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The Boy from Baby House 10: From the Nightmare of a Russian Orphanage to a New Life in America

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Just when you think there's no more way to find cruelty in the world, this book comes along. John Lahutsky's story begins when he was Vanya, a child abandoned by an immature mother, at the mercy of Russian orphanages. These orphanages come across as bizarre, like an experiment to see what happens to children deprived of care, let alone human interaction and attention. Sadly, we already know. The children lose their ability to function, get diagnosed as uneducable, and descend into a vicious spiral. They move from the indifference of the Baby House to the horror of the "internat," the insane asylums that resemble concentration camps.

To be fair, the institutional staff are also victims: underpaid and helpless. Raised under Stalin, the director of Vanya's Baby House has never learned to make decisions or take charge.

Vanya demonstrates the psychological construct of resilience. He reaches out to other children and to visiting adults. Reaching out to Sarah Philips turns his life around. Sarah enlistes her husband Alan, a journalist with media access. Sarah and a Russian volunteer, Vika, managed to rescue Vanya from the cycle. One adoption falls through. (This is not a spoiler. When you read the book jacket, you know who finally adopts Vanya.)

After a series of hair-raising adventures, Vanya becomes part of a grass roots foster parent organization. Two Russian women offer to adopt Vanya, but a miracle happens. An American single woman, Paula, adopts Vanya. Paula, a school psychologist with a Russian heritage, turns out to be the perfect "mom." In a moving chapter at the end of the book, John shares his story about living in the Pennsylvania countryside. His resilience and self-protective personality come across even when he talks of choosing a Boy Scout troop.

Author Alan Philips gives co-author credit to Vanya, now known as John. To their credit, the book is written with a simplicity that sets off Vanya's early life. Although I can't imagine anyone reading this book without being moved, the authors maintain an upbeat, unsentimental, matter of fact style. Hannah Arendt's phrase, "the banality of evil," comes to mind as we read about everyone who harms these children, from the "commissions" who condemn them with pseudo-scientific diagnoses to the hospital orderly who insults Vanya's mother.

Several people have started foundations and movements to help, including Sarah Philips. Hopefully publication of this book will trigger some action. We need an organization like Amnesty International to rescue those who languish in prison without ever having been condemned.

No need to go out shopping on Black Friday or Cyber Monday, The Boy from Baby House 10 is this year's Christmas gift for family and friends!

This little boy's life is chronicled in a way that should only be told in fiction. John's story, unfortunately, is not fiction but the honest truth of a life discarded. The heroes in John's story include John and the many good people who touched his life and with a sense of justice, became his guardian angels as well. Alan Philps and John Lahutsky have partnered up to tell a story and raise the consciousness of all who take the time to read it.

I was inspired by John's resilience to extremely harsh conditions. For this very young child to have faced `an internat' where older adults were housed because there was no other place for them in society, and call out for adults who were going about their business trying to help, as volunteers in any way they could to relieve the boredom of an asylum. How could it be the volunteer role to save children? Isn't that the role of caretaker?

For all of us who have too much and want for nothing, John reminds that perhaps if we ever need to test our resolve and resilience, we might find happiness in knowing that this one little boy made it and with a little help from our guardian angels, we can too.

Alan and John, thank you for sharing this very inspirational story. Sarah, you are what many women aspire to become - someone who can take care of their family and support others as well by giving of yourself so compassionately. And, finally, to Paula Lahutsky, mother of John Lahutsky, you certainly did find the most loving boy to mother!! I can't wait for the sequel!!!

The story of Vanya/John from unspeakably appalling Russian "ophanages" to successful and happy life in America is totally absorbing. It reads like a thriller: I was so anxious to turn to the next page to see what happens next.
Whilst the story is very sad and at times I wanted to grab some of these cruel and unthinking people and shake them, it never wallows in "misery lit" but tells the story in a way that also celebrates the ordinary people who achieve so much in their quest to save Vanya and improve the lives of other neglected children. It is their story too and you do feel uplifted by this as well as disgusted with the state system in Russia.

I have heard stories (twice told) similar to those so simply and strongly narrated in THE BOY FROM BABY HOUSE 10. I mention this only so that if you pick up this book, you will have no doubt that what you are reading is true. This is an important work that serves as a reminder of the power, strength and resiliency of the human spirit.

