Product Details

• Actors: Jef Gazley M.S. LMFT
• Directors: Russ Wagner
• Format: Color, DVD, NTSC
• Language: English
• Region: Region 1 (U.S. and Canada only. Read more about DVD formats.)
  
• Aspect Ratio: 1.33:1
• Number of discs: 1
• Rated: NR (Not Rated)
• Studio: Asktheinternettherapist.com
• DVD Release Date: March 16, 2002
• Run Time: 31 minutes
• Average Customer Review: 4.4 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (7 customer reviews)
• ASIN: B0006NL2K8
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #236,610 in Movies & TV (See Top 100 in Movies & TV)

Customer Reviews

Most Helpful Customer Reviews

5 of 7 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Learn why most relationships don't work - Lack of Boundaries, February 1, 2005

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William Nelson (Scottsdale, AZ United States) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Boundaries: Stop Getting Abused and Learn Healthy Boundaries (DVD)

Jef's DVD helps explain why boundaries are important for all healthy relationships. I used this information to explain boundaries to my 5 year old and 9 year old children. My kids now understand this concept better than most adults and now are learning to establish boundaries confidently and correctly with each other and their peers. This is not a tape for children, but using it allowed me to teach my kids something I learned very late in life. Lack of boundaries or unrealistic expectations are the cornerstone of failed relatinships. Learning and applying this concept may transform yours.

5.0 out of 5 stars It is ok to say NO, March 26, 2009

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Anonymous (Arizona) - See all my reviews

This review is from: Boundaries: Stop Getting Abused and Learn Healthy Boundaries (DVD)

After having seen several videos from Jef, this is by far my favorite! I have struggled my entire life to please others due to my own self esteem issues. This video has allowed me to recognize where I have not set boundries in the past but how to create them in the future. It has also allowed me the springboard to have these conversations with my pre teen children in order to help prevent this history of repeating with them. As to the comment regarding it was boring, I have the video for educational purposes rather the a Friday night comedy!

5.0 out of 5 stars Like having a therapist in your living room..., March 8, 2009

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CenPhx - See all my reviews

This review is from: Boundaries: Stop Getting Abused and Learn Healthy Boundaries (DVD)

Having watched this DVD, I wanted to leave a review, in part, to respond to the comment that this video is "boring". The video is not a Disney movie with a moral, nor is it a high budget Hollywood production film of meaningless fluff. What is it, is an amazing amount of insight that can teach anyone how to recognize their own inability to set appropriate limits with people around them. The video will help you see how this has negatively affected your life and will teach you how to begin to feel okay about telling other people "no" without feeling guilty. As a person who thought I had conquered whatever it was that had led me into one unhappy or abusive relationship or another, I was not aware that I still had problems setting boundaries. After watching this DVD, I realized I was just avoiding situations where I might have my boundaries overrun. I have started learning the strength to set appropriate limits and feel good about it. Its like having a personal therapy session that you can replay again whenever you may need it.