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The Borderline Personality Disorder Survival Guide: Everything You Need to Know About Living with BPD [Paperback]

Alex L. Chapman , Kim L. Gratz , Perry D. Hoffman
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Book Description

November 2007

If you or someone you love is struggling with borderline personality disorder (BPD), you need up-to-date, accurate, and accessible information on the problems you’re facing and where you can turn for help. But where do you look? Much of the professional literature on BPD is too technical and confusing to be of much help. And searching the Internet for accurate information can be treacherous, with some sites providing useful information and others giving dangerous advice and misinformation. If you’re living with BPD, this compassionate book offers what you really need: an easy-to-follow road map to guide you through this disorder and its treatment.

This book provides answers to many of the questions you might have about BPD: What is BPD? How long does it last? What other problems co-occur with BPD? Overviews of what we currently know about BPD make up the first section of the book. Later chapters cover several common treatment approaches to BPD: DBT, mentalization-based treatment (MBT), and medication treatments. In the last sections of the book, you’ll learn a range of useful coping skills that can help you manage your emotions, deal with suicidal thoughts, and cope with some of the most distressing symptoms of BPD.

This book has been awarded The Association for Behavioral and Cognitive Therapies Self-Help Seal of Merit — an award bestowed on outstanding self-help books that are consistent with cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) principles and that incorporate scientifically tested strategies for overcoming mental health difficulties. Used alone or in conjunction with therapy, our books offer powerful tools readers can use to jump-start changes in their lives.


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The Borderline Personality Disorder Survival Guide is exactly what its title suggests. Through the use of many rich clinical examples and exacting and intriguing metaphors, Chapman and Gratz take us through the diagnosis and probable causes of BPD, some of the myths about BPD, and possible explanations of the problems that often accompany BPD. They review both psychological and medication treatments and end up with very practical advice on how to deal with suicidal thoughts as well as with situations when control over one's emotions seems tenuous at best. Clearly written and easily read, this book truly is a practical everyday guide not only to surviving but to growing healthier while struggling with BPD.
—Kenneth R Silk, MD, professor of psychiatry and director of the Personality Disorders Program at the University of Michigan Medical School and Health System

From the Publisher

This book offers a complete overview of borderline personality disorder (BPD), its symptoms and treatment, and ways BPD sufferers can navigate their lives with this complicated condition.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 256 pages
  • Publisher: New Harbinger Publications; 1st edition (November 2007)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1572245077
  • ISBN-13: 978-1572245075
  • Product Dimensions: 6 x 0.6 x 9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 12.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (39 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #14,675 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Alexander L. Chapman, PhD, is an assistant professor and registered psychologist in the department of psychology at Simon Fraser University. He is director of the Personality and Emotion Research Laboratory, where he conducts research on self-harm, borderline personality disorder, emotion regulation, and impulsivity. Chapman has published numerous journal articles and book chapters and has given many national and international presentations on borderline personality disorder, dialectical behavior therapy, self-harming and suicidal behavior, and impulsive behavior. In 2007, he received the Young Investigator's Award from the National Education Alliance for Borderline Personality Disorder. In addition, he trains students and professionals to treat clients who self-harm or borderline personality disorder. Chapman is president of the Dialectical Behavior Therapy Centre of Vancouver, a center for the treatment of borderline personality disorder, self-harm, and related problems. He is coauthor of The Borderline Personality Disorder Survival Guide.

Customer Reviews

Easy read, very informative. Artist  |  16 reviewers made a similar statement
After reading this book you will also know what questions to ask your doctor so you get the best care. Rebecca of Amazon  |  5 reviewers made a similar statement
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212 of 219 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars An important, forward-thinking, much welcome book December 18, 2007
Format:Paperback
As someone diagnosed with BPD, I have done a lot of research on the condition, both online and by reading any book written on the subject. Many of those books (except for BPD Demystified)are extremely outdated, even if they're only a few years old. And many of them were disappointedly irresponsible, being quite negative and insisting that the prognosis was always dire and/or perpetuating the huge myth that those diagnosed with BPD are basically manipulative.

I say this because this book is different. It has the latest information on BPD, from what it is, how it may come about, what therapies are out there, if medication helps, and, quite important, speaks about new research on the brain and how this research shows actual physical differences in those with BPD. The book succeeds most in 2 particular ways: (1) In the way it is organized. Well-written chapters, clear headings and subheadings, easy for anyone and everyone to understand, and comprehensive summaries at chapter ends to note the main points. The books is also divided into Parts I and II, to make the focus and direction even clearer. For this alone, it is a book I would recommend to anyone interested in BPD, whether a professional, consumer, family member, friend, student, etc.

