moms feel about the use of makeup, chemical hair procedures, and permanent hair removal treatments by very young girls. It's a bit ironic that I read this book the same week there was a lot of media attention over a provocative spread of a heavily made-up pre-pubescent 10 y.o. model in the French edition of "Vogue". I was expecting discussions of 'tween-appropriate beauty & grooming like the use of lip gloss & tinted moisturizer, curling & flattening irons, shaving, etc. Those things are in the book but so are discussions of using peroxide for full-head bleaching, Japanese hair-straightening (a process the author notes uses formaldehyde), complete makeup application, electrolysis, laser hair removal, and so on. Yikes!

Ms. Katz writes in her afterword that "I want you to be seen like the 'coolest' mom in the world to [your daughter]." This is not something I personally aspire to be. In fact, I'd rather be seen as the "mean" mom who puts her foot down on things that are age-inappropriate no matter what the other moms allow their kids to do. Ms. Katz takes the attitude that "you might as well say 'yes' because even if you say 'no' your daughter will just do it behind your back." This is horrible parenting advice! Limit-setting is very important for 'tweens and teens. Kids may not always obey your rules, but research has shown that permissive parenting dramatically increases the risks of bad outcomes. If you are afraid to say "no" to your 9 y.o. wanting to wear makeup, how on earth are you going to tell her "no" when she's 17 and wants to rent a hotel room after prom?

There's a lot to like about Ms. Katz's book, which is why I decided to give in 3 stars rather than 2. I would recommend it to moms with daughters in the 12-15 y.o. age range.
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9 of 10 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Not just for moms March 1, 2011
By Scott
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This book is not just for moms! As an uncle with tween nieces, I am always looking for new activities for our visits that make the short times we have together fun and valuable. The facial scrubs and aromatherapy advice would all be great to try together--and things they could continue to do with my sister. The book also has a lot of information relating to the changes going on their body that would allow me to be more sensitive to what they're going through and have some advice should they come to me with questions or concerns.

Also as a gay man who is contemplating having children, Ms. Katz' book helps alleviate my anxieties about how I would relate to a daughter over hygiene, hair care, and especially puberty and periods. It always comes down to finding a way to communicate and relate in a way that builds trust. This book is a must have.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Awesome Book! February 22, 2011
Format:Paperback
I picked up a copy of this book following a book signing at Girlie Girlz in Scottsdale, Arizona yesterday, and I must say that it's a parent's bible in the making! As a mother of three girls ranging in age from 7 to 16, there is something in there for each one of them. As a matter of fact, my 13 year old brought the book into school with her today to show her girlfriends.

This book's title just about says it all. However, it is not all about glamour and being beautiful by overloading the make-up. Bonding over Beauty is a book designed to keep your child healthy and beautiful from the inside out. In addition, the book is a comprehensive guide to everything from eating healthy to exercise. The tips are practical and down to earth, and the book's clean and friendly reading style makes it a guide that everyone can refer to over and over again.

Another thing to mention is that it is not just for `tweens and teens! There are recipes in the book that teach you how to make facial masks/body scrubs, etc. at home for pennies! In such a tight fiscal time, I'm sure many people out there would prefer picking up some oatmeal and yogurt for a face mask rather than spending spa prices, and you can do this even with smaller girls - say at a birthday party or a slumber party.

The topics in the book also cover areas that may be awkward for some parents to approach. The author's easygoing tips can aid parents (especially those nervous talking about PMS and hair removal with their girls) in broaching those sensitive and awkward times and in turn help the parent become more approachable with their daughters. I can't think of one parent out there that would feel good seeing their daughter running off to someone else to talk about shaving and periods, etc. This book is a great guide for building that bond between parent and daughter and keeping it strong so the daughter will feel more comfortable speaking to the adult in their home regardless of what age and state of development she is at.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars Bonding comes in unexpected moments
My 11 year old daughter and I have been reading this book together. I love the simple advice on beauty, make up, skin care, nutrition. Read more
Published 19 months ago by Natalie Hjelsvold
5.0 out of 5 stars Must READ for MOMS raising Daughters, and for MOMS who want to CHANGE!
Bonding over Beauty is a book that highlights all the points that we would normally miss. Those slivers of time that are as valuable as the brick on the bottom of the stack. Read more
Published 19 months ago by Tifaine Hash @ThroughMyLense_
5.0 out of 5 stars Great resource for parents!
I will say I was super excited to review this book obviously because I'm a mother of a six year old daughter who is now in school. Read more
Published 19 months ago by Sara A. Strand
4.0 out of 5 stars Great tips but don't forget to...
I thought this book covered every area for a mother and daughter. I love the activity ideas to help bond and create memories. Read more
Published 19 months ago by Apesjoy
5.0 out of 5 stars Bonding over Beauty doesn't disappoint! My Summer *Bible!
A Big Thank You to a friend who sent me her new Favorite book Bonding over Beauty! Although I have two grown sons,,, this book has become My Summer "Bible! Read more
Published 21 months ago by ddfss
5.0 out of 5 stars Please do not listen to bad reviews who claim this book is "bad"
Prudes and people who do not want their children to grow up with a healthy body appearance and attitude will and have posted that they find this book horrible. Read more
Published 21 months ago by A. Wilson
5.0 out of 5 stars A must read!
I just read the most amazing book! It's called Bonding over Beauty. "A Mother-Daughter beauty guide to foster self-esteem, confidence, and trust. Read more
Published 22 months ago by MissEcho83
5.0 out of 5 stars Fun book
I have a copy of this book, and found some sections inside very interesting. As a teen myself, I found some things very helpful and practical. Read more
Published 22 months ago by Shannon
4.0 out of 5 stars Good for girly-girls or cosmetically challenged moms and tweens!
I enjoyed Erika Katz's thoughts on how we should approach changes in beauty ritual (shaving their legs, hair styles etc). Read more
Published 23 months ago by Jennifer Donovan
4.0 out of 5 stars This Book is Wonderful
Erika Katz is serious about helping mothers and daughters bond, and uses the vehicle of "beauty" to create the link. Read more
Published 24 months ago by Ilene L. Dillon
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