"Baby House 10" is the nomenclature given to the institution where John Lahutsky was "housed" (if you can call it that) in a section reserved for severely handicapped children. Born with cerebral palsy, John (aka Vanya) was abandoned to the orphanage by his mother when he was 18 months old and spent the better part of the decade there. It is hard to guess what his fate would have been if not for the intercession of angels. Angels? Yes. There is no other term that can properly apply to a young Russian woman named Vika, who first noticed Vanya in Baby House 10; Sara Philps, the wife of a British journalist living in Russia (and who himself is the co-author of this work); and Paula Lahutsky, a United States citizen living in Pennsylvania, who ultimately adopted the boy.

The third-person narrative starts with Vanya's earliest memories and alternates with the perceptions of Sara and Vika as they first encounter the child and then begin, almost immediately, the nightmarish process of liberating him from the institution and finding him a home. A warning: early on, THE BOY FROM BABY HOUSE 10 is rough sledding. Even though there is a happy ending for Vanya/John, the description of his early childhood will give you walking nightmares, especially when you come to the realization that many, if not all, of the other children he describes do not experience the happy fate he did.

The casual cruelty that is related as occurring on a day-to-day basis is stunning as is the Kafkaesque procedures that Vika, Sara and, ultimately, Paula have to experience in order to get each step of the procedure off of square one. I found that I was only able to read a few pages at a time. This was not due to any shortcoming of the narrative, which is appropriately straightforward and matter-of-fact, but the result of my own inability to deal with what was casually inflicted upon these people. Again, I've heard these stories before, but this book gives them a new --- and very frightening --- clarity.

John is now a high school honor student and a Boy Scout. THE BOY FROM BABY HOUSE 10 tells the story of an arduous journey and a triumphant arrival, an arrival not without pain --- and not without love.

--- Reviewed by Joe Hartlaub

You hear stories about the conditions of Soviet era orphanages that are horrible but to read about it from a child's perspective is gut wrenching. I couldn't stop reading. The mindset portrayed of the staff is still holds to this day (2008). Our daughter is Russian-American (adopted 2008) and we spent 3 weeks in Russia visiting her everyday for 2-3 hours before final decree was issued. We met many people there who could not understand why we were adopting this child and who were also equally surprised that we were not "arrogant, rich Americans wanting to sell her bodyparts." At times I could only laugh in complete understanding the frustration of dealing with the court system and their multiple requests for more and more documents, then became saddened to think the caregivers would have told our daughter we were not coming for her as they told Vanya/John when his adoption to England was prolonged. Highly recommended.

If you have no idea what goes on in eastern european countries when children arent PERFECT you are going to be shocked, sad, angry and stunned. If you are a parent this is a must read. If you are human , this is a must read. this little boys AMAZING desire to LIVE AND THRIVE is unbelievable and so awe inspiring. a cast of characters come together to try and fight a broken system with cold ignorant ideas, to save a childs life. excellent book. you will be changed.

I know the girl referred to "Elvira" in the book. Sad to know what these children go through. The adopting parents are truly "life savers"!

This is a story of heartbreak, and triumph. John Lahutsky is an incredibly inspiring young man, whose story MUST be heard. This book raises awareness of the torment and horror that still exists for orphaned children in Russia, and the hope that is possible to save them. Contrary to what a previous review said, This boy IS special! His endurance and resolve to persist throughout impossible circumstances makes him an example of the true spirit of fortitude and survival that we can all learn from. It creates the motivation that will hopefully spur others on to help the powerless, less capable children in this situation.

John Lahutsky, the co-author with Alan Philps and the person portrayed in The Boy from Baby House 10: From the Nightmare of a Russian Orphanage to a New Life in America, is an inspiration for every person who has struggled to change the pervasive ills of institutionalization or society in general.

As soon as one person is lost or forgotten, the entire system suffers. What would that person have contributed that is now forever gone? A smile to their caregiver, whose sadness is brightened, who speaks encouragingly to a co-worker who expresses their appreciation to the bus driver, who goes home with a smile to greet their family.

Every person is needed in ways we do not understand, but John Lahutsky's effect on so many other lives proves we all have a reason for living.


Norene M. Moskalski, Ph.D.

This book was so hard to read. It broke my heart. It made me cry. I had bad dreams about Baby Houses. However the happy ending and John's precious spirit, truly a gift from God, were the reasons I finished it. Getting to hear John's story blessed my life.
We are adopting 2- 3 yr old boys from Bulgaria who would be moved to an institution at age 4 if we were not coming for them. They have Down Syndrome. To us they are worth rescueing.