And furthermore, (2) The Survival Guide does not take one position and stubbornly adhere to it. It recognizes that there are many differences among those diagnosed with BPD, even as the similarities in how they "match" the criteria kinda puts us all in the same group. Of all the information out there, it presents the most "open" view, meaning that it is informative and hopeful and recognizes that this is a complex condition but that it is indeed treatable. And the authors cite many studies to back up their points.
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46 of 48 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Informative, positive, highly recommend August 3, 2008
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I was preparing for a presentation for NAMI and was asked to help clients, family members, and other professionals understand BPD. I found this to be an important task due to the negative information that is out there on BPD. This book was published just prior to the date of the presentation and I used it as a main source for the presentation and recommended it to all who attended. I also highly recommended it to my consultation team as something they may benefit from reading as well as to recommend for their clients. I found this book to be very informative, describing BPD from the model used within DBT therapy. The book was hopeful and inspiring to me in working with clients with BPD and I hope this book is read by many. I thank the authors for writing a book that is so user friendly. Several of my clients have benefited from this book already!
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39 of 40 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars GREAT BOOK February 28, 2009
By Leslie
Format:Paperback
This book is great for those suffering from BPD! Don't by walking on Egg Shells! It makes those with BPD look like a monster which isn't true! Buy this! Its also great for loved ones who are trying to understand the disorder. High recommended! A keeper! Offers coping skills. A suggestions of treatments that might help as well as self-harm and suicide prevention. Its nice to see your own behavior and how it might be helped because YOU have to be the one to fix it!
*****!
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21 of 23 people found the following review helpful
2.0 out of 5 stars very basic July 4, 2010
By labgirl
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I didn't find any information in this book that was more in-depth than what can be found online at various sites like [...]. All the information seemed "edited" to be politically correct, especially the medication, treatment options, and coping sections. The writing style is a little formal and, to an annoying degree, will ask a question and in the next sentence(s) answer that question, such as "So, what have we learned thus far?"... I would recommend spending your money instead on "Sometimes I Act Crazy: Living with BPD". (Don't let the title scare you away!)
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20 of 22 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Great Book! August 23, 2008
Format:Paperback
I was recently diagnosed with BPD and am just starting to research it and found this book. I looked at a couple others but compared to this one, this one was by far the best. I especially liked the part talking about common myths with BPD, it was very encouraging.
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9 of 9 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent Source of Information August 15, 2009
By Artist
Format:Paperback
Amazing! This book is full of great information on the disorder, diagnosis, treatment, and examples of people struggling with BPD. This is a tricky disorder to find accurate information on, this book is a must have for anyone who is interested in, dealing with, or knows someone who has BPD. I especially appreciate how the author does not push drug treatments and warns about starting a drug treatment as well. Thorough research is presented relating to drug testing trials and effects that prescriptions have one people with BPD. Easy read, very informative.
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars very informative.... September 23, 2008
By e.e.
Format:Paperback|Amazon Verified Purchase
I really like the information provided in this book. It gave a great insight into Borderline Personality Disorder. I think that all in the medical field, including teachers, would benefit from reading this book. Thanks for offering this opportunity in your selection of literature. It was easy to read and understand.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Pt 1 is great, Pt 2 is dated October 22, 2011
By SV
Format:Paperback
Part one of this book is wonderful, because it offers a positive view on bpd that doesn't seem very common. From other sources I had gotten the point of view that people with bpd, or who have bpd traits, are manipulative, terrible people who can't be cured (see ch.2 regarding myths). It is written in a easy to understand format, and not overly wordy and clinical (which I personally would find offputting and boring, but may be a preferable format to others).

This book however points out that people with bpd aren't manipulative, but are dealing with pain using poor coping skills. Basically the writers say that the problem is not that you experience powerful emotions and urges -- you probably can't make the emotions go away -- but you can learn how to cope with them successfully and you (and others you interact with) will suffer less as a result. They even say that it is curable, and once the skills are learned, that unlike depression, there is little likelihood of relapse. They also mentioned that if you have other issues such as depression, or anxiety, etc along with bpd, those usually improve when you learn skills to deal with bpd.

Part 2 of the book gives you an overview of DBT and Mentalization therapies. Later chapters provide information on skills taught in DBT groups on how to cope with painful events or emotions. There is also a discussion on medication, but I skipped over that. The only downside of part two is that the information is over 4 years old (book published in 2007). The organizations and websites provided may be out of date or appear to be defunct at this point (the TARA website has a copyright of 2004 in their footer, for example, and the last event I saw on there was listed in 2008).
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars Good resource
This book is easy to read and understand. A good way to learn about helping those with borderline personality disorder. Read more
Published 15 days ago by R Holt
5.0 out of 5 stars Gregg L. Friedman MD Psychiatrist, Hallandale Beach, FL
The Borderline Personality Disorder Survival Guide does an excellent job explaining this difficult to treat condition. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Julie L. Friedman
4.0 out of 5 stars good book
I purchased this book because I needed to educate myself about BPD. I am a caretaker of a family member who exhibits all the symptoms of this disorder. Read more
Published 1 month ago by elizabeth1
5.0 out of 5 stars Informative
This is the first information that I've researched on BPD that does not label sufferers as manipulators and bad people. Read more
Published 2 months ago by Nefnie
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent Resource on Borderline Personality Disorder!
More and More focus is given on people with personality disorders and how volatile they can be in people's lives. Read more
Published 2 months ago by GHIGGS
5.0 out of 5 stars Very helpful and easy to read!
This book made it easier to understand BPD from a layman's point of view. It also was more positive about outcomes, unlike other material I had seen. Read more
Published 2 months ago by naka
5.0 out of 5 stars Empowering and sensitive
I would recommend this book to people suffering from BPD and those that care for them. It is worth five stars because it is sensitive to those that have BPD and it puts things in... Read more
Published 3 months ago by Sherri-Lynn Gagnon
5.0 out of 5 stars Great
Very helpful and easy for anyone to understand. It helped me better understand myself and my thoughts and emotions. Thanks.
Published 3 months ago by Elisabeth
5.0 out of 5 stars Very clear and helpful
Found this to be an excellent source of valid and understandable information. As someone who has been diagnosed with BPD I recommend it to others with BPD or those who love someone... Read more
Published 4 months ago by pheonagirl
5.0 out of 5 stars Great for crisis reduction
The biggest problems with BPD are understanding and coping with crises. This book effectively addresses both issues. I found it very helpful.
Published 4 months ago by Anita Foster
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