Marlon Brando is regarded as one of the greatest actors of all time, but this lavishly praised gift of his was just one of many qualities he possessed. In fact, among the things you'll learn while reading his autobiography "Songs My Mother Taught Me," is that he was quite reluctant to talk about his career, frowning as he did at all the nonsense forced upon him as a celebrity. He much preferred to discuss topics which he considered genuinely "important." Readers most eager to hear what he has to say about his own performances and the profession of acting need not to be warned, though; thankfully, writer Robert Lindsey, who compiled this book together after recording conversations with Brando for years, insisted that the autobiography of an actor should, no matter what, provide insights on acting. Brando surrendered, albeit "with a reluctance that has never changed," as Lindsey points out in the foreword. Brando shares his opinions and afterthoughts on just about every one of his performances and movies, as well as his experiences with various directors such as Elia Kazan, Charlie Chaplin, Francis Ford Coppola and Bernardo Bertolucci, and other actors such as Montgomery Clift, James Dean, Vivien Leigh and David Niven (he claims that his film with David Niven, BEDTIME STORY of 1964, was the single film he ever made where he truly looked forward to going to work).
Even so, the burning neglection of his own work in films, which remained throughout Brando's life, is not to be ignored, and has sometimes been interpreted as arrogance, or a deliberate attempt to be provocative. Why should it be so hard for an actor to talk about acting once in a while? With "Songs My Mother Taught Me," the question is solved, and more than that. Brando simply was not comfortable being a star, regocnizable everywhere and never certain whether new acquaintances only viewed him as an opportunity to gain some status themselves. Brando has been accused of being irrationally suspicious-natured, but one easily sympathizes with him when he in this book expresses his disappointment in former friends who, presumably in need of a few bucks, embarked on writing intimate "memoirs" of their experiences with him. How could anybody not get slightly paranoid after a while? The only thing he liked about being a star, he acknowledges, was the paycheck involved.
However, also before his celebrity status began to haunt him, Brando's life was affected by insecurity and sadness: his parents were alcoholics, and he failed at nearly everything in school. For someone so infamous for his demand of privacy, Brando is surprisingly open in the book about his childhood disappointments, many of which may have contributed to his often restless lifestyle as an adult. He recalls the instances when he or his sisters had to run down to the police station to get their mother home during one of her drunken bowls; returning home, there was little understanding to be found from their father, who'd sometimes turn to physical violence. However, even though he does not attempt to hide the marks which these experiences left upon him, Brando seldom appears bitter. He obviously felt much warmth towards his mother, "a delicate, funny woman" who was once a stage actress herself and introduced her son to the world of literature, Shakespeare in particular. He finds it harder to be conciliating whereas his father is concerned, but seems to have learned to understand him better after his death; like his son, the elder Brando also suffered an insecure, largely deprived childhood. However, despite much unhappiness, there are many fond memories to be treasured in "Songs My Mother Taught Me" as well. One sweet anecdote recollects when Marlon, at the age of 8, first kissed a girl; he wonders if that girl may not have been the girl he should have married in the end. Another priceless story has Marlon, while in Military School being annoyed at the sound of a bell that rang every fifteen minutes, and deciding to do something about the matter, he wound up stealing the bell and buried it. The school had never been so quiet as the next day. Finally, a tromphet was located to replace the bell, leaving Marlon howling with laughter on the ground.
Most interesting to me personally were the chapters dealing with Brando's reflections on topics which he genuinely cared about. His involvement in the Civil Rights Movement is covered, of course, as well as his thoughts on the discrimination of American Indians that has haunted our history through the years. People accusing Brando of posing with his interest in political causes need not to do anything more complicated than picking up this book. He is obviously very well-read on the matters he discusses, and did actually risk his life on some occasions in the 60s and 70s, when participating in several movements supporting anti-racist causes. As for his private life as an adult, Brando has chosen not to talk about his children and ex-wives, not wanting to intrude on their right for privacy, but he does cover his affairs with women (using pseudonyms), and his frankness is almost shocking, as he seems uninterested in defending his less noble choices in life, preferring to portray matters as he actually remembers them. In other words, even readers most curious about his love life will find something of interest here. Brando also openly discusses his temperament, which, he confesses, during the majority of his life resembled "a bomb waiting to go off," but which he eventually learned to deal with better, as an older man. Meanwhile, he provides many insights on human nature and behavior which I found to be quite helpful in my understanding of myself, which is more than one can hope for of most memoirs (or books altogether). There are more detailed biographies on Brando out there, but the question is if more information is really preferable to a more essential, intelligent portrayal of a man. I'd advise anyone to go for the latter: "Songs My Mother Thought Me" is really the one you need.
(Review was somewhat revised and updated in May, 2012)