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3.0 out of 5 stars
alarming story, but could be written better, March 11, 2000
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This review is from: Breakdown: Sex, Suicide, and the Harvard Psychiatrist (Hardcover)
Alarming story of how a noted psychiatrist (who was obviously very sick herself, read the notes she kept on the case) was able to turn her own demons lose on an already disturbed patient. The psychiatrist was obviously baby obsessed and serverly neurotic after nine miscarriages in four years. Her treatment of the patient reads like something from the journal of a madwoman, in my opinion. the only complaint i have (i took this book out of the library) is the pacing is way too slow, the author painstakingly goes over the patients childhood and his sister's conversations etc etc, and the final outcome is only dealt with in the last few chapters or so. i think the writer could have written a much more engrossing story if she had paced it better and gotten to the heart of the matter quicker, after all the doctors' notes are the basis of the treatment. anyway i think the story itself worked well, and i enjoyed reading it.
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4 of 5 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Bean Counter Transference, April 7, 2010
A Boston psychiatrist in her 40's, Dr. Margaret Bean-Bayog begins treating Paul Lozano, an intelligent and driven but also mentally ill Harvard medical student who's in his early 20's. She decides that he displays all the symptoms of an abused child, though he has no memories of being abused, never told her was abused, and by all accounts (Except Dr. Bean's) was not abused. Bean then proceeds to subject this guy to four years of deranged therapy. She regresses him back to being a three year old during appointments which occur up to 5 times a week, and tells him she's his "Mom", and she'll keep him safe. She reads baby books to him (Goodnight Moon, etc.) and gives him stuffed toys. She refuses to meet with any of his family to the point that once when Paul's sister, Pilar, saw Bean in a hospital lobby and called out to her, Bean refused to acknowledge her and simply kept on walking. The Lozanos are presented as good people who are just sick about what's happening to their son and brother, but Bean tells Lozano that since his family is responsible for his condition, he should not contact them. However, Bean is not only his "Mom", she is also a sexual presence in his life, writing him EXTREMELY graphic letters, with highly sado-masochistic overtones, about her fantasized encounters with him. Fifty-five of those letters were found among Paul's possessons. And Bean openly masturbates during their sessions.
Paul Lozano, the patient knows she isn't really his Mom, but, due in large part to Bean's "therapy", he deteriorates to the point that he fades in and out between fantasy and reality and comes to "love" her, though what it actually is is just total dependence and sexual desire. There are basically no boundaries between Doc and patient. Dr. Bean keeps telling him that - as his mother - she loves him and will keep him safe. And she says he can call her any time day or night, she'll be there for him. So naturally, as she's encouraging his decompensation and total dependence on her, he does so, becoming increasingly needier and more demanding. Eventually, 4 years down the road, Bean decides she doesn't want to deal with his neediness and craziness any more, that it's too demanding, and she terminates their sessions. This is of course the beginning of an end toward which Lozano's been heading for a while.
He eventually commits suicide. His family, having heard Paul repeatedly expressing his complete love for "Margaret" and wavering between love and anger towards them, decides to investigate.
The book is BREAKDOWN by Boston newspaper reporter, Eileen McNamara. The story has almost everything a true crime reader could want: a Harvard educated and affiliated psychiatrist treating a young Hispanic man, extensive background on Paul Lozano, excellent writing, and extensive research. I wish there had been considerably more information on Dr. Bean's background, but she would not agree to be interviewed.
BREAKDOWN is not unbiased - it is clearly sympathetic to the Lozanos while the entrenched Boston community of analytic psychiatrists is presented as arrogant and in many ways dishonest.
Two quotes:
"...Dr. Larry H. Strasburger reviewed the materials (pertaining to Bean's treatment of Lozano) and was firm in his rejection of Margaret Bean-Bayog's methods. `Dr. Bean-Bayog engaged in a consistent pattern of inducing a dependent, infantile state in Paul Lozano...to the degree that he required her support, companionship, approval and love. This deviant course of "therapy" erased appropriate boundaries of the psychotherapist-patient relationship and violated acceptable standards of psychiatric practice."
And, reporting on the opinions of Dr. Paul McHugh, chairman of the Department of Psychiatry at the Johns Hopkins School of Medicine, McNamara writes, "It was a generic, and unsubstantiated, victim story that Dr. McHugh read in Dr. Bean-Bayog's records of Paul Lozano. A story written by the doctor, not the patient, a story that distracted Paul Lozano from identifying and coping with his real troubles."
Mine is the first positive review of BREAKDOWN on this site, but I found it fascinating and McNamara's writing intelligent. If the subject matter appeals, I highly recommend this book.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Important for mental health consumers, February 10, 2011
This is an important book, not simply in its illustration of a respected doctor who seemingly became unmoored, but in some of her colleagues' hustling to spin the embarrassing news.
It is the tragic story of psychiatry gone-haywire, a depressed Mexican-American Harvard medical student, Paul Lozano, unfortunately drawn into an infantilizing, eroticized treatment at the hands Dr. Margaret Bean-Bayog in the late 80s and early 90s. Author Eileen McNamara carefully traces the tragic path toward Lozano's suicide and its highly publicized aftermath.
Many questions will never be answered: did patient and psychiatrist actually have sex? Could this depressed patient have been saved under more ethical, skilled care? Was the treatment the cure, or did it provoke the disease? There was large evidence of an out-of-control therapist who damaged her patient through a distorted and sexually-provocative Mom-Boy relationship and mutual over-dependence.
Beyond this specific case are the larger issues. Aspects of harmful therapy are offered at its source: a depiction of a doctor's rescue complex, her bunker mentality and her fantasy universe. This book also is a cautionary tale about the irresponsible side of mental health profession. For not only did this doctor rationalize her bizarre methodology and its mountains of artifacts, but many in her community rushed to defend her, hailing Bean-Bayog their victimized hero.
Therapists sometimes can be so strangled by their own theory that they're myopic to the common sense. Study the photo of Bean-Bayog in semi-recline, slipped hips low on her chair, tenderly holding Dr. Bean Bear teddy to her breast. Her defenders even have a rationalization for that one.
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